Abbygyal:

awww! oh well, first and foremost:

Let her be, you calling and sending emails might send the wrong fibes. . .

Secondly, you are angry because you've either missed her, have feelings for her, or you dont know what it is. its good the way you walked away from her! just wait and see what the future holds wiv u both!

wiv what youve said, i dont think she is all dat! but hey, dats just my opinion!

Abbygyal:

woW! Oh well! move on! its her loss not urs! been angry wouldnt help! just see as some friend who came into your life and has gone back to wherever she belongs!

poo happenz.

madlady:

@Poster,Why were you angry,I can understand upset or shock but anger .

Maybe she could see or sense your anger that's why she did not say anything to you. You could send her a short text saying hi.

Blood_Shed:

LOL MAN THE bleep UP!!!!
You screwed up by bombarding her with calls, emails and voicemails etc. You should have just called her once and that's it. She's clearly leading you by your d*ck, and like a sucker you're taking the bait.

kunleajayi:

dude, it wasn't as if i was calling her everyday. when it first happened, i called her the first week once, then waited till the next week. when i didn't hear from her, i waited another 2 weeks then called. the next time i tried calling her was on her bday in december. the last time i sent her anything was b4 xmas(email). that was when i decided to stop all contact.

Maybe i should have listened, but she once told me she was a miserable friend to anyone who wanted to be her friend. she always had this serious un-smiling look on her face all the time and i do jokingly tell her to put a smile on her face once in a while.

madlady:

Hmm , do you think she has a bf?

Maybe she's not into the male friendship thing .

tai2:

You're angry because you feel like you were deficient in some way, like you weren't good enough. She didn't dig you plain and simple, that's her loss, not yours. How many billion women are there on this planet anyway?

madlady:

@Poster, some times things are not plain and simple.

  This may have had nothing to do with her not liking you, she may have thought the cultural differences my have been too much.
  She may have decided to stop taking your calls to avoid wasting anymore of your time.

kunleajayi:

Pro'lly, but i feel the least she should have done was telling me she had one or she wasn't interested in being my friend. and it wasn't as if i had even started wooing her.

it's just the surprise of seeing her that made me start getting angry after i thot it thru. like u said, it's her loss, not mine. thanks all the same.

madlady:

Maybe she was interested, but just did not see a future in it.

How old was she?

kunleajayi:


she was born in 1985 (according to her profile page on the skool website), so she was about to turn 25 years old when i met her.

madlady:

Ok,Still quite young.

She may find it easy to avoid rather than explain, hence her no longer taking your calls.
Some times guys can be very persuasive,maybe wanted to avoid all that pressure. Yes it was quite rude of her to just cut you off like that but
she may felt like taking the easy way out.

I am of Jamaican so maybe I am biased.

kunleajayi:

u could be right. all the same thanks for all the explanations. u suggest (if) i see her again, i should walk up to her?

dhensity:

move on ,nd next tim if u see her dnt show your anger on her she might probably see gud reasons that she shouldnt be avoiding u,,,since u didnt make a move