Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection? Right from the start the sparks start to fly and you feel a certain closeness to them. On your first date, he is attentive, kind, caring and actually listens to what you have to say. Things just sort of click with the two of you and a new relationship starts to grow. Or does it?
Over the course of the beginning of this new relationship, you are so caught up in that newness glow that you might miss some signs that this guy is a player because his mouthpiece game is so strong and he’s doing all the right things…for now.

Within the first three months, you two are really enjoying your time together but there are some red flags that rear their ugly heads. Your heart tells you to ignore them and/or makes excuses for them because you want this to work but no matter how hard you try, you can’t get the feeling that something is just not quite right to go away. Things aren’t blatant but it’s the small things that make you take notice.

I met a man who had this huge personality and I was immediately drawn to him. We ended up going out on a date, which led to 3 and 4 more dates and though it wasn’t an “official” thing, we were in a relationship.
I had recently come out of a long, very abusive, relationship and was still dealing with the demons. He knew about this and would listen to me and support me emotionally. Having just dealt with an abusive relationship, I didn’t really trust myself when it came to analyzing this new romance. I was happy and I overlooked things I shouldn’t have, listening instead to my heart. I started to really fall for this guy but after awhile, I couldn’t ignore what I was feeling...Read More


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