thelostchronicl:

According to him "he's a business man"

A tag that shows he is still hustling or a scammer. I saved a friend from getting married to 'A businessman abroad" and 2 months later, he was arrested for fraud and jailed.

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Please close that door, so that another door can open for you. That man is wicked and not to be relied upon.
Remember menopause, and act accordingly.

Alas!, you summarized a novel in 2 lines! EPIC

obyrich:
Dominic marry am. Then leave am for naija go yankee. Dominic no come day show interest again, no dey give money as usual and now she don dey hungry for prick. She wan collect prick from one guy wey dey torchlight her for office. Abi make she do or not?

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

NL fairytale section

Your problem is not his absence but SEX.

Get a divorce first before satisfying your urge.

guys of nowadays, a guy asking a married woman out. girls will never learn still doing yanky marriage.

You want to enter from frying pan to fire, cheating is very dangerous and is sin. U have to bear whatever you see and pray for God's intervention

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

You want to hear the truth, maybe your guy is married to a white woman for citizenship and if he calls you, in the presence of his arrangee wife- he loses his citizenship, or maybe he has been in jail after his return back, for an illegal offence over there- you can't tell, you may be surprised that the money being sent to you is from your own friend using his name, just to cover up- and the calls he is doing is from the penitentiary free call system to families once in 3 months - if you cheat you wanted to cheat, and you have been eyeing the other dude- as this is, part of the package that comes with long distance relationships - dats all

Thelostchronicl don't cheat on him. Talk to him and his folks first, if he's not ready to change or take you to wherever he is, just seek for divorce and get yourself another husband. God be with you dear.

ud4u:
You want to enter from frying pan to fire, cheating is very dangerous and is sin. U have to bear whatever you see and pray for God's intervention

All this church people sef, una can gv people anyhow advice.

[quote author=obyrich post=63019307] Dominic marry am. Then leave am for naija go yankee. Dominic no come day show interest again, no dey give money as usual and now she don dey hungry for prick. She wan collect prick from one guy wey dey torchlight her for office. Abi make she do or not? [/quote lolxxxxzzz I swear with ancestors guy u dey maddddddd!!! See as u make me lafffff now wan wunjo my teeth

KardinalZik:
Arranged Marriage is not too good.

You married someone someone you barely knew just so he can take you abroad or so he could become your Money-Making-Machine. Now the opposite is the result. Worse still, you are about to tow another wrong path just to satisfy your sex urge. TWO WRONGS, THEY SAY, DO NOT MAKE A RIGHT.

The guy just married you to stop disturbance from his family.

STOP FALLING IN LOVE FOR MATERIAL GAINS!

She asked for your advice ,not for you to add to her problems.....if you don't have nothing to offer. Can't you just stfu? This mentality that marrying someone who stays abroad is only for material things really need to stop, what's wrong with you people self mtchwwww
Abeg flush

I believe like others too that you really need someone, telling people your problems doesn't mean it solved, PLEASE CALL ME ON : 08097000998, let's talk and find a lasting solution to your problem... don't give in to your work mate as he might become bone in your throat... I WILL HELP YOU, JUST CALL ME TODAY 08097000998

2months
How do u guys do it?
Anything less that 1yr close dating is not for me

Call him and tell him you want a divorce... 2 whole year without no sex as a married woman. You try.... Get a divorce and move on with ur life my dear...

thelostchronicl:

According to him "he's a business man"

"Business Man" like "Evans the Kidnapper" or "Nnamdi the Drug Smuggler" in Malaysia?
Which one naah?

Give Dominic some more time, he may soon be completing his jail term in Asia!
All that glitters, is not Gold

harmeadA:

She asked for your advice ,not for you to add to her problems.....if you don't have nothing to offer. Can't you just stfu? This mentality that marrying someone who stays abroad is only for material things really need to stop, what's wrong with you people self mtchwwww
Abeg flush

YOU are the one who should really STFU and use your eyes for what it was supposed to be for... SEEING.

Buchi: .....But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married.

I know 'comprehension' is a major problem with some folks around here, so l will cut you some slack.

Buchi thunder that has been disowned by God must fire you and your pu**y there. What happened to the Nigerian guy you were dating before you were introduced to an Asian based guy?

