Radiant:

Jenny please go and sit down! What rubbish are you chatting?!

Why are you making excuses for the man? Why blame the circumstance on "he knows you don't trust him"? If anything the man should prove that he's not what she thinks of him but no he still goes about like a sick dog.

In fact, it is even the man who doesn't trust her. Why doesn't she have a phone, a job, not allowed to watch indecency etc? Perhaps the man is VERY insecure and would rather cage her than handle the fact that she could actually do more if she's given a chance.

What other evidence does she even need all you saying she should wait until she has enough proof? Isn't the hair and brown powder she found on the man's shirt enough proof? What about the one shirt he came home with instead of two? What about wearing the shirt inside out? For me that's more than enough evidence!

The man is plain wicked. Blaming the woman for his affairs - typical of a cheat! What happened to his first marriage? Useless man.

Pinky, if I were you I will boldly face my husband and table all my worries. Don't spare any of your worries. Tell him you're also not happy with him and the marriage. Let him know that there are things you don't like as well instead sitting there and thinking of how you can please him and he's busy cheating about instead of fixing the family problem with his wife.
Why does he want you to change? Why can't he be the one to understand you and probably change his ways? Why are you scared of him and beg him all the time? Who is he? You should only apologise when you're wrong and he should apologise when he's wrong. Stop making him a god!

Above all, you need to get a job fast. I don't even buy that ebay business. You need to go out and mix up instead of sitting at home waiting for the man to come home so you can wash off the brown and purple powders off his shirt!

pinkielove:

@jennykadry,pls dont judge me that i never trusted my husband, i dont like going back to tings that i ve dealt with and i dont know why you re commenting on my last year post.like i said my hhusband later actually told me himself that he knows what he was doing that time that he wanted to get himself very acqainted with his daughter first and make her feel at home before i can then come into the picture and thhen i can slowly get along with her and other explanations too which has been achieved now, pls kindly comment on my post or keep your opinions .tank you

pinkielove:

@jennykadry,i[b]f i were scared of criticism[/b],i would not be here looking for advice and how i would improve in my personality, you do not live with me in my home and do not know how things were in my home since then, pls i dont want to talk to you harshly.could you please let my post be?

@chaircover,i intend to handle them one after the other, the reason i posted the subsequent ones i wrote was to give a bit of a clearer picture summarily.the more i look out for evidence,the longer it takes for me cos he is careful and conscious of it.