follypimpi:

Funny how some ladies remember tradition when it comes to bride price.

follypimpi:

Funny how some ladies remember tradition when it comes to bride price.

chic2pimp:

Hehehe
No mind dem jor

Abi now

Diva 2.0:

That sucks!

bawomolo:

ha nice shot at the casual relationship crowd

bawomolo:

why not just avoid the whole bride price?

would a one dollar hallmark card be considered a gift? cheap and still fulfilling tradition

Diva 2.0:

Exactly! I mean killing twins was once tradition too and that didn't make it right.

chic2pimp:

That's what we keep saying. 'Tradition, Tradition, Tradition'

Most times it has less to do with tradition and more to do with the greediness of Inlaws.
Some peeps 'Bride Price' list are just Insane

~Sauron~:

So you would let your husband-to-be sleep in the bush?

Yes, if that is what tradition demands.

~Sauron~:

By the time you wake up next morning, desperate spinsters woulda banged his brains out.

follypimpi:

Funny how some ladies remember tradition when it comes to bride price.

Some guys pull the tradition card too. If she doesn't serve you the food on her knees, she's going back to her father's house lol.

well if its how u want to present urself to your inlaws then of course!

Missy B:

Lai Lai!!
If the only option is stealing . . .He should.

@davidchidi: R you a male or female?

If you're a female, how can you even consider helping your husband-to-be in paying your OWN bride price?

Where R you 4rm? Because if you were from my place (KALABARI) the women will finish you n your family with their mouth, and chase that husband-to-be of yours away.

Please, it is part of our tradition as Africans, so be wise! Assist your man in any other thing but Stay Far Away from your pride price.

Diva 2.0:



Some guys pull the tradition card too. If she doesn't serve you the food on her knees, she's going back to her father's house lol.

bawomolo:

most young nigerian men do not care about a woman serving food on her knees. you must be dating some sugar daddies.

follypimpi:

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Buhahahaha in what century ?? I really don't care if she serve the food with her a$$ up in the air,once she's God fearing & well behaved,nothin do us both.

bawomolo:


shiit most of my freeloading in-laws would be locked out from my reception at dodan barracks

Diva 2.0:

I don't date Nigerians

fifi09:

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@davidchidi: R you a male or female?

If you're a female, how can you even consider helping your husband-to-be in paying your OWN bride price?

bawomolo:


and you wonder why men treat you like property after marriage. those same in-laws chasing your man away won't help with the wedding bills.

Diva 2.0:

I don't date Nigerians and I suppose for the younger men believe they can have intimacy with her whenever they like even when she doesn't feel like it. I mean, she's his wife so it's not like he's despoiling her or anything.

Of course you all will deny it lol. I've heard stories lol.

ayettymama:

according to some traditions

they do!

how about that!

ayettymama:

exactly

its not a necessity

dunno why some men must complain abt absolutely everything that requires spending money!

bawomolo:

ha clap for yourself, i guess nigerian men are the only misogynistic men around.

keep on listening to tales by moonlight though.

Diva 2.0:


You shouldn't jump to conclusions too quick darl. Major turn off.

bawomolo:

quick question for the i'm so traditional women.

are you down with polygamy? shebi we are now traditional

bawomolo:

like what? paying for the aso ebi

bawomolo:

my bad so why don't you date these nigerian savages.   I'm different so talk to me  

bawomolo:

quick question for the i'm so traditional women.

are you down with polygamy?  shebi we are now traditional

Diva 2.0:

If he can do the traditional rites for all of them, sure.

ayettymama:

if u can afford many wives and have the heart for plenty trouble why not??

the family is bigger

ayettymama:

@bawomolo

if u can afford many wives and have the heart for plenty trouble why not??

the family is bigger  

gestapo:

@ fifi09

thanks, you can edit the email now, can i buzz you on yahoo ?