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What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months / “My wife denies me my sexual rights”, husband tells court / Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Sexual Experience by smulti(m): 6:47pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
Aniekpeno11: this is exactly the predicament Op is going through, who knows you might be in a better position to proffer solution to what he is passing through as it stands his marriage is at the verge of collapse giving to the fact some posters have been advising him to take a second wife to complement the current one for her short comings . |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Pearl05(f): 8:50pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
I think your wife was brought up to see any sexual acts as sin. Her family might be one were love languages are not used or shown. Be a touchy, when you walk pass her touch her softly be it arm, shoulder, waist, face, hair, etc. Start kissing her checks for no just reasons. Walk up to her and kiss the neck when she is unaware, hug her even if she says no. At first she won't respond but with time, she will loosen up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by DukeNija(m): 11:03am On Dec 01, 2017 |
benabbey: I know this would sound weird but polygamy is a bad option. You are probably thinking, if I marry a second wife it won’t be adultery. I swear you will see the other side of your wife if you marry another woman. Women are stabbing men now o. You have other options bro. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by soonest(f): 1:34pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
Acidosis has said it all. Hardly will you find a couple with the same sexual drive, more often than none, it's adjustment and compromise from both sides that work. Op, your wife has low sex drive, it could be hormonal or psychological. If in happy times shes like this and you swear she enjoys it when you both get down then it's likely hormonal. I dont know the solution to this, probably supplements for women's sexual health. What i do know for sure is you will need patience, lots of it. She may not really change after all said and done but you will both settle for a compromise and the situation wont be as painful as it is to you now. Some days will be better and few days bad. We all have the cross we carry in our individual marriages. I wish you the best. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sexual Experience by mukhcech(m): 3:53pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
Acidosis: Thank you for ur wonderful contribution. I am glad people like you still find time to respond appropriately to issues on this forum. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by justsmile(f): 7:31pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
Acidosis: Where can I find a man like you with such understanding?! . Splendid! 3 Likes |
Re: My Sexual Experience by hope4life: 2:38pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
I understand your situation. Many of us Christian couples have had similar or near experience. Pray about it and be patient with her. Investigate if there is any reason behind it. A woman can be extrovert outside and comes home to act reserved to the husband. Prayer, Patience and Police(investigate) |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
benabbey: By all means, stay away from sex. If you are not against it, relieve yourself. Don't beg her, and do like you have totally lost interest in sex. Do it for as long as possible, she will be the one begging you for it. When she comes begging, give her terms. Let her start with a BJ. If she says no. Then no show. She probably was brainwashed that sex is food for men. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Tysam302: 3:21am On Jan 22, 2018 |
This is deep actually, but people have said it all in the comment section, I just hope everything changes for good for you both so you can live a all round happy life ....sex no be playing matter o |
Re: My Sexual Experience by frozen70(f): 10:19pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
benabbey:Sorry for that, try and engage her to watch sex videos with you she might get aroused. Learn to buy her little little things that might put her on Understand her mood before applying any sex related acts |
Re: My Sexual Experience by meemaa: 1:57am On Jan 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Sexual Experience by zed7: 6:46am On Jan 25, 2018 |
Always test drive. When you buy a problematic car, you either sell it or you continue to manage it till the end of its lifespan. From another angle, she may not be sexually attracted to you even though she loves you. Believe me it happens. |
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Re: My Sexual Experience by Water101(f): 9:29am On Jan 26, 2018 |
if your wife says she is a christian then she is a fake one.a true christian woman ought to be submissive,d bible made it clear that our body is not ours in marriage there do not with hold from each other it in corinthians.when she is ready to be a christian u will c change.Some women have weird sexually urge like forced sex(rape) may be she falls under that category.and some behave that way because they feel they want their spouse to desire them more filling if they give it often d man's desire will wear out.it d way some women reason. Em i don't think its healthy for u to tell her family some thing this intimate,though we all have different views.I just hope ur wife changes because she is open the door wide for d devil to have a sit in ur home.pray and commit ur marriage to God. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by BonnyWood(m): 10:11am On Jan 26, 2018 |
