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How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 23, 2017
own know about the relationship. And almost everyone in the t

That's when my anger started burning. In a bid to forget about her, I tried dating other girls but they proved to be sillier. Now I saw her posting photos of her and her new boyfriend on social media and I wish the guy hat I was never like this. The anger is eating me up because I did nothing offensive to her to make me deserve this nonsense. I'm not even thinking of any evil to befall her as that will worsen my feelings.

If you have ever been in my shoes, drop your advice here.

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by LordsBattleAxe(m): 11:02am On Dec 23, 2017
Ladies been ungrateful since 94 A.D. Truth be told, it's not easy controlling your anger,or even forgetting about it. Just get busy, something that will fill up your time, in order to numb d feeling.... hope my 2 cents count wink

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by habsydiamond(m): 11:12am On Dec 23, 2017
Why are u anger about an ingrate.....u don have to be...cos her doom is waiting for her in front na only make she enter bus go pick am remain....

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Lovetinz(m): 11:23am On Dec 23, 2017
Type this as SMS,
Send it to yourself
and Smile.

My ex? We’re not friends,
we’re not enemies.
We’re just strangers with some memories.

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by waywardpikin: 11:51am On Dec 23, 2017
Unfriend her on all social media, delete her number, those are the first steps. It's not gonna be easy but you need to let her go in your mind. The love and hatred you feel for her, let it all go. Soon enough you will start feeling this wonderful thing called indifference towards anything related to her. And that is when you will know that you are finally free. Wish you the best.

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Learnstuffs: 11:55am On Dec 23, 2017
The hatred is natural and normal. But you can handle it effectively by avoiding the girl totally. Surround yourself with other girls and friends

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by lilmax(m): 11:57am On Dec 23, 2017
"Ialmost can't walk freely in town again without insults as they keep saying I left who supported me in school. Please, tell your goonsthat I don't owe you a dime."



chai, bolded

it could take you years before you can forgive her.... it's all about forgiveness

all these immature girls self that have camphor in their head as brain, it sublimes

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by giftcardstrader(m): 11:58am On Dec 23, 2017
This Torry weak me

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by EscobarSnipes(m): 12:08pm On Dec 23, 2017
seriously it hurts me reading this, it reminds me of the experience I had with my ex. He said 'do you have money, where will you get it?' then she broke up, two years later and no recovery yet. Its painful bro, learn 1 thing from it: never sponsor a girl through school in the name of relationship cause you will surely regret it. Pray for God to help you recover. No hurt is too much for time to heal, dont rush into relationships now.

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 12:08pm On Dec 23, 2017
Lol...Guy forget it all and move on,u can spend some extra cash on a gurl,but nigga dont invest in her....she actually told you she doesnt owe u a dime?? Chaii! Had it been you sent your mum those money you spent on that gurl,blessings for dey choke u

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by LessNoise: 12:22pm On Dec 23, 2017
Trust me once you're really busy your body would naturally adjust to reality she's not there anymore...you'd be fine

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 23, 2017
i always say ds "a minute silence to those men who train a gurl in skul wit d hope of getting married to dem,thier reward is in LUTH"
Re: How Can I Get Over This by waywardpikin: 12:29pm On Dec 23, 2017
FiringSquad:
Lol...Guy forget it all and move on,u can spend some extra cash on a gurl,but nigga dont invest in her....she actually told you she doesnt owe u a dime?? Chaii! Had it been you sent your mum those money you spent on that gurl,blessings for dey choke u

What I always preach to anyone who cares to listen. Only invest in family. Until you guys are married don't commit financially to a woman. The person that wants to stay will stay. Only give what you can afford not to lose sleep over. I pray more guys understand that there are ravenous wolves in sheepskin out there masquerading as ladies.

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 12:29pm On Dec 23, 2017
CrescentMoon:
I trained someone in school for two years before I ran into debt. Though there were inputs from her family members like food, household items, etc. Then she told me point-blank that she was no longer interested.

