Dimples129:


That was the female I was talking about. You're association with love is to shut down, ask yourself why? Why do I associate these feelings with this experience. Everyone reacts differently, find out why you do what you do... just reflect a few minutes per day, feel the feelings and understand them instead of rejecting them.

I become mean when I have a crush on a guy... I reject it's self defeating and I'm trying to understand why So.. reflection helps and being mindful instead of auto-pilot mode where you're emotions drive you...

lol thanks, your contribution is kinda different like you aint nigerian

Troubledmind:
so wisdom and fun is all you seek in a potential partner

Not all, I just used that as examples.

NLevents:


Are we really having this conversation? Your personal lifestyle is not a yardstick to judge this matter miss Debbie

I don't like the generalization and prejudice.

makydebbie:
Not all, I just used that as examples.

I don't like the generalization and prejudice.

The generalization is actually a proven fact. You can take a walk around this thread and you'll see for yourself miss

Kylestone:





nigga ur problem is solved...get dis

don't tell me its another ebook on how to get laid and fool girls

step out of your comfort zone,interact with the opposite sex,and i think one of your major problem is u see the girls u admire above your class yeah that's how u view them from what I could pick from your write up...
Try to change the way u view this super cute babes which your inner self keeps telling u they 're above u, just see them as normal people u could approach and start a conversation with I know it not going to be easy but u just have to step out of your comfort zone.

Troubledmind:
lol thanks, your contribution is kinda different like you aint nigerian

You are welcome

Good luck. It's all about self acceptance and self love and the world will smile back at ya..

Troubledmind:
I shiver,
My legs wobble,
Shortness of breath,
Trembling voice,
Elevated heartbeat,
Anxiety and restlessness,
I need help, I am 25 and never had a girlfriend nor have I had sex

Only you all these symptoms?
Have you tried taking alcohol, just a little that won't get you drunk, just before talking to a lady.

makydebbie:
I wouldn't like a guy whose confidence is because he thinks he's rich. He'll be very surprised because money doesn't move me no matter what you guys say or think about girls. Who cares about your money when I'm making mine?

@Bold How much are u worth, that money won't move u?
B!tch!!!

makydebbie:
And when the money finishes?

jamb question. You find more na

jamariwolf:
Only you all these symptoms?
Have you tried taking alcohol, just a little that won't get you drunk, just before talking to a lady.

and how long can someone keep up with that, what about the risk of alcohol addiction

Rubbiish:

@Bold How much are u worth, that money won't move u?
B!tch!!!

Stop hyperventilating on my posts, if you want to live long. I don't know or care about your existence, but you keep trolling me. Channel this hate to something positive and 2018 will be a better year for you.

Cheers!

Rubbiish:

@Bold How much are u worth, that money won't move u?
B!tch!!!

easy bro, she doesn't necessarily need to be worth a penny to know herself or make that comment

jamariwolf:
jamb question. You find more na

I agree.

dmgr:
step out of your comfort zone,interact with the opposite sex,and i think one of your major problem is u see the girls u admire above your class yeah that's how u view them from what I could pick from your write up...
Try to change the way u view this super cute babes which your inner self keeps telling u they 're above u, just see them as normal people u could approach and start a conversation with I know it not going to be easy but u just have to step out of your comfort zone.

there's sense in this, but it looks like you're suggesting I become puffed up with pride or start looking down on girls

Troubledmind:
and how long can someone keep up with that, what about the risk of alcohol addiction

not everyday. Read what I wrote again.

, just a little that won't get you drunk

Do you think your favorite artists go on stage to perform without the help of alcohol or weed?
Think again.
Everyone has that occassional feeling, you must know how to manage yours.

visit HARDON thread and you will never remain the same
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

Troubledmind:
there's sense in this, but it looks like you're suggesting I become puffed up with pride or start looking down on girls

Nah..not at all,what I meant was,u should change the way u view those super cute babes u get nervous approaching...U said something up their that u don't have problem talking to girls except the once u admire right? so changing the way u view those girls u admire will help to boost your confidence to approach any kind of lady.

Troubledmind:
easy bro, she doesn't necessarily need to be worth a penny to know herself or make that comment

@bold u think so?
Have u ever seen a wretched man more confident than a rich man in an occassion?
Countless times we have seen ladies coming out from all over d globe begging wizkid to impregnate them, u think there are no dudes in their hood?

dmgr:


Nah..not at all,what I meant was,u should change the way u view those super cute babes u get nervous approaching...U said something up their that u don't have problem talking to girls except the once u admire right? so changing the way u view those girls u admire will help to boost your confidence to approach any kind of lady.

makes sense thanks

Rubbiish:

@bold u think so?
Have u ever seen a wretched man more confident than a rich man in an occassion?
Countless times we have seen ladies coming out from all over d globe begging wizkid to impregnate them, u think there are no dudes in their hood?

lol what happened to self love

makydebbie:
Stop hyperventilating on my posts, if you want to live long. I don't know or care about your existence, but you keep trolling me. Channel this hate to something positive and 2018 will be a better year for you.

Cheers!

B!tch i hate u not, i have got no reason to do that...I only told u the truth...You worth nothing...
& Will always fall for the cash like d rest of your kind...

take enough alcohol, not the one that will intoxicate you. it will boost your morale.

[quote author=Troubledmind post=63631229]I shiver, My legs wobble, Shortness of breath, Trembling voice, Elevated heartbeat, Anxiety and restlessness, I need help, I am 25 and never had a girlfriend nor have I had sex[/quote

Do you mind if I mentor you??

Troubledmind:
lol what happened to self love

Self love isn't enough in our present day society...Even mad people got self love...
Your thread already suggest your level of wealth...There is a level of wealth u will maintain & them b!tches will chase u...

Rubbiish:

Self love isn't enough in our present day society...Even mad people got self love...
Your thread already suggest your level of wealth...There is a level of wealth u will maintain & them b!tches will chase u...

lol how did you know my level of wealth

Purebeerry:
Before nko, who wan suffer? see me o.

I pity you! Can't you work for your own money?

[quote author=KingsJohnson post=63633673][/quote]I don't mind

Troubledmind:
I don't mind

Put down ur number codely n I will mentor on WhatsApp till you are gud

makydebbie:
I agree.

Is it necessary to also be friends with the girl you like friends? even if you dont like them?

Rubbiish:

B!tch i hate u not, i have got no reason to do that...I only told u the truth...You worth nothing...
& Will always fall for the cash like d rest of your kind...

Have you noticed this is the first time I'm replying your mention? Stop trolling me.
Leave me and my post alone, I was in a conversation with someone. But my post will always pepper you. So much emotion for me, use it for something positive.

Deicide:
Is it necessary to also be friends with the girl you like friends? even if you dont like them?

I actually insisted because the op is very shy to meet the girl and a friend could help. And what if the girl in question is engaged or in a relationship? The op will be really devastated after all the effort.
It's not necessary dear.