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How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:16pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
My dad is at it again, How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family, I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls. Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by SULTANALAUDDIN: 10:17pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
You're 27?? I'm just 24 and my mum is always pressuring over not having a fiancée. I don't know how to tell her in my native language that we are in the era of HOES it is difficult to find a good girl. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Lol. who marriage help? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by jamariwolf2(f): 10:19pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Answer these questions and I'll know how to help you. 1. How financially stable are you? If you don't have up to 10milla net worth, tell your old man to free you oooooo. Them no born woman come suffer with her husband. 2. Are you gay? No, really. You are 27 and you're already 'done with girls'. Please you don't need to reply but be honest to yourself. Just saying oo 3. What happiness do you derive being single? Oga are you sure you don't like men. Let me come and be going sef |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Gentle034(m): 10:20pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Nah it' not, ur old man expects an offspring from u which is normal, but then my advice is not to give in to d pressure if u ain't ready so u don't end up regretting. #my 1kobo piece of advice |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:22pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
beardlessdude:Brother, I don’t know o.. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by correctguy101(m): 10:23pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Ha, I'm an only son too. Only got a mother and she doesn't let me rest too. I know how you feel. Just listen and say yes sir. My being unmarried and irreligious are the two things my mom always remind me anytime I run my mouth... 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by correctguy101(m): 10:25pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Gentle034: I don't think it's really about having an offspring. I have a daughter but my mum still wants a daughter in law 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:26pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Gentle034:I almost did earlier this year but I can’t begin with stories aftermath. was thinking it was just an offspring issue until my elder sister gave birth finally around September making him a grandfather.. Just this night we had a long call conversation with mentions and advices like I should force myself to pick a wife |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:27pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
correctguy101:lol at least somebody can relate |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:28pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
SULTANALAUDDIN:I swear bro,, not easy at all |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by marooh: 10:32pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Just tell ur dad that ur missing rib is not yet found... Marriage is beautiful if u find someone that love what u do... Woman like material things so....so don't marry a girl that love u but the girl dat love what you do! |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:32pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
jamariwolf2: God forbid I can be gay. As a matter of fact I despise gays I am just sick and tired of the bullshits I get from Nigerian ladies with the very poor orientation they got from the society |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:34pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
marooh:But why are you answering my name going by your ID ? ? |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by jamariwolf2(f): 10:35pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Hmmm send me a pm then. You just found yourself a wife. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:36pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
jamariwolf2:Its like you are not reading it well, I have many girls around me but I am not looking for a wife 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by jamariwolf2(f): 10:37pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:lol. But why? With all the money nii |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by correctguy101(m): 10:39pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer: It's not a small thing bro. Plus I already gave her a grand daughter the old woman never stops to remind me of my marital status. She'll be like "My boy, you'll not find a girl to settle down with abi? I heard mature ladies visit you in this house. You think as you are living people are not seeing you? I know all your secrets. Find a good girl and make me happy" Me will just be silent and say thank you ma, I'll try and deny the ones I could. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:40pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
jamariwolf2:Let me use you as an example. See how you bolded the above and asked me to send you a pm, not that you’ve seen me or know me, neither how I look like. Most ladies flock around me for such reasons and at the end of the day, they make it seem that is the reason they are around me. Do you need me to continue ? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
The pressure is too much on we girls. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
jamariwolf2:This geh.. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:43pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
correctguy101:If I had a child like you, I would care less.. seriously |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Either way wahala dey.u no marry dem go hassle u why u no marry... U marry and ur wife will be nagging u to death over unnecessary stuff,fighting u and all.a number of married men kick the bucket before they turn 50 all thanks to their trouble some nagging wife.get married when u know u are psychologically and financially ready cos if u follow ur parents mouth oyo will be ur case. With the strong racket wey many babes dey pull these days u got to be careful when choosing a wife.marriage no be beans. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by marooh: 10:49pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer: So,Na only pressure on marriage u fine come here? Eeh Why not try bobrisky as u no wan marry wife 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:52pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
marooh:God forbid... Respect yourself ooo.. you well so ? |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Gentle034(m): 10:52pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:I still think you shld not rush urself into this. Have u ever asked your dad why he really wants you to settle down sharp-sharp? |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by jamariwolf2(f): 10:53pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
WebSurfer:lol. Don't continue. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:54pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
lefulefu:The things we see ladies do these days I rather stay at peace with my mind |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by jamariwolf2(f): 10:54pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Purebeerry:lol. My sista. Who no like better thing. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 10:57pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
Gentle034:You know that question is very hard. I’m sure he will start with fornication to cover his tracks .. normal thing very religious father will do cos i remember him saying Something hold your body very well on that call earlier |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by Gentle034(m): 11:01pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
correctguy101:Gee you would be surprised, if u ask her why d pressure on marriage, especially if she is a religious person. |
Re: How Do You Cope With Marriage Pressures ? by WebSurfer(m): 11:02pm On Dec 27, 2017 |
jamariwolf2:The things girls do are amazing plus they ain’t loyal |
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