lefulefu:
I don't know why i always bust out laughing when i see some men seeing red when married to a headline feminist lady. Oga na u open eye marry her so u have to accept whatever she dishes to u afterall she's the breadwinner and a feminist so what do u expect.greiboy come and see another wuzzy man washing pant and bra for im feminist wife to compensate her for being the breadwinner of the house .

bluetrails7:
According to her, she is the breadwinner she can’t also be the slave, so I should choose one…

Welcome to the new wave, where ladies want to/fell they're the bread winner.....They want to climb on top of men, and be the man in the relationship. Many times when the going is good, you don't see these traits. Awon feminists...


Foolish husband, if the story is real.


Any man that falls into this category, do what you were doing before the business went down, gradually the business will boom back. Become an egg supplier/retailer, with 50k you can start and earn around 50k monthly as it booms.Do anything you can but never ever allow a woman be your provider, never



The error fed into the mind of women...They think/feel being a wife is slavery... Shame on their role models



@ According to her, she is the breadwinner she can’t also be the slave, so I should choose one…



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Make una come see them o ! Useless women


Degenerates, product of failed homes and terrible[b] absentee fatherism[/b] gone wrong. Twisted knuckle heads


Always ask questions before marrying fellas, if there wasn't a father, if just a woman did the upbringing, chances are high you're buying damaged goods, psychologically, mentally, functionality-damaged goods.



The man is also a product of an absentee father, ye-ye man. No be men dey sell newspaper, yogurt, palm wine?



No be woman marry Theresa May, Angela Merkel, Hilary Clinton?



Ladies follow foolishly. Beyonce was advocating divorce your husband if he cheats, this and that, irreplaceable, Jay-Z cheated, she rewarded him with a child, and humble attitude, in marriage, as age goes by, the man's value props up, while the woman's diminishes. Men are to cash in on their value and not turn to wimps. Yeye, story


Thank God young guys are wise now, we go see the new ones coming behind at Shiloh 2097...


Always ask if a man was involved in the life of a chick ( Father ) If there's no submissiveness to a male authority figure before marriage, they will never understand it, and see male-domination as a norm, cause they weren't structured/configured to function " normally" in a marriage

lefulefu:
I don't know why i always bust out laughing when i see some men seeing red when married to a headline feminist lady. Oga na u open eye marry her so u have to accept whatever she dishes to u afterall she's the breadwinner and a feminist so what do u expect.greiboy come and see another wuzzy man washing pant and bra for im feminist wife to compensate her for being the breadwinner of the house .

lefulefu:
I don't know why i always bust out laughing when i see some men seeing red when married to a headline feminist lady. Oga na u open eye marry her so u have to accept whatever she dishes to u afterall she's the breadwinner and a feminist so what do u expect.greiboy come and see another wuzzy man washing pant and bra for im feminist wife to compensate her for being the breadwinner of the house .

bluetrails7:



You dey jaw-bone a fellow man if the story na true.If the man in the story start him poultry business small small dey go gather food waste for canteen feed them in a year he will be out of that sh*t-hole. Men should not collect money from women, since na their power be that. Don't ever ask a woman for money. Simple.


Guys that depend on chicks for cash, you are fools. them don use t0-to collect una glory...yeye men.

greiboy:
pocohantas come and see your people ooo

Don't mind those feminist people. They tend to forget how hard it is to attain equality in a relationship, when they in control. Yet, they jump for equality when they are at a disadvantage

pocohantas:


What exactly is the correlation between feminism and a woman with bad character? What do you guys call men that treat their wives in the same manner?

That woman can not give the most elementary definition of feminism. So, when I see guys mentioning feminism on post like this, I honestly take it to mean they have nothing sensible to contribute. No offence at all. I know you are better than this.

greiboy:
No I can't be angry now, since you are not a feminist, but a" sane person"

is this not what" a well renowned nairaland feminist" advocated for yesterday

Don't you remember our discussion, Did you not try to defend her views yesterday.

Even though, you are not a "feminist"

dollyjoy:
Oga the story if real is not funny. I don't know why you are using smiling emoji,it may be you tomorrow.... Tough situations reveal the dark side of people.

I'm sure when the going was good, the woman was humble and all.

bluetrails7:



You dey jaw-bone a fellow man if the story na true.If the man in the story start him poultry business small small dey go gather food waste for canteen feed them in a year he will be out of that sh*t-hole. Men should not collect money from women, since na their power be that. Don't ever ask a woman for money. Simple.


Guys that depend on chicks for cash, you are fools. them don use t0-to collect una glory...yeye men.

pocohantas:


I have no memory of defending such. My post are still there. I said, I see nothing in handling such chores personally. But if some men feel leadership is their right because they pay the bills, it'll be unfair if power doesn't change hand when they stop paying bills. Those kind of men, deserve the kind of women they get and vice versa.

That was my stand. Don't try to twist my post.

pocohantas:


Men have been giving such orders for decades and women have been complying. Women even comply when they're contributing to the bills. So you should be asking men why they now feel it's demeaning when it's the other way round

pocohantas:
This case is even beyond her being the breadwinner.

The woman's submission came with a price, that price is he continually plays the role of a breadwinner. The marriage was never a partnership to her [and maybe to him]. This is the case with so many women and so many marriages.

Staying in such marriage is bad for his health, lest he commits suicide or harms her severely. It's not good for the kids either,they are watching and LEARNING.

I'll suggest he stops doing those things that are denigrating to his person. He should also leave that environment. Go squat with a friend or something, just leave the environment.

When he makes it, he should come back and fling her out.

greiboy:


Don't mind those feminist people. They tend to forget how hard it is to attain equality in a relationship, when they in control. Yet, they jump for equality when they are at a disadvantage

This is equity not equality

I pay you clean.... shikena

lefulefu:
there is one story wey i dey tell Martin the other day about one calabar couple near our family home wen i small.the man na lecturer and one strong feminist lady he marry.this man na im dey bath the kids,run errands for market and ppl even use to rumour na d man dey wash d woman clothes and her undies cos the lady lazy fa.upon all this na so the woman dey flirt around and dey nag the man.na high blood pressure eventually kill the man.if u see the woman now ehn..stress don make her age by force.

greiboy:
That is exactly what I am saying

You said it is fair for men to do do house chores , if the lady was footing the bills because women have been subjected to the same thing in the past.

I even countered you with the history of slave trade between Africa and Europe.

lefulefu:
kreativgenius happy new year. All i can say to this matter as i have said b4 is that op's wife is just a headline feminazi and she's doing what she's good at.there are women who are major breadwinners to the family and there are some that earn more than their husbands but they still respect their husbands.and forget about beyoncy...she doesn't really mean all that she says on her music and social media.any lady that takes her words to heart will fall by the wayside.

pocohantas:


Why did you edit the closing statement...?

"Every sane human shouldn't be party to any treatment that leaves another subjugated [to them]. I am a sane human "

Then my next post;

"As long as men and women keep giving themselves ultimatums in a union that should be partnership, they'll keep clashing. Selfless and cooperative couples are not being stressed out in same union."

What part of these statements insinuates that such treatment from either party is fair? ? Please, tell me

ebonflexy:
Not all women are wives. And from the few that are, not all wives are partners.

Most woman's internal belief system is that she must "Marry up".
If this doesn't happen, and she becomes dissilusioned, disrespect sets in.

These are questions and scenarios every man needs to discuss with the women in his life prior to marriage long tinz.
Understandably, things happen. But don't be that guy who comfortably spends "years" out of work/hussle looking up to your female to provide for you.

No matter how feminist all these females try to prove, equality and what not, women do not know how to deal with providing for a man.


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