She is definetly a lesbian |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 5:29pm On Sep 30, 2018 |
For everybody that contributed to this discussion thanks so much, I think I am done carrying this cross, of abstentions in marriage. I tried relocation to another state in the south west ondo state specifically and only visit my family one weekend in a month to reduce my sexual demand but alas madam is not ready to give it just for weekend if I managed to get once I should thank my star. I think I am done with monogamy. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by CHoccolaTE: 8:35pm On Sep 30, 2018 |
benabbey: I think your wife is not attracted to you. Do you treat her kindly? Do you talk to her with affection, are you a caring husband overall? I am sorry about your predicament but I have a very good idea what the issue is. She isn't attracted to you sexually. Are you a handsome guy, taller or shorter than her? Its okay sha, I wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by sisisioge: 6:06am On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey: Oga, you have tried. Even she would understand your infidelity now |
Re: My Sexual Experience by bukatyne(f): 7:01am On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey: Hmmmm. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 10:42am On Oct 01, 2018 |
CHoccolaTE: It is not about beauty though I am far taller than her and fit it is hyper spirituality. 70 days is on going |
Re: My Sexual Experience by frozen70(f): 11:00am On Oct 01, 2018 |
If both of you were virgins and had sex for the first time of your lives, it will be understandable But if you have experience sex with others before getting married then something is missing Men can get sex anytime they feel because emotions are not attached to it Women attach emotions to sex You will see a woman initiating sex more especially when she is ovulating because the hormones are gushing out. Aside from that it takes some things to put a woman on Take out time to understand her mood, look out for things that keeps her in a happy mood Help her at home more than before so that by the time you initiate sex she must have rested and she would have appreciated your domestic assistance She can't be having all the work load and you expect her to turn on just like that Kole work |
Re: My Sexual Experience by mysticgal(f): 11:12am On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey: it's so sad you are going through this |
Re: My Sexual Experience by CHoccolaTE: 11:24am On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey: Ok Are you caring and affectionate to her? |
Re: My Sexual Experience by benabbey(m): 1:58pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
CHoccolaTE:Within the limit of my means. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by viettastitches(f): 3:54pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
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Re: My Sexual Experience by LadySarah: 5:44pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
viettastitches: Then she shouldn't have married or should have opened up before marriage so that a soln would be found. Its deception,this is wickedness! Has 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by CHoccolaTE: 9:53pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey: ok because women in general whether holy or unholy don't like sex with men who don't treat them very well. |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Nobody: 10:00pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
benabbey:dey doll yaself pasitos too get more than one wify. go to Brothel if you can't be polygamous |
Re: My Sexual Experience by Nobody: 10:02pm On Oct 01, 2018 |
illicit:you can't recommend polygamy but cheating, see ya life outside |
Re: My Sexual Experience by YetidStores(f): 6:53pm On Oct 02, 2018 |
benabbey: Sorry. She attends mountain of fire 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by NoToPile: 6:52am On Oct 03, 2018 |
benabbey: Your wife attends Mfm, I believe you also do 70 days has nothing to do with her not sleeping with you IMO this has started for long so for her the 70days fasting is just an excuse. One last one can you try to take up the matter with the marriage commitee/happy home ministry in your Mfm region/branch. Sebi you are worker. Maybe just maybe they can talk to her. Christianity doesn't support polygamy 1 Like |
Re: My Sexual Experience by DaGeneral(m): 8:18am On Oct 03, 2018 |
benabbey:If I say I feel you pain that would be a lie as I can only imagine what you are going through and I can say it's terrible. I have two very close friends that are in you exact same shoes both over ten years in marriage. Both very nice and intelligent guys. One couldn't take it anymore and he went outside he totally enjoyed himself and felt like a man once again but I tell you the pain that accompanied that pleasure his marriage is yet to recover from it in the last 5years (the 'kaya' that comes with adultery is heavy ooo but society makes it look like normal yet in their sober times they wish they never started). It's frustrating and heartbreaking but keep putting effort day by day physically,emotional,mentally and spiritually. Thank God you are Christian. 1Cor10:13.There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. The ball my brother is in your court but I plead with you don't expose yourself. |
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