my chic is 18 and she insisted on going to higher intitution b4 we get married but to be candid i cant wait that long. AM PRESSEED.

if you cant stand the heat dear why don't you step aside

and perhaps don't you think she is too young to go into marriage
she has alot more to learn ahead of her
i am not trying to say she cant do that when she is married but the fact is she wont have that freedom
if she wants to school b4 marriage,so be it
at least she doesn't want to be a liability to any man and that's sweet and matured of her if u ask me
remember marriage is not a bed of roses
there is more to it

tantan:

my chic is 18 and she insisted on going to higher intitution b4 we get married but to be candid i cant wait that long. AM PRESSEED.

How old are u?

hmmmmmm

1. how old are you?

2. how long have you been dating her (dat will determine how old she was wen u srtd dating her b4 i do u 4 child abuse)

3. regardless, don't you think this girl is too young for that @ the moment

18 years hmm no comment

tantan:

my chic is 18 and she insisted on going to higher intitution b4 we get married but to be candid i cant wait that long. AM PRESSEED.

Hw the HELL will you marry 18yrs chick?  

Your marriage won't last mhen, hw old r you gan  

tantan:

my chic is 18 and she insisted on going to higher intitution b4 we get married but to be candid i cant wait that long. AM PRESSEED.

is she processing higher institution? or she is in higher institution already, you have to think twice before you take any decision. You can't say she should not go, after she spent four(4) years in higher institution she will still go to service for one(1) year, by them she is 23 years old, that means you are going to wait for good 5 years men that's too much.

FGS! Allow the girl live her life, she wants to go to school, let her study before you saddle her with the responsibility of marriage. Bros, me thinks you're a bit selfish sha!

what i mean is she can study after d marriage. is it a sin to protect ourselves from fornication and d rest. god!

^^^^^hmmmmmm

so u r trying to marry her cus of s3x basically

tantan:

what i mean is she can study after d marriage. is it a sin to protect ourselves from fornication and d rest. god!

How old are u again i ask?

sincerely speaking am 25, a graduate and well paid

tantan:

sincerely speaking am 25, a graduate and well paid

Allow her to be a graduate and well paid too.

tantan:

sincerely speaking am 25, a graduate and well paid

25 is way too young to Marry in my dictionary!  

Guy move on with your career, (Atleast 32 is fine )

@ Poster

Leave ur girl alone ooo,dont turn her to baby-machine.Let her go to her skuul ooo.After you marry am finish,u go promise am say she go go school bt na preggy she go carry.

BTW ,if i be the girl parent i go place curse on you for wanting to derail my daughter.

pureminded:

Guy move on with your career, (Atleast 32 is fine )

poster do not mind him o 25 is ok, but U have to atleast put your selfishness aside be
be patient and let the girl finish her education.

If because you are pressed you want to marry her then you are sadly mistaken.Marriage doesn't eliminate the pressing,no self control before marriage,no self control after marriage!

I mean if she is what you want and you can't wait,and lets say you marry her,remember she will still go to school and what will you do then when you are pressed,cheat on her or leave your work and take off to her school to unpress yourself?Think about it deeply, if you are sure you are ready to marry now,then i must advice you find another lady because 18years is too young, besides the University may just change her and if you do wait you may be disappointed.

A word of advice it is easier to be single and be self controlled than when you are married,then it really takes discipline to be self control.

God! 18 is ok 4 a girl to get married. I mean she is OK. Afterrall it wont deter her from studying. we will plan it. But u know that as young as she is, she can commit fornication (GOD FORBID) and she is answerable to her sins.DO U KNOW THAT.

All you keep talking here is fornication fornication fornication
is this marriage base on sex

tantan:

God! 18 is ok 4 a girl to get married. I mean she is OK. Afterrall it wont deter her from studying. we will plan it. But u know that as young as she is, she can commit fornication (GOD FORBID) and she is answerable to her sins.DO U KNOW THAT.

Leave that young mind to develop

tantan:

God! 18 is ok 4 a girl to get married. I mean she is OK. Afterrall it wont deter her from studying. we will plan it. But u know that as young as she is, she can commit fornication (GOD FORBID) and she is answerable to her sins.DO U KNOW THAT.

18 is ok we all know bt is she mentally ready ? Guy if your kini dey scratch you abeg find bootycall ppl make dem help you.Leave her ,let her commit little fornication abi how her own sin wan take affect ur life?

rokiatu:

poster do not mind him o 25 is ok, but U have to atleast put your selfishness aside be
be patient and let the girl finish her education.

25 is ok? Haa, don't push the Guy Oo, 25 is too early (For A Man) to get married in Nigeria 

Any wise guy won't even think about marriage at 25, wtf,

Well Me, I won't get married till m like 32-35,

Diva 2.0:

From my point of view, you're only tryna to marry her for the intimacy. There's more to marriage than intimacy. If you really love her you'd wait for her to finish growing up, get her her degree and a good job.

No mind the dude, he just wanna get married for fck only.

whats luv? dos who dont like it call it responsibility, dos who play it call it a game, dos who dont have it call it a dream, dos who understand it call it destiny and me, i call it my sweet 18.

tantan:

whats luv? dos who dont like it call it responsibility, dos who play it call it a game, dos who dont have it call it a dream, dos who understand it call it destiny and me, i call it my sweet 18.

listen to me dear you are not ready for marraige

he SOUND like a dude who have just fallen in love and is in a hurry to marry, cos the
girl probably do not support sex before marriage.

as 4 me i know i truly love her and i will make sure she becomes a graduate with atleast 2:1 because she will focus all her attention on books only not like d single ones that can be prey to those marauding men always ready to offload.

why are you here for help den

wen u have alrdy made up your mind

abeg go fight it out with her jare

tantan:

as 4 me i know i truly love her and i will make sure she becomes a graduate with atleast 2:1 because she will focus all her attention on books only not like d single ones that can be prey to those marauding men always ready to offload.

Are u going to live in school with her? Or u will buy her iron pant with lock?