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Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by boman2014: 9:15am On Dec 17, 2017 |
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex. Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her. Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. Butonce a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband. For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex(true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you. The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him. If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can't detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts. That's why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating. Women can't handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating. That's the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times. Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have sex with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable sex with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife's behavior with regard to sex start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated. Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same. I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited sex freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can't wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives. A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women. Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near. https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10208563780846771&id=1676291773&refid=8&ref=opera_speed_dial&_ft_=qid.6500418040939436973%3Amf_story_key.-3463690346781123575%3Atop_level_post_id.1550399341706744&__tn__=%2AsH-R |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by Nobody: 9:18am On Dec 17, 2017 |
They cheat cos they lack self control and self discipline. |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by benzene00: 9:22am On Dec 17, 2017 |
same recycled old bullshit story Its not a must to be a writer go find a life 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by ExAngel007(f): 9:23am On Dec 17, 2017 |
talk is cheap |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by Lytech(m): 9:25am On Dec 17, 2017 |
How about women cheating for the sake of money... My cheating ex do tell me she was cheating bcoz she knew I can't provide all her need and she didn't want me to leave her bcoz of excess demand.... Your fact about guy may be true, but for the woman,i don't strongly agree |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by Akinbahm(m): 9:53am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Op are u trying to normalise cheating for HUSBAND in marriage and to deprive WIFES the right to cheat? Say NO to ChEaTiNg in ReAlaTiONshiP and MarRIagE..... |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Who are these kids on nairaland with falsa scientia trying to prey on the gullible. Unless women are less than monkeys, I know they will not buy into this teenage, early onset puberty driven,almost cliché and childish recycled bullshit up there. Men cheat because they want to. Women cheat because they want to. Give it any stupid reason you want to call it. They cheat because they want to. We are well tempted by our desires. Money, need to be loved, need for validation, need for children, need for excitement, need of a beautiful /handsome partner, money, name it. It is all from what we need. I don't know how many women were interviewed to come to the conclusion that women cheat based on love and men do so based on emotions. There are no scientific basis on the stupid conclusions drawn up there. Men themselves formulated this crap to pacify their gullible wives at home. In Africa the women too don't have a choice but to accept this as norm because they rely on the man 100% or are worried about their public image or what the society/families will day. Who says women can't cheat too and claim they still love their husbands? Men do this because this is Africa/Nigeria. The society is dominated by men and men are permitted to do certain things which if done by women, will be considered as a great taboo. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. The same way be begat the slave, so also the Freeborn. When we let the hawk perch we also let the eagle perch. I am praying that with time, the Nigerian woman will be smart, entrepreneurs, independent, intelligent, bold and discard any stupid religious/cultural sentiment. Strong enough not to cordone cheating. You cheat and they are done with you. That way the equation balances. It might seem like a man's world today, but women should note that THIS WORLD WOULD BE NOTHING. NOTHING AT ALL, WITH OUT THEM. Anyway, thank you for giving me the opportunity to kill some of the Sunday boredom. |
Re: Why Do Men And Women Cheat (must Read) by habsydiamond(m): 11:24am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Na economics we go take explain this one....when supply is lower than demand there is bond to be cheating..... satisfaction is the major cause of cheating... |
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