Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Afeezoladapo(m): 9:20am On Jan 10, 2018 |
OoshaRe: This story finally made it to FP. It's a good story btw DAT makes it d 3rd time it's gracing d FP. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by skillz111(m): 9:22am On Jan 10, 2018 |
dingbang: Na wa oo...this kyn story...
How can a girl just say can I come over to your place just like that to a guy she hardly knows. yeah yeah girls do that it happened a lot to me during my uni days |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by dhabrite(m): 9:36am On Jan 10, 2018 |
This is really great and inspiring. I am a lil bit shy, but I guess with this I would definitely overcome it. There's no harm in trying. Thumbs up infant and all other guys that made the thread interesting, you guys just lifted up my spirit.
Gracias!! |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Nobody: 9:45am On Jan 10, 2018 |
This is no current news or even story... Why should it be moved to FP
Where's Divepen1? |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by legacyint: 9:59am On Jan 10, 2018 |
Abeg Bros park well make I use reverse park for that spot. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Favouragro(m): 10:35am On Jan 10, 2018 |
This could actually be translated to a movie been watched in cinema, I would advice infant makes approach to movie producer for this awesome story and make cool cash |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Mustack: 11:11am On Jan 10, 2018 |
OoshaRe: This story finally made it to FP. It's a good story btw this will be the third time this story have graced the front page. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Mustack: 11:12am On Jan 10, 2018 |
IAmXcessiz: Nice work @infant Great ending
BTW what's the title of the book Sylvia gave Christian, I'll like to read it if the book truly exist am interested in the book infant. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Mustack: 11:15am On Jan 10, 2018 |
dhabrite: This is really great and inspiring. I am a lil bit shy, but I guess with this I would definitely overcome it. There's no harm in trying. Thumbs up infant and all other guys that made the thread interesting, you guys just lifted up my spirit.
Gracias!! thank you for showing love |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Mustack: 11:26am On Jan 10, 2018 |
thanks y'all for showing concern and love despite the length of this story. I seek your opinion @infant to provide all viable link via ur blog for those who are infested to help you move them to FB to earn you some clicks..
always by urside my man @infant
one of your character in your story @mustack
rmb to put me along if you've cooked another story... |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by IBBG(m): 11:57am On Jan 10, 2018 |
quite captivating and interesting as well as easy to relate if you are an introvert just like myself. I've overcome most of mine like relating to girls, but the only one left that i am still trying to overcome is stage fright or public speaking in large gatherings. I hope to be as fluent as obama when addressing the public, so help me God. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by satmaniac(m): 12:26pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
infant: FINAL EPISODE
make sure you just don't read this story, work on yourself, aim to be great and you will be great.
THE END!!!!
Speaking about working on oneself, I noticed you didn't mentioned the title of one of the book given to you by Sylvia. You only mentioned one-Secret of ages. Sylvia didn't touch your life, tell her she touch my life and many other shy people reading your story. I have lost very crucial chances of being in a rewarding and lasting relationship from girls. Now I am thirty I wonder, if it is too late to make that needed correction. Shy guys should learn from this story. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Cameleon72(f): 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
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Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Peculiargem(m): 1:08pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Nice . You really helped me a lot |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
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Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Mustack: thanks y'all for showing concern and love despite the length of this story. I seek your opinion @infant to provide all viable link via ur blog for those who are infested to help you move them to FB to earn you some clicks..
always by urside my man @infant
one of your character in your story @mustack
rmb to put me along if you've cooked another story... |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by bolajinoni1(m): 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
wow.. I love this story.. nice one op |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by emperordachris(m): 4:36pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Oya...chris don land. Im also shy....will try to learn from christian my namesake in the story. Im always afraid that i might to turn to a player wen i started relating with baes well. But nevertheless i will try to do away with this before it gets late. Already lost a someone cos i was too shy to ask her out. This semester i ve to get to work ooo....
Sylvia sylvia where thou art at.
Infant nice story...i think u should sell the script to make money...i would sell i swear.
Nxt story biko |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Solomondan(m): 6:52pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
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Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Despirado121(m): 12:17am On Jan 11, 2018 |
What a meaningful story with beautiful ending. Tnx 4 sharing this with us. Kudos to u master infant |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by punche(m): 1:18am On Jan 11, 2018 |
sinola:
spot on!!! Don't know why you have to quote the episode in order to type these two words. Just increasing the number of pages unnecessarily... Smh. Great write-up Infant. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by phetto(m): 1:23am On Jan 11, 2018 |
infant: FINAL EPISODE
dedicated to everyone who followed this story from the beginning to this point.
