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Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 8:26pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Last year, I went for a scan and I met dis guy. A sonographer. He is cool and lively. Though I did not fall in love with him dat moment but as time went by I noticed he is unique in a special way i cannot explain here. Since April dis year I have dis deep feelings for him. I see him in dreams, I think of him every time though I tried to block him from my thoughts but I couldn't do dat. I don't know how to be in love means but I think am in love with him. Am contemplating whether to tell him or let it slide. I dont want to be embarrassed. Any time I visit d scan center, I ensure I see him .My present relationship is not working out. Am in an abusive relationship dat am trying to pull out from. I don't knw if falling in love again is a normal thing for me right now. Am soooo confused on what to do. I don't know who to tell since people tends to use ones weakness to criticize. At least nobody know me here so I had to voice out here. Pls I need matured advice. |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by NwaAmaikpe: 8:29pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
You are the worst kind of cheat there is, Your kind is the reason why no man should shortchange himself by being in a monogamous relationship. Your type crushes on her fiance's dad. You went for a scan last year (you were in a relationship at the time)...yet you were lusting on another man. I'm certain it's your present boyfriend that even paid the expenses of the said scan. The only reason your relationship does not seem to be working is because you have become distracted and are rationalizing why your insatiable lust is justified. Therapists advice people out of relationships to take their time before going into new relationships to avoid same mistakes, but you want to jump out of the BRT because you saw a newer LAGBUS not even caring to know if it is headed your direction. Well, You are a cheap, confused twàt who does not deserve the man who is putting up with you. Trust me, the sonographer does not need to scan your heart to know you are already throwing yourself at him. I pray he eventually gets to plug-and-play with you, and when he is done; trust me, he will discard you before even discarding the condom. 28 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by DivinelyBlessed: 8:32pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
I wont advice that you tell him straight up that you like him. Well, if he is mature, he can handle that. Just try and show him how you feel. Let him get the hint 1 Like |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by purem(m): 8:33pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by adontcare(f): 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
DivinelyBlessed:true though |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Fmartin(m): 8:34pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Love is not a crime |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Airtimex(m): 8:36pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
If you are of age, feel free to express your self... If you are below age, please ignore that feeling...konji can make you feel things that are not there... |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by IAMSASHY(f): 8:38pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Get closer to hm and b jst nice, flow wt mere frndship stuff first besides Hw sure ar u dat he isn't in a relationship, dnt make d mistake of confessing luv 2 hm, jst b nice, he wl get d msg and turn d table around if he likes u. 1 Like |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Harwoyeez(m): 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
u can let him know subtly and if u can handle rejection in case...in essence maturity comes to play |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by wtfcoded: 8:39pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Give him the green light |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by KushyKush: 8:47pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
There is a thin line between infatuation and love. Sometimes we just mistake both because our feelings are yet to be defined 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
When next u at the scanning place, smile while u say hi, ask him, how's today's work? Then chip in one or two funny jokes, when he laughs then quickly say hmm, u have a nice smile. That's cool. Most times am bored with work and I think u will be a good chat buddy. Can I have your number? Are u on whatsapp? Then smile again. Trust me, he will give u his number. Then pronto, thats an opening to getting close to him and know if he feels same like you do him. With constant chats, u will get to know if hes in love with u or not. And if he's not dating anyone. And if he's not in love with u, just accept fate and take him as a friend. Don't mind anyone saying u are cheap. You ain't married yet and your bf is unbearable. So my dear, do the needful. You can breakup with bf sef. Just pull out already! What are u waiting for? If I were in your shoes, I would have broken up since! I can't be in an abusive relationship. Not for anything in this world. I can't deal Abeg. So take the bulls by the horn jare, and collect his number! 3 Likes |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: RUTHLESS AND UNAPOLOGETIC NP Stonebwoy ft Burna boy 'sick inna head' |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by DOUBLEWAHALA: 9:11pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:you just displayed a raw stupidity why did you take it so personal why are u so judgemental and conclusive.....the lady stated that she is in an abusive r/ship so she has made up her mind to opt-out long time ago she now met this guy that has almost very thing she wants She is asking how will she go about it so guy why the insult? 5 Likes |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Guppyfish: Please risk it. It's worth it. Please otherwise you'll regret not taking your chances By the way sonographers exude one romantic feeling and calmness like that. Trust me, i also fell in love with one this year, but naa, didn't bother.... |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by omosiano(m): 9:16pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