Oh I forgot, he doesn't drive Ferrari. foolish girl. Join a brothel, your age grades are there

Pls next time don't bring ur problem to public. You can go to ur spiritual father and seek for advice than downgrading urself b4 nairaland furum. Be guided and wise. I rest my case. Sorry for that

habsydiamond:
a good wife will always stick to her husband in any condition...if Ur husband is misbehaving, let him understand what he has done correctly him and move on from it....having sex with a man u is not Ur husband is a sin....so don't indulge in it....

And u think this your blabbing helps, and what do u mean by stick with the husband no matter what? Nna ehe I bow for this your myopic reasoning

Have u told or mentioned this to his family? I would rather you meet them and if there respond is negative ,then prepare your dowry and seek for divorce . Right now u are under obligation to remain his legal wife .

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

If you are not happy with your marriage and have tried everything to fix it and failed, then divorce him. If you cheat, you would be exactly what you accused him of.

I'm in Europe and it is tough here. You may not know what he's going through. So be very sure you have evidence of his wrongdoings and don't rely on rumors!

I have a very patient faithful wife who waited for me for 4 solid years to come home after getting my papers. Although we were communicating every day which helped a lot. During this period, some id*iot lied to her that I had a wife and four children in Europe. Another time, a crooked pastor (who didn't know us personally) told my wife at a ceremony that I had a family in Europe that's why I didn't want to come home. For you to know how evil some useless pastors are.

Fortunately my wife trusted me and she wasn't the type that relies on rumors or gossips, she prefers real evidence. That's one of the many reasons I love her so much. She's my rock!

So be careful what you wish for. Waiting for your husband or getting the facts right is the least sacrifice you could make in your marriage. Don't do something you'd regret later!

Call 08174480101....i will help you

My dear, I understand what you're passing through. I know how difficult it is with you right now, sex is something very important and necessary in every marriage. And I will not blame you if you choose to cheat even though it is not right, but if you must cheat, don't do it with some one in your office since you are married cause everyone in your office will soon know that you are engaging in an extra marital affairs. Trust me, that guy will Bleep you and tell his friends in your office that he is fucking you
. And that will not be a good one as someone will supply the information of your sexual affairs to your in-laws willingly. And by then, many people will not reason in your favor. If you were in my location, I would have loved to offer more advice and assistance to you on this matter. Please be careful so you don't become an object of mockery in your office and family.

These are the things one experiences wen you gilt a lover for an unknown person just cos he lives abroad. From her statements she doesn't know the kind of biz he does abroad. For your info na James Bond you marry.

The man could be in a prison. You have no choice now except u choose to disobey God. Remain faithful n continue to pray for him,that is ur cross. Have faith that one day he will comeback for u.

Niceguy123:



And u think this your blabbing helps, and what do u mean by stick with the husband no matter what? Nna ehe I bow for this your myopic reasoning

if my reasoning is myopic then u also need a microscope to see Ur own reasoning....everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion.....if u are not cool with someone's opinion, the best is to share urs and not to nail such person to the cross.....nairaland with negative attitude individuals are like 5&6....

thelostchronicl:

According to him "he's a business man"

I once dated a babe with exactly same story line, though I don't tthink you are the one.
I met her in her second year of marriage, we clicked and began a relationship. I got to know how sex starved and lonely she was and was more than glad to be the man in her life.
He didn't treat her right, he didn't deserve her, I encouraged her probe deeper, we crossed the Tees and dotted the I's and got to realise that among other things, the 'business' he ran in Asia was a drug business, he had once been convicted of drug pushing and had served time, he had a different name on a second passport, he was married with kids over there.
Eventually we parted cos I had to relocate but it was one of the best operiods of my life. No guilt dating a married woman( I am a realist), the sex was the best I ever had, the care was topnotch. I encouraged her to get a divorce, she is in the process. She has refused to leave the east, but if she does agree to come up here, i wouldn't mind marrying her
I wish you the best

That man is not your husband.
You will waste your great years waiting for his trifling ass to come back to you.
Divorce him and go fvck someone so that your head will clear.

Please why is nobody talking about STD? Madam no go carry AIDS ooo, na dat one go expose u nobody go remember say u were "sex starved"