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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by sinceraconcept(m): 11:35pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:are you saying your elder sisters were wayward before marriage? if they weren't,then they don't fit into that category but if they were then their husbands are either overly religious,or not the husbands to be considered as high profiled husbands or they have done some kind of huge favours for their husbands,or their husbands. but husbands of today,if you're wayward and they learn about your dirty past,my dear,we no go treat you like queen o. we go do our own back o. that's why Kanye made a sex tape with a girl that looks like Kim,its a revenge to Kim K Ray J mixtape. many husbands that are not known to be wayward start being chronic cheats if they hear about their wife's sexcapade before marriage,its like trying to feel satisfied. So,if the woman is trying to maybe question them for the cheating,it gets to a point they would say she's worthless,that they used to think she's worthy and treat her like a queen but she's totally worthless. I know many bros that have treated their wives that way due to that reason o. that's why some men even want a virgin. if the woman with wayward past keeps quiet long to conceive,her problem multiplies and that would give every opportunity to put all blames on her and even the husband's family would make life miserable for her or even talk the man into having another wife in some cases. so,past of women usually come to haunt them,no man is stupid and no quality man wants to settle for less. there is a Yoruba proverb that says "If just little piece of human faeces is at the edge of the plate with food in it,even if we remove the faeces from the plate,we won't get our mind out of the disgusting experience" that's exactly why a lot of men seem to cheat for no reason and people would say his wife is beautiful but why is he cheating? its just a revenge mission to satisfy his ego |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by sinceraconcept(m): 11:44pm On Jan 04, 2018 |
gloria34:nobody has ever done it to me sis,I swear. its just based on experiences of people around me. I don't give women money except women I pity and don't want to have anything to do with or if its very important I buy something for my girl. its just very common to girls to see some guys as maga and they would never love such guys for anything than the Money. I can't love a girl who pumps money on me all the time for anything but for the money as well. if a guy or girl wants to help partner with money,it should be that the person really need it for something overly important and that's the only place it could come from and that would be for the sake of humanity. I don't give women money . but I can help whenever its needed |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by sinceraconcept(m): 12:02am On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34:don't just conclude sis I would urge you to give him a chance. who knows maybe he notices something that isn't true about you or was told something about you. ask him questions. some people like myself don't really voice out what we have in mind at times,it might be something entirely different from what you taught sis. since you said he has done that about 2 tob3 times before,it could be his nature. don't forget no one is perfect and some people just always prefer to keep shut and keep malice than ask question. Don't let go like that pls. question him thoroughly,let him tell you all that is going on and not just that he's been busy. ask him why he updates in whatsapp but ignores you. who knows maybe you're the one that would change that shortcoming in him cos I see you as someone intelligent |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by sfinkzslot(m): 12:30am On Jan 05, 2018 |
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Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Habyz(m): 2:28am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Backup boyfriend Nawa o! Guys dey suffer sha . If he was/is your backup bf why the hell did you say yes? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by northvietnam(m): 2:28am On Jan 05, 2018 |
ebby9z: Bros I tayaaa Ooooo |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aleniboro(m): 4:08am On Jan 05, 2018 |
VastFinder:I know we are all surprised to hear "back up boyfriend" when we guys are used to having so many "back up girlfriends" and even "extra back up girlfriends" and "back up wives" as concubines. Ladies are waking up. Imagine living with a boyfriend who has no plan of marrying her but his main aim is yo look for money while wasting the girl's productive age. After making the money, the guy will then realize that they are not of the same class. My advice: Don't worry yourself, go for the man with the golden word, your boyfriend also have so many backups, living together does not mean there is love. Tell your new fiancee to get you settled somewhere only for his cucumber! |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by immybanks(f): 5:34am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Pusyiter: |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by justmenoni: 6:40am On Jan 05, 2018 |
These hoes ain't LOYAL quote author=biacan post=63889261] :DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo [/quote] |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 6:42am On Jan 05, 2018 |
