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Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by FromZeroToHero(m): 6:23pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
A friend of mine who has been dating a lady in her late twenties for 2years now just broke up with her but the lady in question has been begging and pleading with him to change his mind. That she might not survive it. She calls and texts him almost every day crying and sending people to go and beg on her behalf. My friend has now begin to feel pity for her. According to him, he doesn't love the lady anymore but might just pity her and continue the relationship. Is advisable to do so? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 6:29pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
All these "My Friend this and that shoulda ended in 2017" . And to your question... YES!! He must marry her oooo Why date her for two years when you know you won't marry her? I wonder why God should wait till last day to judge some people sef. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Like deja vu This just happened to me too. She's 24. Very emotional, but going abroad by the end of this yr or next yr for a 2yr fashion training. So emotional she wants me to engage her before she goes. I say no o, I can't. Its not wise to do so..its like binding ourselves down, then you'll see another guy there then trouble will start. So I said she has to go, if God says we're meant for each other, we will see again. Besides, shes so slim...no boob, no yannsh..I just thought I might cheat on this girl if i eventually marry her wbich i dont wanna do. We met in september 2017 and i made sure i didnt have sex with her. I released her o..just yesterday sef. She cried and cried, it wasn't easy for me too, I almost pitied her. Even till now she still calls me for very little issues But mheen I'm not going back. Its good to cry now than marry and cry more. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by delishpot: 6:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Hmnnn, How easy it is to give excuses when we are the ones dishing the hot soup. Imagine if it was a girl that said this to her boy friend now... We for no hear word again. E for be name calling galore. Bia OP no, you should not marry her out of pity. If you do not like her again, let her go. Ignore her plea she will get over it. Though many people don't appreciate such but if she was wise, she would see the beauty in what you have done. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Uyiii: 6:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
did you say he doesn't love her anymore?? Okay, no bros. Leave story. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by KushyKush: 6:31pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
I'll rather marry someone that loves me. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by obojememe: 6:35pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
al these my friend this my friend that should have ended in 2017 already na |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
He is not mature enough to be talking about marriage. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
God forbid I should marry out of pity, if its him, will he pity me? |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Uyiii: 6:39pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
BiafraBushBoy:I like your political analysis but in this case you should hold your mouth like this; 1 Like
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Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
People will just be deceiving themselves that they are in love. So that love could not survive for two years. He didn't know he didn't love her till he wasted two years of her life? This is the reason many women keep different bfs at the same time. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by iykekelvins(m): 6:43pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Una dey catch feelings, say na love. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by olureignforever: 7:05pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
My neighbor married his wife out of pity, now, the marriage is in trouble. Nobody should marry out of pity. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:17pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Uyiii: ... Yes Sir. |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Zinny25(f): 7:30pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
What caused their break up |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by mikejj(m): 7:40pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
RadicallyBlunt:nice one but guy iyah badt o.no yansh no boob.u sure say no be you press am go inside |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Thats A Bloody Mistake |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by aspirebig: 11:02pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:11pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
Don't |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by iamJ(m): 11:12pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
He shld forget her, she doesn't have value |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by iamJ(m): 11:14pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
BiafraBushPig:wen u see single and desperate people u will know once from their opinions |
Re: Is It Advisable To Date Or Marry Someone Out Of Pity? by elibest360(m): 11:21pm On Jan 02, 2018 |
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