I hv been in dis relationship with her 4 sum years nd she told me she ws a virgin cos of dt i promise i wil nt hv sex with her so after 3years of relationship her friend who had a problem wit her told she was nt a virgin so when i asked her she told me it was true if u where me wat wil u do

Dt's not nice at all. how can she lie abt such a thing, abi na do or die affair? Dt girl is a born liar. I mean if she can lie about som tin she knows will eventually come out in the open then she won't make a reliable patner. My friend use your tongue count your teeth

thanks 4 dt bt am just confuse rite nw

I sympathize with you. This is a very painful situation, and you held out for 3 good years, sorry.
Are you sure that she did not even cheat on you in the 3 years (since she may have got it elsewhere).
Good luck and take heart.

Don't worry too much just pretend 2 yur sef dat it's a shiny new one & enjoy ya sef

no be una wey dey carry this virgin thing for head??

you prolly have slipped it out sometime that u like virgins, or something similar to that,

so she added 2 plus 15 and got 10 (dun ask me how ) and decided to lie to keep u, hmmmmmm

she prolly told u that cos its what u wanted to hear

she still didnt have sex with you for 3 yrs

u have no reason to believe she may have cheated on you

i see why girls (in nigeria, sorry that has to be said) feel the need to lie abt it

peer pressure to be a virgin

if it hurts you soo much she's not then you should just leave her

go on ur hearthealing quest of findin a girls cherry to pop

this is the last virgin thread ill visit

it begining to sound like a perversion many of u guys have

not a good look

So u mean say she dey shak anoda guy and d tin dey hungry u, she no lik u jare. Mumu

dat girl has no atom of luv 4 u. use ur head now! she denied u of intimacy for 3 gud yrs yet she isn't a virgin. probably she has been havn it outside and u stil call her ur girl frd. jst hav ur own share of her national cake n show her d way out. period!

@poster

I do not believe this!!!
You have gone out with someone for 3 years and you cannot tell if she is a virgin?

Did you spend the 3 years daydreaming about her virginity?

On a light note, Your 3 years should have been spent to discover if she is the wonderful person

you will like to spend the rest of your life with. It should have been spent learning her strength and her weaknesses.

You should be able to describe who she is.  If you have done this then her virginity status would not matter.

Friendships and relationship is an opportunity to build bonds that will last for the future.

Best of grace. You will need it .

That's kinna crazy !. 3 yrs! ?. I'm ure u're both xtian brother and sister abi?. Let me tell u those church girls are not worth it. I'v experienced one too.Bros get her f**d and dump her jare!

bro, s, udey Bleep up. bt make i ask u 1st. shey u sef dey grabe other babes during this period? na do me i do u be dis

emeka29:

bro, s, udey bleep up. bt make i ask u 1st. shey u sef dey grabe other babes during this period? na do me i do u be dis

Emeka na true u talk o !. Bros wot were u doing for the three yrs?.lol !