As a matter of fact, I didn't grieve over the breakup until she did the unthinkable. We are from the same town of over 30,000 dwellers and I'm very popular there. I'm not known to ever date anyone from the town except her. So, more than half of the people in the town know about the relationship. And almost everyone in the town knew I lost some relevance.

Once she left, news broke out that despite all I spent on her, she left when I was down. Then she sent a message to me last month saying, "I almost can't walk freely in town again without insults as they keep saying I left who supported me in school. Please, tell your goons that I don't owe you a dime."

That's when my anger started burning. In a bid to forget about her, I tried dating other girls but they proved to be sillier. Now I saw her posting photos of her and her new boyfriend on social media and I wish the guy drops dead. This guy is innocent. What I don't understand is that I was never like this. The anger is eating me up because I did nothing offensive to her to make me deserve this nonsense. I'm not even thinking of any evil to befall her as that will worsen my feelings.

If you have ever been in my shoes, drop your advice here.




Remember her for the good memories. Also, take note that we don't hirt people we onced loved. It's the standard rule ! If you wish her ill, then what you had for her before now isn't love. If you love her, accept her decision, may God grants you the will and strength to move forward courageously and find peace, love and wholeness once again


Your consolation is the purity of your hands, your heart and the intentions you went with, this is more than enough for you. Stop seeking validations and put your thoughts together. Do not seek explanations, while it has ended, make peace within yourself and spend time with friends so you can create new memories

Get busy, learn a new skill, work,work and work. If your mind is occupied, it will help you move forward faster without dross

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Oxster(m): 12:44pm On Dec 23, 2017
Nawa ohh,,too bad

This de reason I always refer gals as bitches and# don't always be nicely to them
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Oxster(m): 12:46pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
Why are u anger about an ingrate.....u don have to be...cos her doom is waiting for her in front na only make she enter bus go pick am remain....


Nothing pass flirting and playing around oh

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 12:47pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
Why are u anger about an ingrate.....u don have to be...cos her doom is waiting for her in front na only make she enter bus go pick am remain....


Na wa o.. You dey vex gidi gaan
Re: How Can I Get Over This by habsydiamond(m): 1:16pm On Dec 23, 2017
Jupxter:



Na wa o.. You dey vex gidi gaan
I add my own vexing join the guy own so that e go plenty...
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
I add my own vexing join the guy own so that e go plenty...


I dey always watch out for your comment.You no go wound person o


If the oP imagine how the new guy dey knack am maybe him mind go quick heal. How you see am?
Re: How Can I Get Over This by habsydiamond(m): 1:17pm On Dec 23, 2017
Oxster:



Nothing pass flirting and playing around oh
this world don spoil finish oo
Re: How Can I Get Over This by habsydiamond(m): 1:19pm On Dec 23, 2017
Jupxter:



I dey always watch out for your comment.You no go wound person o


If the oP imagine how the new guy dey knack am maybe him mind go quick heal. How you see am?
lolzzz...I be gentle jack ooo
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Oxster(m): 1:19pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
this world don spoil finish oo

Na now u no
Re: How Can I Get Over This by habsydiamond(m): 1:20pm On Dec 23, 2017
Oxster:


Na now u no
I be dey think am B4 ni but Na now I just dey confirm am....
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
lolzzz...I be gentle jack ooo




Gentle indeed, your comments be like small pikin wey dey roll stone to knack bird down in its flight. Most times i read them, i dey laff my head off. E dey knack me off balance. Anyways, it's what i call the 24-25 years age range error.

If we find out more about the girl, you go see say na her age she dey play, but then, the problem with falling in love is staying in love, we men go thorrugh lots of work to woo a woman, before you know, someone behind you " seduces " her like how the serpent seduced Eve, offers your chick an apple, and she loses trust in you.

