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Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by Ginaz(f): 3:52pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
RockyEyo: 1) What is sex that is so much a big deal? Were you not thought sex education in secondary school? The fact you said I enjoy talking sex with him is funny? We could talk about past relationship and before you knew it sex discussions have started and all those things he would say always make me laugh. 2) You said it's a matter of time before we have sex. Don't you think we would have had sex if we wanted? We cherished our friendship to realise sex is not to be welcomed. ...cos we both are not pretenders not to noticed something like that could happen. it's a boy -girl situation for God's sake! But our self respects prevailed for self control to set in. As an adult, you should make your own decisions and have self respect and self value. 3) he's attractive and so? Is that a yardstick to sleep with him? 4) we talk about deep things like future plans, education, life goals, visions and so on. It is entertaining to talk with someone so intelligent. What's the fuss? You mean to tell me having a deep conversation is a crime? 5) things I can't tell my bf like "hey I saw some cute guy as I was walking by." you see that guy, he is asking me out" hey that married man is crushing on me".....you can't tell your bf that blunt truth without constructing your words so it doesn't comes out of proportion and misquoted with suspicious, Can you? But with someone like a friend you know you can say whatever, be free with words cos it doesn't hurt nobody. 7) even if I'm fooling myself, well, I think only about this moment. If I have feelings, I haven't seen any but God knows it's pure friendship. I live in the moment, for now we are friend if we happen to date like you said no big deal. keep your analysis to yourself. A girl and a guy can truly be friends. The world has lost its values anyway, everything should be about sex so it's weird if it doesn't 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by DukeNija(m): 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ginaz: All i saw in your post is a perfect description of a perfect love relationship. You guys will make a perfect couple. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by harbjar(m): 3:57pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ayomideen:To me its quite simple.... If it was ur boyfriend that got friend zoned... Then i think his heart might be somewhere else... U should confront him respectfully and talk this shit out |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by DanielsParker(m): 3:59pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
KreativGenius: Okay, and after her marriage? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ponti93(m): 4:11pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
davillian: ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibawon(m): 4:12pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ChizzyMaris:I have a female bestie and she was actually the first girl to be intimate with, but we not anything than bestfriends I know her guy and she knows my babe. If you don't trust your Guy, then bolt my dear, cos it all boils down to self control trust and insecurities |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ubunja(m): 4:23pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
saabright:so what do u want? a trophy? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by Nobody: 4:35pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
DanielsParker: Immediately she got married, i broke my sim and moved away. Once a female bestie has a bobo even before married, the right thing is to leave |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by GidisFinest: 4:37pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Guys do not need a female Bestie to Cheat, Find a guy with integrity, If you have trust issues, it is not to good for a relationship. I talk to female friends when I need to surprise my wife... I do not know your definition of bestie tho, If he opens up to her more than he does to you, then you are the side chic. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by DanielsParker(m): 4:50pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
KreativGenius: has a Bobo? aren't we saying the same thing? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by davillian(m): 5:04pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ponti93:And u are wasting time. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by tjdimmy(m): 5:06pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
'A Goat cannot be given the task to watch over yam' We joke too much with emotions these days, such 'friendrationships don't end well, someone ends up getting hurt. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by surgical: 5:12pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Marshalxv:Ere kilaja mbekun se |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by katerine7(f): 5:17pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Earthquake1:The day my ex bf played that card, i chose my bestie, if i want to date him i would have done that since, he has been my friend since childhood you don't tell me to choose, you can only tell me you are not comfortable and i will try my best to reduce the way we talk and see and not that i should delete him from my book. Kolewerk,once i friend zone you then it remain that way |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by Paulreports(m): 5:43pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
DELICATE AND PRECARIOUS ...He has to man up take decision or else...option/walk away. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 5:51pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
CaptainJeffry: Lol |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by idyexcel(f): 5:58pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Why does it feel as if I know the person behind this moniker? he was my colleague at work, neighbour turned bestie, who's girlfriend wasn't comfortable with the whole friendship thing. Once she sees us together she'll starts fighting and quarrelling with him. She even confronted me. I started avoiding him for peace to reign. She was feeling on top of the world, cause it seems she had successfully kicked her rival out. I lost a friend cause I didn't want unnessery drama. I think everyone should learn how to deal with their insecurities. If your boyfriend is enjoying another person's company more than your, then I think there's something you're not doing right. Talk to him about what you feel about the whole thing instead of attacking the innocent girl. There are time one is in a situation and needs the opinion of the opposite sex. So having a bestie doesn't necessarily mean they are having sex. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by Nobody: 6:00pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
idyexcel: On point |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 6:06pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
alexialin: Lol, so she friend zoned him |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by Ayomideen(m): 6:15pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
harbjar: You're kinda correct,rejection wouldn't totally clear out his feelings for the girl and there is a high level of probability he still likes her 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 6:18pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ginaz: Best friends or just friends? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 6:21pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ConcernedNL: He is still young. I had a female bestie till i met my girlfriend, who has become my bestie. Thats how it should be, if he doesnt change it could be he is just passing time, his eyes are still on "bestie" or he is just a young lad. Either way, try to be closer to him, dont nag. if its not working out, break up with him, every normal dude who wants to marry you will seek to make your relationship so close you woulf=d easily call each other best friends.... give him maybe 2 months to change, if he doesnt, suddenly break up and move on to better things. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by monex(m): 6:28pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ginaz: my points exactly |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by cutedidah(f): 7:01pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
what rubbish bestie is that ![]() you be dating and you can't tell each other shit about yourselves, what kind of bleeped up and strained relationship is that. what will keep you going in marriage is not only love but friendship. #become his bestie |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by InvaluableGem: 7:01pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ibietela2: Thumbs up for you sir. Simple English, the word 'best' describes her position among his friends including you. You are his friend and she's also his friend and he calls her best. Abeg what are you? Better friend or good friend? ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by InvaluableGem: 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ConcernedNL: Thumbs up for you sir. Simple English, the word 'best' describes her position among his friends including you. You are his friend and she's also his friend and he calls her best. Abeg what are you? Better friend or good friend? ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ibietela2(m): 7:08pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
InvaluableGem: good friend |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ken2baba(m): 7:18pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ginaz:most guys dat have female besties and could spend 4yrs without sleeping with them are mostly gay. Keyword = MOST |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by yommen: 7:37pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ubunja: I guess there won't be issues if you discover that your new girlfriend's bestie is a guy and they are very close. Bleep friendzone with bestie opposite sex. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ubunja(m): 7:39pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
yommen:i dont allow that. my relationship, my rules if u cant abide the door is open i didnt promise a democracy where all is fair. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has A Female Bestie... by ifex370(m): 7:50pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Ginaz: 4 years of friendship.. Why have you not gone to his house when he's all alone na... Kwantinue |
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