sweettease:

Oh dear! That's not the part I have a problem with, the part that I find odd is that you are advising a married woman to intentionally create the illusion that she is courting other guys. That's really messed up!

BTW, I am all for showering my man with love but if he acts like a boy and not the man I thought he was, then that love is dead and gone, I don't have time to play catch, you are either in or out! While change what I am about cos he can't handle it?

When the lady starts showing him that "I don't care" attitude, it gets the guy thinking that perhaps other guys are showing interest in her and this is what would spark his interest. It is actually that attitude that i meant in my post.
The lady has been showing him all the love since they got married and he now feels that her needs don't count.

DjAndroid:
SO YOU GOT MARRIED AT 20 TO BE IN YOUR MID 30s AFTER 15 YEARS

so? how is that a big deal?
op jare,i salute your perseverance,communicate to him more about it. and bliv me you both nid to be fervent in praying.both of you need to move closer to God,and be repentant always.masturbation and other forms of indecency is a sign that one is very very far from God.don't forget sins hinder prayers.who knows, maybe your provision would have bn beta if your hubby isn't involved in that thing.alas! now he's caught in btw;helpless.don't fault him as he needs help and again try harder to get rid of the things that get him into that 'zone'.
lastly,everything in life is SPIRITUAL;go for (ruqya) if you are a muslim.once again, you are a great woman for your preserverance all along.

PSTEMMA1960:
no 1: if i am nt delivered i won't be able to admit that i even watch porn and also masturbate.

2: determination i may nt really know what that means, bt all i can tell u is this, i tried stoping it on my own for more than 5 yrs bt i could nt, i even sold my phone then switched to nokia torch light, bt once the urge comes i will look for someone to borrow an android phone to watch it..

i went to church one day the man of God laid hands on me and i fell down, that was the last time i felt the urge..

my determination then could last for few days nt even up to 2 weeks, some times i will even promise heaven and earth that next year i will nt do it again, bt b4 the second week of january i have already broken the vow..

Word!

DjAndroid:
SO YOU GOT MARRIED AT 20 TO BE IN YOUR MID 30s AFTER 15 YEARS

Oga you must be either a mathematician or a human calculator. Wehdone sir

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Abusawfi:
so? how is that a big deal?
op jare,i salute your perseverance,communicate to him more about it. and bliv me you both nid to be fervent in praying.both of you need to move closer to God,and be repentant always.masturbation and other forms of indecency is a sign that one is very very far from God.don't forget sins hinder prayers.who knows, maybe your provision would have bn beta if your hubby isn't involved in that thing.alas! now he's caught in btw;helpless.don't fault him as he needs help and again try harder to get rid of the things that get him into that 'zone'.
lastly,everything in life is SPIRITUAL;go for (ruqya) if you are a muslim.once again, you are a great woman for your preserverance all along.

Thanks for your advice.

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Jman06:
When the lady starts showing him that "I don't care" attitude, it gets the guy thinking that perhaps other guys are showing interest in her and this is what would spark his interest. It is actually that attitude that i meant in my post.
The lady has been showing him all the love since they got married and he now feels that her needs don't count.

Love makes the world a better place to dwell in. So I don't think there is anything like giving too much love. If anyone can't handle or reciprocate love, I think it is their problem and not the partner's problem....But then,a little spicing up wouldn't be bad. Thanks.

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greatnaija01:
NO ONE CAN LEAVE PORN BY THEIR POWER.....

Take your man for deliverance ooooo


DEMONS are dancing one-corner around him...

Most Porn users masturbate n this wastes their appetite for normal sex... their desire for performance becomes high and not even you as a wife can satisfy them.

ASK FOR SPIRITUAL HELP. more financial blessing will come to him if he stops.

chai.... PORN is the devil's greatest tool against manhood

Thank you so much. He doesn't even act like it is a biggie. I will definitely show him this thread. Maybe hearing the negative side of it from strangers might help us.

platinumventure:
Sorry to hear about ur predicament but if u really love him then I guess u should be ready to help him last longer n perform better....try n delete all hz porn in his laptop or wherever he hides or stores dem as u did earlier cos hez actually helpless n wil neva stop if u don't aggressively delete dem...

U can.send mi a pm or drop ur whatsapp digit so I can give u d herbal tea u will b giving him...but meanwhile from now henceforth begin inputing unripe plantain porridge weekly in ur family. Menu n also get him bananas n water melon wit garden egg for him n also remove any sugary stuff from ur home....cheerz

I don delete tire. these days, he doesn't download it. He watches it directly from the websites.

AdaIhiala:
If he really loves you and he is a good husband like you said, he would give up the demonic habit instead of tormenting you! Na wa o. Hold on.Continue talking to him and maybe involve someone he respects. Last last, you guys will be okay.

Yes he is a good husband despite this habit of his. I wouldn't want to wash my dirty linen outside o. I can't embarrass him by bringing in a third party. We are anonymous in this platform,so he won't feel so bad when I show him. Amen o,last last,we will be okay. thank you sis.

Jman06:
Yes my dear. Most ladies don't know that making themselves too available makes men lose interest in them. But if you give him that false impression that you have got other guys hitting on you, his competitive side will be awoken and he would want to fight for you.
Also, creating a space between a couple sparks up the relationship because like the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Obviously you are not married. If my wife is making me jealous unnecessarily, Omo na gobe she dey o...true family value transcends jealousy and competition dude.

ebenebegbulu:
I don delete tire. these days, he doesn't download it. He watches it directly from the websites.

My dear na divine intervention get am now so u gatz to involve a third party whom he respectz...

Jman06:
When the lady starts showing him that "I don't care" attitude, it gets the guy thinking that perhaps other guys are showing interest in her and this is what would spark his interest. It is actually that attitude that i meant in my post.
The lady has been showing him all the love since they got married and he now feels that her needs don't count.

And when the husband misinterpret her intentions and sends her packing, I hope you will be there to explain that it was only gimmicks?

In marriage there is no over dose of love and there should be no room for competition

Pepsi101:

And when the husband misinterpret her intentions and sends her packing, I hope you will be there to explain that it was only gimmicks?

In marriage there is no over dose of love and there should be no room for competition

The man will not send her packing because he won't catch her cheating. I've discovered that some guys actually get too selfish when their wives keep giving them all the love. Such guys need to be denied that love occasionally so as to keep them on their toes regarding the woman's own needs. However, the lady has to be careful not to overdo it.

Jman06:
The man will not send her packing because he won't catch her cheating. I've discovered that some guys actually get too selfish when their wives keep giving them all the love. Such guys need to be denied that love occasionally so as to keep them on their toes regarding the woman's own needs. However, the lady has to be careful not to overdo it.

Some husbands don't need to catch you before you're sent packing.




Bro, this is marriage, not boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't play some funny games,its delicate.
Communication is the best approach

sweettease:

Are you for real?

hello gorgeous