E veryone gave the guy on stage a big round of applause when he was done. he walked back to sit on the seat he was previously occupying. The M.C went back on stage with a book in his hand.
"that was a great speech" the M.C said "now the next student on the list is Christian Owen"
My heart paused immediately I heard my name. I slowly stood up and walked to the stage. I turned and face the crowd. thousands of eyes were staring at me. my heart was pounding.
Christian you can do this. I assured myself. Christian be focus. I said to myself. I stared from one person to the other in the auditorium. my eyes suddenly caught Sylvia sitting at the back seat. she was staring deeply at me. she stood up from her seat and walked to the front. she located a seat in a spot where I could get a clearer view of her and sat down. she fixed her gaze on me but she wasn't smiling. I could get a clearer view of her from where I was standing. she was wearing a blue skirt and a white top. her white top had the words 'you can do it' inscribed on it.' I needed no one to tell me that she purposely wore that top just to encourage me. even when she's angry with me, she still came to encourage me. I couldn't hide the smile on my face. I was smiling broadly. though, she didn't smile, but she never took her gaze off me. Sylvia is truly one in a million. sometimes, you wouldn't know how valuable someone is to you, until you have lost that person. Sylvia is more than valuable to me. I wouldn't know what my life would become if I lose someone like Sylvia. it will be very regrettable. I better set things straight before it's too late. I will surely go to her immediately after this event and clear things up. the words that were inscribed on her dress boost my confidence. 'thank you Sylvia for being there for me'
I turned my gaze away from her and faced the crowd with confidence. I started by recognizing the presence of the minister of finance, the minister of education, the vice chancellor of the university, and every other high profile individuals in the auditorium. without wasting any time, I went straight to my reason of standing there. I spoke courageously. I didn't miss a single word I had memorized. I didn't paused for a second. I delivered the speech with confidence.
Everyone in the auditorium gave me a standing ovation when I was done. I felt on top of the world. the smile on my face was visible. I needed no one to tell me that I did a very good job. if I could stand in front of a large crowd like this and speak confidently, then there is no where I couldn't stand to speak. if I could start a conversation with the lady I saw in the faculty of engineering, and also maintain a conversation with the lady I saw at the garden of eden, then there is no lady I can't speak to. if I could be in a company of ladies like Sylvia, Sharon, Kate, Joy, among other and still interact freely with them, then I think I'm no longer that shy guy . there is still one thing left for me to do, and I will surely do it once I leave this stage.
I turned my gaze to where Sylvia was sitting and saw her leaving the auditorium. so she actually came here just for me. even when she was angry with me, she still came to support me. I need to set things straight right now or I might never get another opportunity. I left the stage and followed the direction Sylvia took. I went outside the auditorium but couldn't find Sylvia. I search in all the corners outside the auditorium but still couldn't find her. maybe she would have gone home already. I have to go to her place and set things right. I have no reason to remain in the auditorium. I have already delivered my speech so I'm free to go. I need to be at Sylvia's place right now. I have this fear that I might not have the opportunity to set things straight again if I waste anymore time.
I quickly rushed to the bus park. I took a bus that will convey me directly to Sylvia's house.
I got to her place and stood beside her door. I prayed silently that things should go well. I knocked softly on the door but didn't get any response. I knocked again and waited patiently for her to open the door. she opened the door a minute later. she glared at me when she realized I was the one at the door. she wanted to lock the door back but I quickly held the handle of the door and prevent her from locking it. she tried to forcefully remove my hand from the door handle but couldn't. after several attempt, she finally left the door opened and walked into her room. I entered her room and saw her facing the wall. she was backing me. I walked to her and stood behind her.
"Sylvia I........" I paused as I couldn't find the right word to say.
I held her right hand from behind but she forcefully freed her hand from my hold.
"don't touch me" she barked.
I tried to hold her again but she refused
"I'm warning you, don't touch me" she barked again.
I stood silently behind her, not knowing what to do next. after a while of silence, I finally spoke.
"Sylvia I......."
"don't call me" she cut in immediately.
I didn't know what next to do. I stood behind her without saying a word. when she wouldn't turn to face me, I decided to do it my way. I quickly grabbed her hand, turned her forcefully to face me, drew her closer to myself and planted a kiss on her lips. she froze immediately I did that. she stared at me open- mouthed and couldn't say a word. I didn't take my gaze off her. we stared intensely at each other. after a while of silence, I finally spoke.
"I can't hide it anymore. my heart might just explode if I continue keeping it to myself. I have to let it out" I paused and stared deeply at her.
"I love you Sylvia" I let it out
she stared at me with so much emotion. her face suddenly curved in a smile. she drew closer to me and wrapped her hands round my neck.
