DaddyKross:

Don't flatter yourself

Any guy wey don dey beg beg like that, na only dogbo he wan dogbo. God save you say you no open because after dogbo like this, na you for kan dey beg am

dingbang:
truest of words bro.. But these fish brains will always be flattered

They are coming for you

Menhh, they never learn. They always think they have got the upper hand but men are always 30billion steps ahead.

DaddyKross:

Don't flatter yourself

Any guy wey don dey beg beg like that, na only dogbo he wan dogbo. God save you say you no open because after dogbo like this, na you for kan dey beg am

mikejj:
nice piece but some mugabe will not hear. they wil want to force it not beg self

DaddyKross:



They are coming for you

Menhh, they never learn. They always think they have got the upper hand but men are always 30billion steps ahead.

eneazi:




There was this guy who asked me out during my undergraduate days in the University he would have been any girl's dream man, but not mine. From my first to final year, and even after graduation he kept asking and got the same reply a huge 'NO' but brother was not having it, and saw me as a cold stone ice queen. He became persistent as the years rolled by and got same old reply.

A few years ago he was forward about what he wanted; something serious that would last a life time, and how he would like us to start a family and grow old together, well I told him it was not going to work out that I have never felt what he felt, and did not see myself sharing that emotion in the nearest future he started begging and was on the verge of crying, but I made him understand that even If I were to accept his proposal he would never be a happy man, and love was a strong emotion to beg for or compel, and if not careful someone might take advantage of his emotion and hurt him.

I made it clear to him that he was going to be hurt, heart broken and even hate me (which he did for a short while) but he deserved someone who was willing to share the same emotion with him, someone who was ready to start a family with him not out of pity, but love. As expected he was hurt and heart broken, but as painful as it was he saw my point today we are good friends and he is engaged to a lovely lady that loves him.

My point here is do not beg to be loved, know when your time is up, know when the ship is not sailing in the same direction, pay attention to little details, know the time to reasonably draw the line between effort and moving on, do not force yourself on someone that think less of you, worst kind of feeling is for someone to date you, marry you out of pity trust me you'll be miserable all through your life, if someone treats you like they are doing you a favour married or in a relationship with you then there is a problem somewhere. Love is a natural phenomenon and should not be forced or begged.


Source : eneazi..com

GoldNiagara:
What is the emphasis he was on the verge of crying, that makes you feel like some kind of wonder woman. As if your vital part is paved with unadulterated gold