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How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 10:09am On Nov 22, 2017
Seriously what do they enjoy in their messed up religion?

I joined an Islamic chat group when I was still a foolish Muslim and even after discarding that pile of thrash religion I didn't leave the group because of a few reasons one of them being that I wanted to see things from their point of view and understand and not hate them but these days they post so much annoying woman hating bullshit that I might have to remove myself from that cavemen shit hole group. They were having a discussion about the politician that got killed by his wife for marrying or threatening to marry a second wife and the only thing they can draw up out of the whole saga is how Muslim men need to be more firm and steadfast in their determination and attempts to marry more than one wife.

How they shouldn't let the incident of one woman's jealousy discourage them.
One of them even prayed for Allah to grant him protection against the temptation of marrying one wife and having two children like many people are doing these days.
In this economy, can you imagine a person asking Allah to protect him from the temptation of one wife and two children like westerners are doing? Can you imagine the rubbish? How is that even a temptation, are times not hard enough for any sensible person to want a small family? Why would you pray against it?
Why? Because your prophet had multitudes of wives and kids so you want to do same regardless of the fact that you are poor and have no means to cater for a large family?
Why are many Muslims so stupid?
The guy in question who wrote that crap is not even well to do, doesn't have a good job or anything but he is already planning to take many wives and have an almajiri flock of children because Mohammed did it

One girl in the group managed to speak out and said OK its fine for men to have many wives (which I know she wasn't actually fine with she was just saying that shhiyt cos she was scared Allah would send her to hell if she didn't force herself to accept it) anyway she said it's OK for men to have many wives but they should make sure they have the means to cater for them

Wow, it was like that comment ignited a fuse in their cavemen heads, they all pounced on her and started talking about how following the Sunnah of Muhammed is more important than anything else, how many women are suffering of loneliness and depression of prolonged spinster hood, how men should not shy away from following the footsteps of Muhammed blablabla.

You see how Islam is taking away the common sense of people in that group and even Muslims everywhere? What the girl said was absolutely correct and no right thinking human being should even plan on having a large family unless your salary is in hundreds of thousands. But the paupers and job seekers in that group want a village as their family so they can adequately follow Muhammed fvvcking footsteps.

They don't even consider that marrying many wives will hurt the feelings of the women and likely cause friction in the families dues to resentment among wives and children and these kids will end up growing up in a disturbed and troubled environment, no. All that is not important. What's important is doing exactly what Muhammed did whether it's convinient for you or not..

Nobody said anything about treating your wives equally or fairly. Nobody said anything about considering the feelings of your wives before embarking on your polygamous journey, nothing. Because Muslims don't typically give a flying fvvck about women's feelings when it comes to satisfying their polygamous urges.

Their own God said it in the quran that men can never treat their many wives fairly or equally but then went right ahead to okay polygamy for men knowing fully well that women would likely suffer injustice and neglect in the marriages.

Muslims are a very funny set of people. Especially their women.
How can you be okay with a religion that tells you to work towards a paradise where you get to watch your husband ploughing 72 different women everyday?
Even inside the quran there is a verse where Allah insulted women by regarding them as creatures who are raised in jewelleries and cannot express themselves properly. That and many other derogatory things attributed to them.
Why did God or is it Allah not create men alone and give them the means to survive without women instead of creating women only to make them suffer constant abuse both mental, emotional and physical in the name of following his religion?

Anyway I started this thread to rant about what I read on that group. And I think am done now.

End rant.

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Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by PEPPERified: 10:16am On Nov 22, 2017
Thank God for your Deliverance.
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by sorextee(m): 10:18am On Nov 22, 2017
economic reality wont still stop them from marrying up to 4 wives,
when its the community that sponsors the wedding.
theres this crippled shoe shiner in my estate. hes squatting in an uncompleted building.
currently, he has 4 wives and 11 children. he said his goal is to have 40 children.
i asked him how will he take of them, he said Allah will. undecided
the children are knocking from one blk to d oda, asking for food.
these kids are easy target for boko haram to recruit.
bribe them with chicken lap since theyve never eaten it before.
then tell dem to go and drop one bomb somewhere, promising them when the mission
is complete, they will give them turkey lap.

the main problem with most northern muslim folks is illiteracy.
go to skool, NO
then they envy us who went to skool.
even the Quran sef, dey no understand am. i dnt blame dem tho cos they chant it from right to left.
they have to rely on their illiterate mallam to explain to them.

take polio vaccine, they will refuse. the child will now grow as a cripple and all they say is IKON ALLAH A RAYUWAN SHI KENAN undecided undecided

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Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 10:33am On Nov 22, 2017
PEPPERified:
Thank God for your Deliverance.