"I love you too Christian. I love you so much" she responded.
we stared silently at each other. her hands were still wrapped around my neck.
"I am......." I wanted to speak but she quickly planted a kiss on my lips. we kissed passionately. the kiss was so intense that I lost control of myself. I found my hands moving towards her thigh. all of a sudden, I raised the white top she was putting on above her abdomen region. she didn't stop me. she didn't even free me from her hold. she wrapped her hand tightly around my neck. her bosom was resting on my chest. our lips were still entangled. she dragged me towards the direction of her bed. all of a sudden, I found myself lying on her bed while she was lying on my body. one thing led to the other, but all other things that transpired between us in her room, should be left for the imagination. I knew very well that once I leave her place, I would no longer be that shy guy.
I won't say that I have totally overcame shyness, but one thing I know for such is that, I would no longer be that shy guy who couldn't speak in crowd, who couldn't talk to ladies and who couldn't do things he wish to do. because all that would be a thing of the past.
if someone as shy as Christian could control his shy nature, then there's no one that can't control his. atleast to a level that it won't affect their social life. don't allow that negative voice to always dictate how you leave your life. don't allow that voice to affect your social life. when you feel like doing something, do it without listening to that negative voice. if you love a lady, tell her how you feel. don't be scared of rejection. if you couldn't tell a lady you love how you feel about her, you will only regret it later. if you love a lady and couldn't tell her how much you love her, then you are selfish. do you know what those words could do to that lady's life, if only you can tell her. don't limit yourself.
being an introvert does not limit you from achieving your dream. it is believed that introverts are deep thinkers. if only you can bring those things you have in mind to reality, the world would be better than this. the world needs you. the world needs to hear from you. don't just leave those great things you have in mind to remain in your mind, just because you are scared of failure. bring it to reality. Everything you see in the world today, was once in someone's mind. the cars, plane, buildings and every other things you see today, was once an imagination of people which they chose to bring to reality. if those people decided not to bring what they have in mind to reality, then this things wouldn't have been in existence.
don't limit yourself. the world needs to hear from you. don't allow that talent of yours to be wasted because you think you won't succeed if you give it a try. you won't know how good you are at something until you give it a try. don't allow your shy nature to limit your potential. you are born to be great. be great!!!!
make sure you just don't read this story, work on yourself, aim to be great and you will be great.
THE END!!!!
Thank you bro |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Lordfranklin(m): 1:41am On Jan 11, 2018 |
Wonderful piece bro!
Keep up the good work!
Oh Lawd! I have just been exposed! |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Nobody: 3:09am On Jan 11, 2018 |
Bravo! This is the best story I have read on Nairaland hitherto. You have my respect boss! You are the boss.
Lalasticlala or whoever is in charge should move this educative piece to fp. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by Canme4u(m): 1:22pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Nice one @INFANT. Thats one hell of a nice story.
I like the fact that you keep it short.
Well done. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by akanbimustaphao(m): 4:04pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Thank you op for this great story... More ink to your pen and I'd happy if you can give us another �️ opening story. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by josue17: 5:17pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
infant: EPISODE 27
Dedicated to Gucciqueen38
I left the garden and went straight home. I got home exactly 5:55pm. I lay on my bed to rest a bit before Sharon comes. any moment from now, she will be here. I thought
I waited for the next 30 minutes but she didn't show up. I thought she said she was on her way already. I waited for the next ten minutes but she still didn't show up. I took my phone from my bed to call her. immediately I took my phone, her call came in. I picked the call immediately.
"hello Sharon, where are you?" I asked
"I'm very sorry Christian. I won't be coming anymore. I got a call from the course adviser that all course rep should assemble in school. I'm on my way to the school now" she said
"you are going back to the school by this time. isn't it late already. can't they wait until tomorrow" I said
"have you forgotten that tomorrow is Saturday." she said
"yes that's true, but whatever they have to tell you guys should have waited until Monday" I said
"it can't wait. it's very urgent. it's concerning the event our department is organising on Monday. The HOD wants to pass all necessary information to us." she responded
"oh I see. till Monday then" I said.
"yes. I will talk to you later" she said
"okay" I responded and ended the call.
I took a deep breath.
' the day of the event is already very close. so by Monday, I will be standing in front of a very large crowd.' I thought. I don't even know if I'm prepare to face the crowd. I have never faced such crowd before, so I don't know what it feels like to be standing in front of a large crowd. I have already memorized all what I will say, but I can't be so sure that my mind will not go blank when I see the large crowd. can I actually do this? could it be that my mind is only trying to discourage me. could it be that discouraging voice that is speaking to me now. Sylvia said that I shouldn't listen to the voice, because it will only get me nervous. talking of Sylvia, I haven't seen her since the last incident. I have to go and explain things to her.
