eyinjuege:


All the more reason they will feel shy @your first statement. Women have bikini waxes and all sorts just to make sure any part of their body visible is on point.
If they knew their jajina looked nice when pregnant, they would flaunt it. But they know they smell awkward down there in pregnancy, they know they have some kin persistent urine smell from the stress incontinence in pregnancy, some have recurrent UTIs, even some have increased vaginal discharge in pregnancy (which is normal btw) so they know theyre not looking their best in ptegnancy, and would naturally be slightly embarrassed.
The secret and solution lies with the health care providers. Do you make them feel at ease? Make them feel its all normal and subsequently make them feel comfortable in their own bodies?
Some of us dont send and would open yansh yakata for vaginal examinations, but some women are more reserved.

Ishilove:

Hiaaaaaan...

Eyinjuege and TheArchangel, stop!!

eyinjuege:


Madam Ishilove,
Dont be scared..
Na so life be..
Its turn by turn...
We await your turn too

Sakie:

I can stretch my legs from here to Dubai just to see that tinny little bundle of joy....shy me
But that doesn't mean I am promiscuous and,not all women have all these things you mentioned here

eyinjuege:


I never talked about promiscuity o.
I only spoke anout opening yansh for vaginal examinations which is normal during labour.
I also spoke about why women may be shy about opening up because of the way they feel down there may look.
While not all pregnant women have all or even any of those things I mentioned, quite a no pee small small on their pants at a point in the pregnancy (stress incontinence), women normally have a normal VJ discharge which is more in pregnancy due to hormones, better blood supply to that area. It doesnt mean they're promiscuous or even have an infection down there.

mayorkyzo:
Vibration of 20k+ bees might have contributed...just saying..

divinehand2003:
Those bees have poisoned the little baby and killed it. Na who send her?

Explorers:
A mother who posed with 20,000 bees in a unique maternity photo shoot has suffered a still birth.
Emily Mueller, 33, revealed that her baby died in the womb over the weekend.



In a heartbreaking post on her Facebook page, Mueller details everything from when she first suspected there was a problem when she stopped feeling the baby kicking, to the the moment she gave birth surrounded by caring nurses and doctors.

'So many people awaited the arrival of our sweet famous baby who was the star of our wonderful bee maternity photo shoot.

Jesus decided he needed his own beekeeper and took our precious son, Emersyn Jacob, back up to Heaven with him,' Mueller wrote.



http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5090025/Mom-posed-20-000-BEES-belly-suffers-stillbirth.html

nittroboy:
She finally succeed

TheArchangel:
What sort of private hospital trains nurses? The hospital in question does it have a School of Nursing or Midwifery attached to it? How many bedded hospital is that? I am trying to discern the calibre of " student nurses " and the type of hospital that can give unqualified personnel unchaperoned access to the labour room. Most of this private hospitals are frout with uneducated, untrained and unqualified personnel that damages the image of legitimate professionals by their unprofessional misconducts.

Sakie:
Chai sooo sad...
Its not easy to carry a child nine months and have a still birth..it's very painful
I remember when I gave birth to my boy in 2016,was in the labour room with another woman who was shy to open her legs.
The midwives were just slapping her thighs anyhow
They knew the baby was nomore but were trying to make her believe the baby was alive hence the slapping.
I didn't know when I started crying forgetting my own pains.was really scared but my mum told me to be strong and keep on praying..thank God for everything
I still feel bad for that lady anytime I remember cos her family said that wasn't the first

TheArchangel:
She is shy to open her legs which may have prolonged the second stage of labour leading to the death of the baby.
I won't slap you during labour....I will never....it is your life and your baby. After proper couselling and education if you continue with the attitude. ..I will get your relatives to sign the CS consent form... no time abeg. Some women can frustrate the life out of you but as a professional some of us still keep cool while some lose it.

mekuso89:
Lord have mercy

TheArchangel:
If women knows how gross that place looks like during delivery they won't be feeling shy at all. argh...With all that gross slimy bloodstained drainage mixed with a baby of about 2-4 kg mass descending from a small opening that you doubt will accommodate it .

Who will even conjure a sexual image in a place filled with all types of machines and monitor beeping and with different types of hospital liquid filling your nose...from dettol, izal, methyl spirit to savlon.
Or is it the pungent and gall wrenching odour of savlon mixed with blood, amniotic fluid and vagi.nal secretions.?

Mothers should just ease off a bit abeg.

Explorers:
The family got to spend a day with the baby boy and took a record of his footprints

Sakie:
Chai sooo sad...
Its not easy to carry a child nine months and have a still birth..it's very painful
I remember when I gave birth to my boy in 2016,was in the labour room with another woman who was shy to open her legs.
The midwives were just slapping her thighs anyhow
They knew the baby was nomore but were trying to make her believe the baby was alive hence the slapping.
I didn't know when I started crying forgetting my own pains.was really scared but my mum told me to be strong and keep on praying..thank God for everything
I still feel bad for that lady anytime I remember cos her family said that wasn't the first

TheArchangel:
If women knows how gross that place looks like during delivery they won't be feeling shy at all. argh...With all that gross slimy bloodstained drainage mixed with a baby of about 2-4 kg mass descending from a small opening that you doubt will accommodate it .

Who will even conjure a sexual image in a place filled with all types of machines and monitor beeping and with different types of hospital liquid filling your nose...from dettol, izal, methyl spirit to savlon.
Or is it the pungent and gall wrenching odour of savlon mixed with blood, amniotic fluid and vagi.nal secretions.?

Mothers should just ease off a bit abeg.

peacettw:
This might sound wierd but whenever i am pregnant, i stick to the normal...this is not the time to try new things and definitely not the time to have some intimate moments with bees. For Pete's sake, noone has studied the effect of bees in pregnancy perhaps cos they figured noone will be so silly to invite them to a tea party

Sakie:
Chai sooo sad...
Its not easy to carry a child nine months and have a still birth..it's very painful
I remember when I gave birth to my boy in 2016,was in the labour room with another woman who was shy to open her legs.
The midwives were just slapping her thighs anyhow
They knew the baby was nomore but were trying to make her believe the baby was alive hence the slapping.
I didn't know when I started crying forgetting my own pains.was really scared but my mum told me to be strong and keep on praying..thank God for everything
I still feel bad for that lady anytime I remember cos her family said that wasn't the first