You just realized that your spouse has been unfaithful. The news of the infidelity has hit you like a ton of bricks. Your marriage is now thrown into a state of crisis that may destroy it. On the other hand, you both may be able to work through it and end up better than ever.
ou may have hope that your marriage can survive your spouse cheating on you, but you still fill sick inside when you think about the affair.

It is natural to want to know why your partner cheated, but there is no simple answer to why someone becomes unfaithful. It could be a symptom of other problems in your marriage, it could relate to something in your spouse’s past or it could be totally unrelated to your marriage. You may never truly know why it happened.

There are 15 things you can do to get beyond the hurt, forgive your unfaithful spouse, and save your marriage.

Do not make any major decisions about ending your marriage now just because your spouse has been unfaithful. This is the time to do some reflection on your marriage to see what other issues other than this infidelity need to be recognized and dealt with.

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