The problem with love is " other guys " talking with a babe you're focused on, the moment they do this, they scatter her trust and communication line, and before you know it, cowabunga !

Staying in love is harder than falling in love, but age will catch up with her, how do people think, one has been building bond with you for a while, all of a sudden you think the new dude on the stage would be more faithful, its why we call them fish brains

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by Oxster(m): 1:25pm On Dec 23, 2017
habsydiamond:
I be dey think am B4 ni but Na now I just dey confirm am....

U NV start,,lol
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 1:29pm On Dec 23, 2017
Walepackage, what's up bro. Longest time Sir..
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 1:38pm On Dec 23, 2017
CrescentMoon:
I trained someone in school for two years before I ran into debt. Though there were inputs from her family members like food, household items, etc. Then she told me point-blank that she was no longer interested.

As a matter of fact, I didn't grieve over the breakup until she did the unthinkable. We are from the same town of over 30,000 dwellers and I'm very popular there. I'm not known to ever date anyone from the town except her. So, more than half of the people in the town know about the relationship. And almost everyone in the town knew I lost some relevance.

Once she left, news broke out that despite all I spent on her, she left when I was down. Then she sent a message to me last month saying, "I almost can't walk freely in town again without insults as they keep saying I left who supported me in school. Please, tell your goons that I don't owe you a dime."

That's when my anger started burning. In a bid to forget about her, I tried dating other girls but they proved to be sillier. Now I saw her posting photos of her and her new boyfriend on social media and I wish the guy drops dead. This guy is innocent. What I don't understand is that I was never like this. The anger is eating me up because I did nothing offensive to her to make me deserve this nonsense. I'm not even thinking of any evil to befall her as that will worsen my feelings.

If you have ever been in my shoes, drop your advice here.
Eya. you are just hurting. And what makes it bad is you are bottling up your emotions.

Dont worry, with time, you will get over it. Time heals all wound.

Block her from all social network, delete all her msgs, barr her num from calling or sending txt to you.


You will be fine. Just give it time.

What you need now is a crazy friend., who will always make you laugh, who will make you see that your ex as an ass and who will even be teasing you about the failed rship join.

Let me even tease you sef...,

When you see her pics of new boo, Shebi the guy head dey look like frog head in your eyes?

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Re: How Can I Get Over This by ifyan(m): 1:42pm On Dec 23, 2017
Hmm

Guys should learn from this.

It's is very hard for ladies to do this to a guy without .......
Re: How Can I Get Over This by walepackage(m): 1:47pm On Dec 23, 2017
Jupxter:
Walepackage, what's up bro. Longest time Sir..
my man,i was carried away with some stuffs.Though,i seldomly check your comments.Thanks to stop by.I hope you are having a swell time and compliment of the season.
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 1:49pm On Dec 23, 2017
walepackage:
my man,i was carried away with some stuffs.Though,i seldomly check your comments.Thanks to stop by.I hope you are having a swell time and compliment of the season.




Compliments of the season to you and your family boss.

Once in a while remember to check, the world needs sound wisdom form folks like yours. Your contribution makes the world saner ....Have a blessed week Sir.... wink
Re: How Can I Get Over This by minexpo(m): 2:01pm On Dec 23, 2017
Bro just move on...time heals wounds
Re: How Can I Get Over This by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 23, 2017
winnar:
Eya. you are just hurting. And what makes it bad is you are bottling up your emotions.

Dont worry, with time, you will get over it. Time heals all wound.

Block her from all social network, delete all her msgs, barr her num from calling or sending txt to you.


You will be fine. Just give it time.

What you need now is a crazy friend., who will always make you laugh, who will make you see that your ex as an ass and who will even be teasing you about the failed rship join.

Let me even tease you sef...,

When you see her pics of new boo, Shebi the guy head dey look like frog head in your eyes?

Ahahaha let him catch u. This your moniker caught my attention; are you a member of Living Faith Church? Bishop is my role model.

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