Yusjayz:

Bros,4get that lady

Gabry:

I get sick and tired when the parents love intefering n their children's love life. For me, I would doi whatever I wanted to do cause its my life and Im old enough to make my own decisions. If one day my parents are gone, at least I wont regret doing what I was suppose to do in life and not letting other people control my lkife and telling me what to do

Kenny_G:

Actually Gabry they are your parents for a reason, and the reason they often interefere is because they actually love you, at least you dont see them interefere in your neighbours affairs, no parent will sit back and let their loved ones make mistakes that are obvious to them but overlooked by the children due to love-blindness,
Its like you complaining that your professor is interfering in your affairs when his sole mission in your life is to help you succeed, most parents can smell a no-gooder from afar afterall they've been there before and its only wise that they advise and sometimes compel their children to avoid the same pitfalls in life. Sadly though, we tend to ignore their advice, make the mistake, get hurt, wounded and run back to them for solace,

Agreed in a way but the thing is if parents are to be too overprotective of matters like this, how are their children suppose to learn? And the parents cannot just judge one's partner without getting to know the person better don't you think? Its not fair when parents starts to choose a life partner for their children based on their own criteria and their own taste without thinking about their children's personal taste. My parents were like that just cause my bf is black and Im yellow, they would just think that black is bad and white is good. God, . . . I told them that if they dont like my bf, than too bad for them because I love him and Ive made uop my mind to be with him and I dont care what they think cause Im old enough to make my own decision. If black is that bad, why did God create Black people? U mean to say Blavck people was created by Satan? If so, than why do many black people worship God and not Satan? I ask them these questions till they kept their bloody mouth shut!     

The thing is if we children made mistakes, we do have the sole rights to run back to our parents its because they are our parents and they are family. They are suppose to be there and support us cause they born us, na by force we wanted to be born on earth abi? and also thats what parents are for. Why else they become parents?[/b]

Gabry:

[color=orange] [b]Agreed in a way but the thing is if parents are to be too overprotective of matters like this, how are their children suppose to learn?

Kenny_G:

The same way you learn in skool, you take the advice of your professor as read, you dont tell him to allow you make your mistakes and learn from them do you?

Yes now so heres the thing. We take our parents advise and its up to us whether to follow it or not. If we make mistakes and wahala dey come our way, then we learn from it and try not to repeat the same mistake again. Beside we are only human and like what my father always tells me, if you think that life is hard, that means that you are actually learning something