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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Truth is bitter, must igbos sell their daughter?


Zombie if Igbo sell their daughter, why don't they sell it as second?
In this generation you won't see Igbo girl being second wive
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 1:15pm On Dec 18, 2017
Proudgorgeousga:
bride price culture is sooo ancient. we are almost in 2018 it should be about abolished. I m not property.



Zombie start it with your daughter
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 18, 2017
obryneblaque:

Selling your daughter in the name of traditions! Giving all sort of list for traditions sake? Wise up! I just pity those ibo girls as they will remain single especially this time that Nigerians are crying



Zombie married is not everything, there are to rich Igbo women/actress who chose to stay single and live happily, bride price is not their problem


Stupid Yoruba pig
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Arielle: 1:40pm On Dec 18, 2017
The groom in the picture is not the writer ohhhhh!!!!! Chai! The writer is Steve Que. By his profile picture, he looks black. Biracial at best. Probably American. In the rush to castigate the white dude who dared marry the black girl (whom y'all love to call names and abuse), you didnt see the obvious. I'm sure most of the people abusing him are in the "team foreign women" group. Na so. This Nairaland sef. Smh
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 1:41pm On Dec 18, 2017
benzion72:

Honestly i see it as encumbrance. Though I paid I never see reason for it. Nigerian make many things difficult for themselves. it is only in Nigeria you pay two years rent upfront for a house you have not stayed in enriching the landlord. it is only in Nigeria that wages are owed for 32 months why some people are paid every two week. Nigeria you they very tough.

Imagine no bride price and you pay your house rent at month end, imagine the number of young men who will marry their bride instantly



You're Zombie
What mater is the future of the family, even if you give them wives for free/carry out mass wedding, THEY WON'T STILL MARRY because that's not the problem
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 1:43pm On Dec 18, 2017
Quelle:
Twitter user, Stevie Que has taken to the platform to express his anger over 'Bride pride' claims Nigerians use every opportunity to scam.



He wrote;
Can somebody explain to me why the Africans have no class?? Why do they throw ones at people on their WEDDING they as if they are worthless strippers with no dignity ? Please explain"



He continued;;
"African parents sell their daughters as if they are prostitutes and call I️t a “bridal fee” or some other dumb shit just to get married... smh why am I paying the parents to marry their daughter? this is sick"
"Africans are known for scamming & finessing but this is just sick... can people be in love IN PEACE without you scamming for once.. I’m not paying nobody parents to marry their daughter.. they better be grateful somebody even wants to marry her"



http://www.lodgerill.com.ng/2017/12/not-paying-white-man-laments-over-bride.html?m=1






This is a very stupid² man.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by africanusvu(m): 2:01pm On Dec 18, 2017
Quelle:
Twitter user, Stevie Que has taken to the platform to express his anger over 'Bride pride' claims Nigerians use every opportunity to scam.



He wrote;
Can somebody explain to me why the Africans have no class?? Why do they throw ones at people on their WEDDING they as if they are worthless strippers with no dignity ? Please explain"My 4yrs in nairaland.this is the most childish post I be ever read.some people only got big dick but empty pocket.OP.u can Bleep around.but.to marry.u have to commit something



He continued;;
"African parents sell their daughters as if they are prostitutes and call I️t a “bridal fee” or some other dumb shit just to get married... smh why am I paying the parents to marry their daughter? this is sick"
"Africans are known for scamming & finessing but this is just sick... can people be in love IN PEACE without you scamming for once.. I’m not paying nobody parents to marry their daughter.. they better be grateful somebody even wants to marry her"



http://www.lodgerill.com.ng/2017/12/not-paying-white-man-laments-over-bride.html?m=1



Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by bamirotola: 2:05pm On Dec 18, 2017
GodDeyCraze:



Bastard Yoruba pig, the guy is not a White and bride price has never been a problem in the East, the last time I checked Yoruba boys are the once who always marry outside their tribe and Igbo guys hardly marry out side


By their utterance you shall know them! Hell is waiting for you bro, if u don't av tfare , ask daddy... Ewu
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 18, 2017
Daeylar:

I love this. Especially the part in brown
Thanks. kiss kiss kiss
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 18, 2017
GodDeyCraze:


Zombie start it with your daughter
idìot I have already started with myself
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by snowden9(m): 4:25pm On Dec 18, 2017
gloria34:
u made sense with d post. it shouldn't b used to exploit but u have to pay something. I've witnessed a case of a lady over 30yrs, her parents made everything easy 4 d guy but did not just give her to him. he had to do something. even d parent of some young girls contribute to their daughters marriage ceremony. it depend greatly on d parents so d issue should be 4 parents to reduce their prices not removing bride price
True that Gloria. If you ain't married already, i hope your parents won't keep you at home for long 'for the right price'.
Happy birthday by the way.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by benzion72(m): 4:45pm On Dec 18, 2017
GodDeyCraze:



You're Zombie
What mater is the future of the family, even if you give them wives for free/carry out mass wedding, THEY WON'T STILL MARRY because that's not the problem

I won't join you to use wrong word, if I call you what you called me you become one instantly without fail. Please watch your tongue.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by olmoRoc: 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2017
Quelle:
Twitter user, Stevie Que has taken to the platform to express his anger over 'Bride pride' claims Nigerians use every opportunity to scam.