I stood up from my bed, took my phone and left my room immediately.
twenty minutes later, I was standing beside Sylvia's door. I waited for the next 5 minutes before I finally knocked.
"hold on I'm coming" I heard from within.
she opened the door a minute later. I could see anger visibly on her face the moment she saw.
"Sylvia I am.............."
she entered her room back and slammed the door without allowing me to complete my sentence. I waited to see if she would open the door but she didn't. I waited for the next 30 minutes but she still didn't open the door. when I was tired of waiting, I turned and left her place.
I got home 30 minutes later. I lay on my bed immediately I entered my room.
'Sylvia is very angry with me. I need to look for a way to make her forgive me. she doesn't want to even see my face. let me just leave her for now. I will talk to her later, when I believe she won't get angry. for now, let me just focus my mind on the speech I will deliver on Monday. I need to prepare myself very well so that I won't mess up.
I took the book Sylvia gave me and busied myself with it immediately. I opened to the page that contain step by step guide on how to overcome stage fright. the book has really helped me, and I believe if I follow the guideline in the book, I will be able to face the crowd on Monday.
I read the book until 1am. I finally slept off when I was tired of reading, with the aim to continue when I wake up.
I woke up very early. I quickly took my bath and had breakfast. I busied myself with the book when I was done with all my chores. I made sure I practice some tips as I read. I didn't do anything else aside from reading and rehearsing.
The next day which was Sunday, I continued same way. I read until my vision became blur. then it occurred to me that I have over read. I couldn't sleep that night, because I knew that once I wake, it would be the day of the event. I was more than ready for the event, but I was still very scared. I was scared because it would be my first time of facing such crowd. I was sure I will do very fine if I follow the guidelines in the book, but that discouraging voice wouldn't let me be. it kept sounding it clearly to me that I will embarrass myself. the voice was doing no good to me, because I was already having headache. I tried to get some sleep for me to wake up early but couldn't. after 30 minutes of restlessness, I finally slept off.
I woke up hours later. I turned my gaze to the wall clock and realized it was 6:25am. the event will begin by 11am. there won't be lectures, so my only reason of going to school was because of the event. I had my bath and got ready for the event. I made sure I had enough breakfast. I left home exactly 10am.
I got to school 30 minutes later. I went straight to the place the event will hold. the event will actually hold in the school main auditorium. the number of people I saw when I got to the main auditorium made my heart missed a beat. the crowd was more than I expected. the auditorium was already filled up when I got there. the stage was already set for the event, and I could see some important figure already sitting on the high table. the minister of finance was already seated, and the minister of education was also seen sitting beside the minister of finance. the vice chancellor of the university was also seen on the high table. some of the lecturer in our department were seen occupying the front seat in the auditorium. the other two students that will also deliver speech were also seen occupying the front seat. about ten thousand people were occupying the seats in the auditorium, waiting patiently for the event to begin. the M.C was also seen standing on stage. I quickly went to sit beside the other two students that will deliver speech.
Five minutes later, the event began. The M.C started by recognizing the presence of all important figure in the auditorium. After five minutes later, the HOD went up stage to introduce the event properly. some lecturers also went up stage one after the other to speak.
now, it was time for the students to deliver there speech.
The M.C called the first student and he went up stage to deliver his speech. I was really nervous. my heart was pounding. I didn't pay attention to what the guy on stage was saying. I might be called next. can I do this? I asked myself.
Everyone gave the guy on stage a big round of applause when he was done. he walked back to sit on the seat he was previously occupying. The M.C went back on stage with a book in his hand.
"that was a great speech" the M.C said "now the next student on the list is Christian Owen"
My heart paused immediately I heard my name. |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by enonche85(m): 8:41pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
Wane2: Men I don't like too much drama in my life and at this stage I won't even talk to any of them Iron ni o!...I will just have to "poke" the both of them!... |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by enonche85(m): 10:38pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
kingxsamz: nawa o... girls nai just surround this christian... sylvia,kate,sharon...now this new girl... na to turn player remain. Na to "poke" all of dem na! |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by hidhrhis(m): 11:01pm On Jan 11, 2018 |
u guys shld learn not to always quote the whole story just because u want to comment I keep repeating the same thing everyday |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by skedy1(m): 8:38am On Jan 12, 2018 |
Dope!
Infant baptism, this is cool I'm over feeling it! |
Re: Life Of A Shy Guy by yusluvad(m): 2:18pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
WOW |