Guys, u've been of great help 2 me al dis while n i also need ur help on dis. Been dating a guy for d past 8 month now, we don't stay together in d same state, but we made it part of us never 2 allow distance 2 b a problem in our relationship n 2 visit each oder at most in every two month and i had never met a gal at his place tru out my visit 2 him. We both luv each other so much dat we even made it known 2 our parents about d relationship n ar planning about spending our lifes together. Now here is d problem, for d past two weeks i ceased 2 understand him any longer, he suddenly reduced his cals n text messages 2 me, atimes he won't even reply my messages. (and he has never been like dis) Wen i became bothered and asked y, he never gave any sensible reason, he only apologised n promised 2 change wen eva i try 2 discus d gap dat is fast developing between us he ll only apologise n never want us 2 discus about d issue. Dis eating me up cos i seriously luv him n don't want 2 loose him but it now 2 weeks n notin has change. Pls help does dat means he has another relationship or wat? Pls advice me on wat 2 do.

long distance relationships. . . . . . . .  that you like it or not, however strong and committed you are, they get to people after a while!!!!!
to be away for a short while is EASY, to keep wanting a partner equally after being away forlong and not "falling" to temptations is damn hard!! (if not impossible)

well he mite be in broke period, or having some problems, dont jump into conclusions

kpolli:

well he mite be in broke period, or having some problems, dont jump into conclusions

I concur, he may be having problems(espacially money) and may not want to tell u. It could be that he is trying to cut down expenses and recharge card can be part of the austerity measure,

Just visit him and sit him down and discuss extensively with him and from there u can make your decision.

I dont think He is seeing someone else. Might be he has issues or overworking himself. The best thing you can do for him is to stop nagging.Give him a break for like a week. If things dont seem to improve,pay him a visit and have a heart-to-heart talk with him. Who knows,talking to him will give u a hint on what the problem is.

He has been doing the calling now is ur turn to call u are thinking of something esle that could spoil ur friendship 4 just nothing. come u girls just want the guys doing the calling why u girls do the receiving thats not the way.calling is 4 both party ok? u should be doing the calling 4 now.