He wrote;
Can somebody explain to me why the Africans have no class?? Why do they throw ones at people on their WEDDING they as if they are worthless strippers with no dignity ? Please explain"



He continued;;
"African parents sell their daughters as if they are prostitutes and call I️t a “bridal fee” or some other dumb shit just to get married... smh why am I paying the parents to marry their daughter? this is sick"
"Africans are known for scamming & finessing but this is just sick... can people be in love IN PEACE without you scamming for once.. I’m not paying nobody parents to marry their daughter.. they better be grateful somebody even wants to marry her"



http://www.lodgerill.com.ng/2017/12/not-paying-white-man-laments-over-bride.html?m=1



You should try to marry an Asian, a Thai to be specific, then you'd know that Africans do not really charge anything. Lionel Ritchie, and other stars have been brought here to entertain guests at weddings, and westerners gladly pay hundreds of thousand of dollars. It's only a broke azz that complains about paying a bride prize. At least our women might stay with you after paying, and she might refund your money if she chooses not to, but elsewhere, she could leave you the very next day without giving you a refund, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 18, 2017
benzion72:


I won't join you to use wrong word, if I call you what you called me you become one instantly without fail. Please watch your tongue.


Stop making stupid comments here
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Obdk: 5:26pm On Dec 18, 2017
MrsNwaAmaikpe:
ok
hope u dey mumu like ur oga
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by lexini: 6:10pm On Dec 18, 2017
Broke ass fellow!

Bride price high, bride price high, yet people are marrying every weekend even in ibo land!

Go and hustle!

Get paid and get married!

Money answereth all things...
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Habyz(m): 6:36pm On Dec 18, 2017
He says Africans are known for scamming, let's pretend to accept that. The whites are also known for there extreme level of stupidity, hypocrisy, immaturity to say the least and this madman has shown us the perfect examples. He wants to marry an African whom in his own words are "scammers" why can't he love and marry a white? #stupidity. He knows about our tradition of bide prices and he's willing to marry the African lady yet he still insults her parents and her continent. #hypocrisy. If he is not okay with the concept of paying a bride price why does he have to rant and and insult the Africans online? #immaturity.
He even said the parents should be grateful someone even wants to marry her! What happened to them whites hoes in your continents that you call women?
I still wonder why black people see whites as the better race. Call it hate or any damned thing I don't give a shit.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Silumi(f): 6:44pm On Dec 18, 2017
bughead:
Why pay for something that will cause you trouble in the future undecided


If peradventure I'm marrying those baboons called naija women, I won't pay more than 1k as her bride price! If them don't agree let her father marry her! angry


This days that women are piece of shiit
How many yard of shiit is your mother?
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:11pm On Dec 18, 2017
Macgreat:
grin

Sir Lugard, I agree with you completely. I will not pay any too.

Is a big scam, they got it from slavery. Africans selling their daughters to slavery since 1680.


Mchewwww!
You have sense.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:13pm On Dec 18, 2017
Endtimesmith:
This planet earth tire person,getting ready to walk into mars...
Not only you,cannot wait for scientist to open the portal so that my family and i can get to mars.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:20pm On Dec 18, 2017
Proudgorgeousga:
bride price culture is sooo ancient. we are almost in 2018 it should be about abolished. I m not property.
I can't wait for it to be abolished.Anyways brideprice is not allowed in our family.We don't sell our daughters as no money can truly buy her.People saying it is their culture as if culture does not change and evolve.

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:34pm On Dec 18, 2017
Jrevelation:
Sense in that man Nigeria has been scamming since the year i cant say What is bride price? When God give them the child did he charge them for it? Nigerians cant do anything for free

Even that their price bride is lost to one guy they cant remember any more
I have to agree with you on this one.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Newboss(m): 8:15pm On Dec 18, 2017
thickminaj:
It's our tradition.... If it hurts him so much he can go back to wherever he came from.... angry
So was killing of twins until someone was bold enough to speak up.

Africa needs to be freed from Stone Age! angry
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Daeylar(f): 8:26pm On Dec 18, 2017
Maezara:
Thanks. kiss kiss kiss

Just saw what the white man said about Africans, mtcheww, F. Him.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 18, 2017
I just read a comment of a rib being removed from Adam lmao grin

Anyways, the dude would have sounded intelligent if he wasn't dumb enough to generalise. I personally do not plan on being sold away like a goat

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:34pm On Dec 18, 2017
thickminaj:
It's our tradition.... If it hurts him so much he can go back to wherever he came from.... angry

Just like Christianity is your tradition and English your mother tongue grin

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:41pm On Dec 18, 2017
lovelygurl:


Just like Christianity is your tradition and English your mother tongue grin

Lady there is a difference between tradition and religion
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:42pm On Dec 18, 2017
nachW:


Lady there is a difference between tradition and religion

Of course grin

Woooh woooh

Let's start killing twins again grin

We have to keep our tradition alive

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Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 18, 2017
lovelygurl:
I just read a comment of a rib being removed from Adam lmao grin

Anyways, the dude would have sounded intelligent if he wasn't dumb enough to generalise. I personally do not plan on being sold to like a goat
Most people used to believe that shiit that males have one less rib than females, until Vesalius bursted that myth in 1543 that the number of ribs were the same for both.

Unfortunately, some ignoramuses still peddle that myth even today.
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 18, 2017
Maezara:
Most people used to believe that shiit that males have one less rib than females, until Vesalius bursted that myth in 1543 that the number of ribs were the same for both.

Unfortunately, some ignoramuses still peddle that myth even today.

Lol you know someone has nothing meaningful to say, if an argument is justified with the bible grin. You can justify everything with it grin

Anyways she might have been sleeping in biology class but her stories are dope grin
Re: Bride Price: Man Slams African Parents, Says "I'm Not Paying" by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 18, 2017
Daeylar:


Just saw what the white man said about Africans, mtcheww, F. Him.
People who make such generalizations are morons with cow piss for a brain. It's as ridiculous as saying all White People are rational, civilized and intelligent, when alt-right retãrds like Richard Spencer have followers in America.

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