sinceraconcept:exactly my point, i wanted u to stop generalising, there are girls and there are girls, some girls deserve to b treated as queens. if u meet a girl u think is not worthy of that. just work away and not marry her then maltreat her all in d name of get wayward past. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by mayoor2045(m): 6:42am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Back up boifwend or what did you call it? Na wa for all this our so call wife in waiting ooo!. Anyway better follow the one that has proposed to you,since the two of them are more or less on the same leverage financially in as much mr proposal has shown sign of more commitment. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 6:47am On Jan 05, 2018 |
sinceraconcept:since he started apologizing, he has stuck to d 'i was busy with work' story and when i confront him with d status, all he could say is 'i am sorry'. if he can come clean, i'll know where to start forgiving from but i cant 4give something i know to b a lie. thanks 4 ur concern but I think I need to move past this lie. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 6:51am On Jan 05, 2018 |
sinceraconcept:unnecessary spendings in a relationship is not advisable, but I'm sure when u finally found love, u'll see things in a different light. gud luck |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 6:54am On Jan 05, 2018 |
aigboeben:he was held up at work and there was no network, but u could update? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Hizzojay(m): 7:25am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Purebeerry: 2019 - Reserved bloke |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 7:29am On Jan 05, 2018 |
biacan:Thats what ladies do to guys. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 8:08am On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34:I pray he didn't try out someone else. Obviously he's hiding something from you. Be wise as a serpent and gentle as dove. Did he get you any gifts for the just concluded festive season? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Ajadiboye(m): 8:51am On Jan 05, 2018 |
The thing is; If you are in love with 2 pple & u av to choose , choose the second person cos, If you truly loved the first, you wouldn't av any business falling for d second in d first place. She did d right thing, I wish her well. |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Favmil101(m): 9:30am On Jan 05, 2018 |
so make I kill myself |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by emmylite79(m): 9:47am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Abeg oooh i need to find out fast if i be backup boyfriend too |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by David97: 9:49am On Jan 05, 2018 |
biacan: See the way u are smiling, do u know if u are a also a side chick, it happens both ways so don't flatter urself |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Abeere88: 10:09am On Jan 05, 2018 |
Back up boyfriend saga. my take is to first condemn the act of living together under the same roof with the 'main guy' for months without any serious or concrete plan for your relationship. I guess u guys are just neighbors, living couples life makes a lot of people value not to value themselves. look before you leap - I guess u know the person u live with, in and out. if yes, ask him for his plan for you and examine without sentiment if he is worth waiting for, examine yourself too where your heart belongs and make the best of moves... shalom |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by blackbeau1(f): 11:39am On Jan 05, 2018 |
holysaint1:b4 nko |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
aigboeben:non. I didn't bother cos he wasn't even Around |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 1:05pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34: The season didn't come suddenly except he was not loaded enough to perform. You need wisdom and strength now. But your unwillingness to accept him back should not be hinged on your admirers trying to woo you. Do you think he trusts you? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
aigboeben:he works 4 an oil company. he knows I don't cheat, d reason I am refusing him now is not about suitors but I always have dis heartache whenever he suddenly disappear. I can't continue with that |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 1:56pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34:So what are you going to do now? Forgive him or wait for another Prince Charming. Time is ticking you know |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 2:03pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34:It seems this is not the first season of his disappearing act. Is he an introvert? |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
aigboeben:not an introvert, he usually disappear like this but it doesn't last more than two days. he usually says he forgot his phone at home |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
aigboeben:I'm moving on. i cant keep on hoping he'll change |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by aigboeben(m): 2:30pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
gloria34:I guess you are his backup gf. He's Yoruba, what tribe are you? They don't easily marry outside, especially those who grew up in their State |
Re: “My Backup Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do?” — Lady by Burgerlomo: 2:32pm On Jan 05, 2018 |
Na wa ooo, b4 na back up dancers me I dey hear but now some dudes don turn to back up boyfriends |
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