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Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:23pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
you have never been to an engagement ceremony before? follypimpi: ha nice shot at the casual relationship crowd |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by chic2pimp(m): 10:26pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
follypimpi:Hehehe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No mind dem jor ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by follypimpi(m): 10:27pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
chic2pimp: Abi now ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Sauron1: 10:28pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: So you would let your husband-to-be sleep in the bush? By the time you wake up next morning, desperate spinsters woulda banged his brains out. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by follypimpi(m): 10:29pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: Not @ all matey ! |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:31pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
lolz im just saying! its one thing i find intriguin about yoruba culture bawomolo: well if its how u want to present urself to ur inlaws then of course! Diva 2.0: killing twins wasnt tradition it was a fetish vodoo practice lets not get it twisted here chic2pimp:] yes but not all times is it greedy sometimes its an opportunity for the new 'in laws' to show off nobody will force anyone to pay anything its just a fun part of our culture if u dont agree with it marry how u want! simple |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Diva20(f): 10:33pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
~Sauron~: ![]() ~Sauron~: Then he lost the test. follypimpi: Some guys pull the tradition card too. If she doesn't serve you the food on her knees, she's going back to her father's house lol. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by H2O2: 10:35pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
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Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:36pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Some guys pull the tradition card too. If she doesn't serve you the food on her knees, she's going back to her father's house lol. most young nigerian men do not care about a woman serving food on her knees. you must be dating some sugar daddies. well if its how u want to present urself to your inlaws then of course! shiit most of my freeloading in-laws would be locked out from my reception at dodan barracks ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by fifi09(f): 10:39pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Missy B: ![]() ![]() ![]() @davidchidi: R you a male or female? If you're a female, how can you even consider helping your husband-to-be in paying your OWN bride price? Where R you 4rm? Because if you were from my place (KALABARI) the women will finish you n your family with their mouth, and chase that husband-to-be of yours away. Please, it is part of our tradition as Africans, so be wise! Assist your man in any other thing but Stay Far Away from your pride price. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by follypimpi(m): 10:40pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: Buhahahaha in what century ?? I really don't care if she serve the food with her a$$ up in the air,once she's God fearing & well behaved,nothin do us both. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Diva20(f): 10:42pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: I don't date Nigerians and I suppose for the younger men believe they can have intimacy with her whenever they like even when she doesn't feel like it. I mean, she's his wife so it's not like he's despoiling her or anything. follypimpi: Of course you all will deny it lol. I've heard stories lol. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:42pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: exactly its not a necessity dunno why some men must complain abt absolutely everything that requires spending money! |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:44pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: ha clap for yourself, i guess nigerian men are the only misogynistic men around. keep on listening to tales by moonlight though. fifi09: and you wonder why men treat you like property after marriage. those same in-laws chasing your man away won't help with the wedding bills. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:46pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: according to some traditions they do! how about that! |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by follypimpi(m): 10:46pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: I am not denying just saying the plain TRUTH. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:47pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
ayettymama: like what? paying for the aso ebi ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by H2O2: 10:48pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
@follypimpi thanks for that injection about casual sex. true stuff. these girls love speaking with both sides of their mouths. the inconsistencies of nigerian women are a huge turn off. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:50pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
quick question for the i'm so traditional women. are you down with polygamy? shebi we are now traditional |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Diva20(f): 10:50pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
ayettymama: Because they are too damn cheap! LMAO!! I'm support of the bride price and everything else that comes with it. You guys better do it to the last letter. bawomolo: You shouldn't jump to conclusions too quick darl. Major turn off. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:52pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: my bad so why don't you date these nigerian savages. I'm different so talk to me ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by H2O2: 10:52pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: ![]() nuts have broke ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 10:56pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: whoever is wearing the clothes will pay for it and eat akara?? abi?? according to my tradition the wedding is hosted by the brides family obviously most times people want to make it extravagant so they add thier own inputs @diva abi- i love trads anyways its gna be hard explaining to my persian husband why he has to fork out soo much|!!! @bawomolo if u can afford many wives and have the heart for plenty trouble why not?? the family is bigger ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Diva20(f): 10:57pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
bawomolo: Because all the Nigerians around me are either family, married or kids. Plus, I haven't really seen one I'm attracted to. bawomolo: If he can do the traditional rites for all of them, sure. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by bawomolo(m): 10:58pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Diva 2.0: for real, that's nice. ayettymama: me thinks you women are forming but there is hope for traditionalists like me ![]() |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by Diva20(f): 10:59pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
ayettymama: Exactly! Especially with each woman demanding attention at the same time. I wonder if the men from the traditional generation lived past their 50s. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by gestapo(f): 11:03pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
fifi09, please how can i contact you ? |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by fifi09(f): 11:09pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
@gestapo: Okay! |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by ayettymama(f): 11:13pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
lolz no formin here if the money is plenty why not share? |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by gestapo(f): 11:18pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
@ fifi09 thanks, you can edit the email now, can i buzz you on yahoo ? |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by spoilt(f): 11:23pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
Do you know how many women have paid their own brideprice to save face? ![]() The family greedily divides the spoils not knowing it came from their daughter's pocket. I do not believe in the whole bride price thing. . . . . Aside from the entertainment and refreshments that should be provided on that day. |
Re: Is It Good For A Woman To Pay Her Bride Price To Help Her Lover? by fifi09(f): 11:24pm On Mar 26, 2010 |
gestapo: Yes Ma'am |
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