the main reason u think u falling for this guy which i think is not love as u called it....is actually becos u aint getting it from the person u really like.....because if u dont like dat.person u wont be in d relationship in d first place....so u just looking to comfort ursef with this new guy which eventually wont last....... the only advice i can give though is dat ...dont ask him out first....or go telling him u like him.....unless ur misery just start be dat....dats all |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: This guy, you and your thought-life sha.. This is 100% TRUE = DISTRACTIONS WITH LADIES IN RELATIONSHIPS ( IT MEANS SHE WAS CHEATING EVEN BEFORE THE SONOGRAPHER CAME UP, AND NOT THAT SHE WAS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE THE MAN WAS BAD, BUT BECAUSE SHE WAS DISTRACTED AND WASN'T GIVING HER BEST ) The only reason your relationship does not seem to be working is because you have become distracted and are rationalizing why your insatiable lust is justified. 7 Likes |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Oxster(m): 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
And if you no get money hide your face#booked space,,comment below |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Op don't listen to them. it's alright to fall in love with who ever. you could start by chatting him up , but don't give away anything just get to know him and see if he feels the same. And leave that abusive relationship Biko, it's not by force. 3 Likes |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by adontcare(f): 9:25pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:two compound eeejots |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
adontcare: It's okay if my difference in opinion with you makes you abusive. Deal with yourself I'm sure you know why it pains. It hits close to home, fellow emotional cheat |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by olisehcom(f): 9:27pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Here to read comments. Nwakpamailke is savage |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by habsydiamond(m): 9:28pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
If u love someone the best tink to do is to express yourself to him or she ......cos u don't know if he or her feels the same as u.....Na Naija ladies dey get ego to express their feelings..all I know is that he or she can not kill u.... expression saves one from future regrets when it comes to relationships.. |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:32pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
alexialin:the truth is I had to collect his number. I do call him once am in d center. He had called me twice now. Just to ask how am doing |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:34pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Amakavula:tnx dearie |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:34pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:well it is ur opinion. Am not a cheat |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:36pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Guppyfish: You said so, not me Why be in a relationship when you don't expect the best, and won't give your best? Are you jinxed? 1 Like |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:38pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: 1 Like |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:40pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:were u dia all along? Mr judge 1 Like |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Guppyfish: 9:41pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Jupxter:so as u fell in love does it mean u did not give ur best in ur relationships prior falling in love with d said sonographer? |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Guppyfish: Your conscience baby, look how it keeps swinging you left and right. Na you talk say you no dey happy, na you talk say you dey relationship. Fix your confusion dear Don't dump this confusion on an innocent guy. I think you've found a shiny gem and want to dump the less shiny one though No loyalty, see why NwaAmaikpe was ryt? 2 Likes |
Re: Am In Love But Don't Know How To Let D Person Know. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Guppyfish: I didnt fall in love technically. I fancied her, yeye girl. I was dating anyone then.. Ntoooor, I'm 100% faithful and have never cheated nor double-dated even as a man...Deal with the lust in your eyes,the confusion in your mind, and the cluenessness in your head NwaAmaikpe abeg back me up. Is she a cheat or not? I'm sure that guy is the one paying for the scan O. Chai, men don suffer for woman hand. No wonder even Adam could not keep Eve, despite the fact that there wasn't anyone to cheat on, she still looked for something to cheat on him with. Blood of Wizkid |
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