Through this international online dating site called LoveMe, I got into a relationship with this woman from the Philippines. She’s been planning on immigrating to the United States and starting a new life. We’ve been dating online for more than a year now and we’ve decided that it’s about time to see each other in personI made travel arrangements to the Philippines and sta.

yed at her hometown for about a week or so. I had a such a good time with her that I decided to surprise her with an airplane ticket coming here for her to visit me. She was thrilled and surprised that she will finally get to travel abroad and experience a new environment.

A couple of weeks passed by and while we would talk over video chat, she would bring up the topic of moving in together. With her long-time plans of moving here, she’s more than ready to pack her things. But with me on the other hand, I don’t think I’m ready to live together with her. I do love her and see a future with her but I just want to make sure we’ll be secured financially and mentally. This is going to be a huge step forward in our relationship and I want to consider all possible scenarios and what to expect.

When she arrives here, I don’t know how to tell her about how I feel about this. I’m afraid to hurt her feelings because she seems so excited. The last thing I want to do is get her hopes up just to disappoint her in the end. Do you guys have any advice or suggestions for me? A slow and easy way for me to open this up to her. Any would be great and I would gladly appreciate your help! Thank you in advance!

Even if you are, still give her the reason that you are not financially stable right now and give her a specific time for her to move in with you, that way she won't feel bad.

I just hope you can handle a white skin as a wife "even though she's Philippino" in Africa.

There is no better way to tell her than to simply let her know we are not ready for such step at the moment. Make sure you let her know that before she comes over to visit so she won't be of the opinion that she is moving in permanently on this trip.

tell her you are not ready na, she should give you some time to make money so that when she come both of you won't suffer.

Juts be plain and tell her you are not financially stable to accommodate her. She will understand.

∆ So you no get mouth abi? ∆

Why do I find it hard to believe that this story is true? Hhhhhmm! ok let me think aloud, a guy that can fly abroad to spend time a woman and also paid a flight ticket for a woman to pay him a visit is not financially stable? Hehe! @Op, you can lie for Africa. Or maybe you are related to Mr Lie Mohammed

Maga don pay...

Peterosky:
Why do I find it hard to believe that this story is true? Hhhhhmm! ok let me think aloud, a guy that can fly abroad to spend time a woman and also paid a flight ticket for a woman to pay him a visit is not financially stable? Hehe! @Op, you can lie for Africa. Or maybe you are related to Mr Lie Mohammed

Shut up

ritababe:
tell her you are not ready na, she should give you some time to make money.

sometime to make money as if money is ever enuf

Peterosky:
Why do I find it hard to believe that this story is true? Hhhhhmm! ok let me think aloud, a guy that can fly abroad to spend time a woman and also paid a flight ticket for a woman to pay him a visit is not financially stable? Hehe! @Op, you can lie for Africa. Or maybe you are related to Mr Lie Mohammed

As in ehn...nah wetin I been dey reason before I see yhur post...

Jodha:


As in ehn...nah wetin I been dey reason before I see yhur post...

.My dear, that guy na inside Aba the guy de struggling with poverty and penury. Hehe! I no that someone will quote me cause of this poverty and penury. Just watch.

sKeetz:


Shut up

.Bross abeg no vex. but just reason with me and you will know that there is a big fat lie in that story