NifemiKolade:
Hello nairalanders, please I need y'all to advice me on this particular issue that has troubled me for quite a while.

Damilola was a girl I love so much and I promised myself she's gonna be my Mrs even though a lot of challenges rocked the relationship, we went stronger and does everything together whenever we are together. I am 25 and she's 23. She's schooling at a college in osun state, I'm in my finals at OAU. In one of my visits to her school, I told her we need to concentrate more on our spiritual lives and stop having sex till marriage. She agreed and said we gonna do it together, helping each other get stronger. After 2months,everything about her changed. She stopped calling and even her number wasn't reachable. I tried to get in touch with a guy who lives in the same hotel with her only to discover that the guy and her have been having an affair. I was so angry and dumbfounded cos she always introduce the guy to me whenever I visit saying d guy is a good guy.
I just moved on. Then she called me on my bday and since then, even though I didn't call her back since then I still can't get her off my mind.

Dear friends, how do you think I can get over her and move on with my life.

Guy d only reason d girl left u for dat guy is dat u stop avin sex with her nd she later on discovered d other guy could be giving it to her....


forget her, just let her go....think abundantly!

Rolex67:
Ayam fine.

What does your personal text say?

ibkkk:
I'm seeing this in a different perspective,honestly. You shouldn't have started what you cannot finish. You started having sex with her and suddenly told her you people should stop...you think it's that easy? Its as hard as weaning a baby

Sorry,sha!

Is that so?

iykekelvins:
What does your personal text say?

Its Spanish.

Op all you need is a prayer
Oya type amen to this prayer below

classicMan22:
look who is giving advice I have die

Keep laughing at your idiosyncrasies.

Rolex67:
Keep laughing at your idiosyncrasies.

I will laugh my dear,any advice u gave to anyone is doom.

BabbanBura:


Is that so?

Yeske

Its a lesson to you,don't start what you won't finish

I won't let you put me on a loooong thing
You hear?

Oloju kokoro ni e...gboju....if u've moved on....let her go there are better babes out there waiting for suitors....go grab Ur copy nowwwwww!!!!!!!!!

ibkkk:


Yeske

Its a lesson to you,don't start what you won't finish

I won't let you put me on a loooong thing
You hear?

Yes ma. hope say when i agree to stop fucking you won't turn to that guy next door?

BabbanBura:


Yes ma. hope say when i agree to stop fucking you won't turn to that guy next door?

That's exactly what's gonna happen.

ibkkk:


That's exactly what's gonna happen.

Then the op's way on point

Op everyone is saying. Let her go. Can't u just stop loving her!

But we both know it's not that easy, and especially if she's meant for u on the long run.

For now try remove your mind from there but remember nobody knows tomorrow and no one knows who they will eventually marry or end up with. Until the day of " I do".
Her cheating on u today does not mean she will forever cheat on u if u accept her back. It doesn't work like that in all cases. Relax focus on friendships and your career. With time, the whole scenario will be clearer to you.
My dear life itself is a mystery.

Rolex67:
Its Spanish.

U speak Spanish?

ibkkk:
I'm seeing this in a different perspective,honestly. You shouldn't have started what you cannot finish. You started having sex with her and suddenly told her you people should stop...you think it's that easy? Its as hard as weaning a baby

Sorry,sha!

How many you don weaned?