A good and harmonious sexual relationship in a family is a cement that among other things binds the couples together, overlook several shortcomings in either of the spouse, put a quick, end to a disagreement however fundamental and protects and prevents extra-marital affairs. More importantly, a harmonious sexual relationship between spouses promotes health and lengthens life. Apart from infections and diseases, men rarely have low libido when compared to the cases of women especially ageing mothers. From experience, I understood that the main causes of low sexual desire are fatigue, lack of communication and intimacy in the relationship, lifestyle changes, getting older and physical or hormonal changes that come along with childbirth, menopause and even contraception. One hard truth is that up till date, there is no magic cure to low libido for husband and wife. The step to managing or combating this problem is to first know your problem and some possible causes.
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CASES OF LOSS OF SEXUAL INTEREST

Difficulties in areas of sexual interest between spouses are seldom discounted. In the circular world, each member satisfies his or her sexual appetite using sinful worldly members. Since the use and measure of sexual can be influenced by the devil. It is important to avoid this trap.

Four categories of loss of interest which are related will be discussed. These are non-exhaustive.

Hypoactive sexual desire disorder. A disorder in which sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activities are persistently or recurrently diminished or absent, causing marked difference or interpersonal difficulties. It affects 20% of women and 120% of men.

Sexual awareness discovery, persistence or recurrent aversion to and avoidance all or almost all gentle sexual contacts with a partner causing a marked distress or interpersonal difficulties

Sexual dysfunction due to physical disorder. Clinical significant sexual dysfunction that causes personal distresses or interpersonal problems and it’s most likely fully explained by direct physiological effects of a physical disorder

Substance induced sexual dysfunction. Sexual dysfunction that caused personal distressed or interpersonal problems and it’s fully explained by substance abuse or develops during or within a month of substance intoxication.

GENERAL CAUSES OF LOSS OF SEXUAL DESIRE

The causes of loss of sexual interest are:
Hypoactive Sexual Desire

Poorly defined hormonal environment, poor sexual aspiration ad motivation (i.e the thought of it)
Boredom or unhappiness in a long standing relationship

Dependence on alcohol or psychoactive drugs
Side effect of prescription drugs e.g. antihypertensive drugs and antidepressants

Hormonal insufficiency
Life-causes include
1. A traumatic effect in childhood or adolescence
2. Suppression of sexual fantasies
3. Dysfunction family
4. Deficient level of androgens (male hormones) tesiosone is needed by both males and females for sexual desire.
Sexual Aversion Disorder:

Sexual trauma: incest; sexual abuse and rape
Repressive atmosphere in the family sometimes enhanced by orthodox or rigid religious training
Install attempts at intercourse that resulted in a painful experience

Acquired after a period of normal functioning, which may be:
1. Partner related.
2. Trauma or painful experience.
3. Fear or panic (usually unrealistic fear).
4. Situation where the relation is incongruent with previous orientation.

Physical Disorders

Atrophic virginities (comes with advancing age)
Heart diseases
Diabetes mellitus
Hormonal imbalances e.g. hypogonelel, hyper prolactincemis
Endometriosis
General trauma
Infectious diseases
Mortigaancies/cancers
Neurological disorders
Multiple scioecsis/strokes

Drugs

Alcohol anabolic steroid, anti-hypertensive drugs. Anti-psychotic H2 receptor antagauatic opioids, sedatives and anti-depressants.

GENERAL CURE FOR LOSS OF SEXUAL INTEREST

It’s more appropriate to say management.
Hypoactive sexual disorders-find the causes and treat accordingly:

If it is due to marital difficulties –settle this
If due to psychological or psychiatric disorders
Due to physical disorder

A good counselling or series of counseling with a mature counseling will help in issues due to marital problems. It is best for both parties to explain their feelings. Loss of interest in sexual activities that may be due to other illness, should be handled by doctors qualified in such specially.

Aversion disorder
Remove the cause
Marital Therapy for Interpersonal Difficulties

Drug treatment for unreasonable fear or panic
Physical disorder –treatment of the physical disorder resolves the problems of lost of sexual interest
Drugs –the purpose of the drug may determine the wisdom in its withdrawal. However, when the drug causing loss of sexual interest is withdrawn interest returns.

CAUSES OF LOW SEXUAL DESIRE IN WOMEN AND SOLUTIONS

It has been proven that women suffer loss of sexual desire more than men. The Medical Associations of various countries confirmed that more than 50 percent of married women suffer from ‘female sexual arousal disorder’. Here are some possible causes of low libido in women, though some also apply to men.

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