Yes thank God indeed grin
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 22, 2017
sorextee:
economic reality wont still stop them from marrying up to 4 wives,
when its the community that sponsors the wedding.

even the Quran sef, dey no understand am. i dnt blame dem tho cos they chant it from right to left.
they have to rely on their illiterate mallam to explain to them.

take polio vaccine, they will refuse. the child will now grow as a cripple and all they say is IKON ALLAH A RAYUWAN SHI KENAN undecided undecided

See, this is exactly what am saying. These people don't apply common sense when it comes to practicing their religion.

They want to do everything exactly the way Muhammed did it forgetting that we live in a different Era.

What does the bolder part in Hausa mean?
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by sorextee(m): 10:49am On Nov 22, 2017
it means its Allah's wish for him in his life

NLmember:


See, this is exactly what am saying. These people don't apply common sense when it comes to practicing their religion.

They want to do everything exactly the way Muhammed did it forgetting that we live in a different Era.

What does the bolder part in Hausa mean?
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Nov 22, 2017
sorextee:
it means its Allah's wish for him in his life

ok thanks.
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by enilove(m): 6:15pm On Nov 22, 2017
@NLmember , you can't blame some of the women while some are to be blamed.
Those you can't blame are from a very strong Islamic family and are aware of the apostasy practice.
At times​ , leaving Islam is like loosing all .

Those that should be blamed are those who when they leave Islam have little or nothing to loose because of their mix religion's​ background. These group of people fail to read the Quran and Hadith but depend on the teachings of their Alfas and Imams.

For example :
Volume 1, Book 9, Number 493:

Narrated 'Aisha:

The things which annual prayer were mentioned before me (and those were): a dog, a donkey and a woman. I said, "You have compared us (women) to donkeys and dogs. By Allah! I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in (my) bed between him and the Qibla. Whenever I was in need of something, I disliked to sit and trouble the Prophet. So, I would slip away by the side of his feet."

When you read hadiths such as this , you should know that it is not from God , if not from God it must be from Satan or man. With that kind of mindset , you will not be fooled to hell.

I thank God for your life. The Bible says in :

John 8:32 KJV
And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

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Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by analize701: 7:14pm On Nov 22, 2017
NLmember:

Yes thank God indeed grin
How did you get out? Aren't you in danger of being killed by these people?
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Nov 22, 2017
enilove:
@NLmember , you can't blame some of the women while some are to be blamed.
Those you can't blame are from a very strong Islamic family and are aware of the apostasy practice.
At times​ , leaving Islam is like loosing all .

Those that should be blamed are those who when they leave Islam have little or nothing to loose because of their mix religion's​ background. These group of people fail to read the Quran and Hadith but depend on the teachings it their Alfas and Imams.

For example :
Volume 1, Book 9, Number 493:

Narrated 'Aisha:

The things which annual prayer were mentioned before me (and those were): a dog, a donkey and a woman. I said, "You have compared us (women) to donkeys and dogs.



Thats just one of countless insults against women.
The men are sanctioned by Allah in the Quran to physically beat their wives if they fear that they will be disobedient.
Is that not the worst thing you can do to dehumanize an adult?

Note that nothing was stipulated in the Quran as punishment for men who maltreat their wives.

But there are countless punishments for women, from beating to the angels and virgins in paradise cursing them, to their ending up in hell.

Don't even get me started on the uncountable insults in the Quran and Hadith.
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 22, 2017
analize701:

How did you get out? Aren't you in danger of being killed by these people?

Am in no danger,thankfully.

I got out with common sense and actually reading the Quran.
Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by analize701: 7:28pm On Nov 22, 2017
Someone said Mohammad's hatred for women was as a result of his mother abandoning him very early in life when his father died and his mom couldn't cater for him.
The guy scraped through the ground to eat while living with his grandfather who later died. He went to live with his uncle, who also died, at this point, he turn to the streets as an urchin.

Hunger made him hate his mom for forsaking him, hence; he turned on women. But he dared not do that with Kadijat his pay madam.

Mohammard was Satan's target from birth. Satan killed everyone who could love him and left him bereft, preparing him for the deathly job ahead.

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Re: How Do Muslim Women Cope? by analize701: 7:28pm On Nov 22, 2017
NLmember:

Am in no danger,thankfully.
I got out with common sense and actually reading the Quran.
We bless God for your life and safety.

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