We were not created to master our sexuality very early in life. We were created to master our emotions in submission to Holy Spirit. Pornography is evil. Why are you learning sex styles as a youth? It is pollution & perversion. You eventually become an unclean thing before God as a result of lustful thoughts. It will push you into the sin of fornication before marriage & even hunt your marriage. The mind of God concerning sex in marriage becomes fulfilled when you & your spouse don't know anything about it. You must be ignorant of the details of your sexuality before marriage because sexual expression in marriage was meant to come naturally & not by learning. Couples who divorce because of sex knew many things about it before marriage. If you have known many things already, marriage is not an escape route for you because you will eventually fall into the sin of adultery if you marry someone who doesn't know much or rather anything. Your spouse will seem not to satisfy you. Instead, genuinely give your life to Jesus Christ, burn all bridges connecting you to sexual perversion today, discipline yourself & submit yourself to the power of Holy Spirit to restore your original factory settings. Men & women of destiny guard their eyes diligently like Job who made a covenant with his eyes... God bless us.

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