naijaboy756:
no need to real all most ladies are naughty sacrficing the joy of marriage for six packs/tall/rich/oooo his too cute and then end up with bruises. Not saying all cute guys are monsters though

Yeligray:
This is why i suggest prayers before marriage

safarigirl:
in this Nigeria? I can take the 'he's rich'..but 'tall and six packs'? That one is a lie. How many Nigerian men have such features to begin with? Most of these abusers are not tall, no six-packs, mostly pot belly and nowhere near being handsome ...in fact, the most common news of abuse is from poor homes with frustrates husbands.

CplusJason:
I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..[/b]Where is she running to with this harsh economic reality? No job, no skill, no money. She was just a baby factory. This is a lesson to all ladies: get a career before marriage!
















A quick advice to the young lady who's facing this type of domestic violence... RUN!!!

CplusJason:
I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..
















A quick advice to the young lady who's facing this type of domestic violence... RUN!!!

dingbang:
she got pregnant at age 19 na.. As a result she got married. Didnt u read that part?

veraiyke:
Sorry I had to call you a fool.

pocohantas:


Help me ask o.
Even the rich sef, how many Nigerians are rich?
We're just managing jare. See abs here na.

dingbang:
Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you

Jesse01:
the story sound some how, was d man force to marry her,because he seems piss off to be wit her y is he treating her like dat wat did she do,dere is more to d story dan dis.

modik:


All I can see is steroid.

PrettyCrystal:
A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/victim-of-domestic-violence-narrates-her-ordeal-at-the-hands-of-husband.html

pocohantas:


I dey hail you o.
Steroids seer.

angels09:
Prettycrystal how did you allow such sacrilege happen?







Oh reported.

africanjarule:
Madam i will advise u to divorce that monster man so called your husband, he is an animal that does not deserve to live among human been the best place that fit that your husband is to pack all his belongings and move to the forest and live with animal in the bush i swear. how can a man so wicked like that? always beat your wife impreginate 16 years old of your wife sister that's terrible madam pack your things and leave that monster god will provide a better husband for you.

dingbang:
she got pregnant at age 19 na.. As a result she got married. Didnt u read that part?

PrettyCrystal:
A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/victim-of-domestic-violence-narrates-her-ordeal-at-the-hands-of-husband.html

adidasBarca:
sorry for what happened, I can advise u to divorce ur husband,he is looking at u as a burden or liability. U try to be doing something to gather some money to start a small business, like soft drinks. He will change for good when u don't depend on him again. U are a burden to him. I pray it will work

terrezo2002:
The signs will be there during dating/courtship yet they will still stick their heads into marriage. Well, I feel sorry for her. The man is a disgrace to manhood.

kaylegend7:
@ OP, Frankly speaking it is pathetic. But I want to say something here. First, the fact that you got pregnant for someone isn't enough for you to marry him. Marriage is more serious than that. Secondly, when I hear stories like this, I don't always judge, because it is one-sided, since we have not heard from the other party involved.

Evidences are not enough, they could have been fabricated. I have been an occasion like this before, when it was the woman who caused everything. When you listen Chimamanda Adichie's DANGER OF A SINGLE STORY, you will understand. However, I urge you to run for your dear life nevertheless.

maximunimpact:


What will prayer do?

imagrg:
Where is she running to with this harsh economic reality? No job, no skill, no money. She was just a baby factory. This is a lesson to all ladies: get a career before marriage