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Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(m): 7:28am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Am sorry to say this about Yoruba men, but so piss up, my elder sister got married to a Yoruba man who claimed to be a born again Christian till date. over fourteen years with four children the most senior is over 13 years old, he has never send any of them to school, he owned a small private school, some how the school fold up over ten years ago, he refuse to get a job, all he keep saying he want to be a pastor by owing his own church but never want to be a sheep of an established pastor before establishing his, he made my sister to burn all she acquire while she was single saying she got them in a sinful way, aquising his mother to be witch, never allow his family to visit his parents, till the dead of his dad he wasn't in good term. My sister feed from hand to mouth, we do send money and bag of rice to her and my mum family have been of help to her. The last that just happened now and we ask my sister to come back home and leave him, we gave her money to sent the children to school and she manage to get a job, just last week he asked my sister to stop work and the children should stop schooling, that he is going to open his school, he has no kobo. He is depending on the money my sister will get because my uncle out of his good will farm ginger for my sister and asked her to go and harvest it, which she did and on process even the transport for her to go and harvest he doesn't have I have to send it, imagine he told my sister to asked my uncle to do harvesting sell produce and sent the money to them. My sister and the children are now with us. Are Yoruba men this lazy, I have a neighbour too she is Yoruba and the husband's too, the man refuse to work just lazing around, learn hand work he refuse, the woman got angry and kick him out..Abeg make una reason am, because am thinking of arresting the man for negligence of family responsibility after all he physically fit and can work. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Brooke60(f): 7:34am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Only your sister's husband 13 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(m): 7:37am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Brooke60:The man stupidness no get part two 5 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by LadySarah: 7:43am On Jan 17, 2018 |
I'm Igbo (ezigbo nwa afo) and I tell you that your assertion isnt true. His behavior isnt because he is Yoruba but because he is a lazy ass mofo.some men are like that. One of my bil says he wants to go abroad and attach to a church because he is been paid peanuts in Nigeria.He has also refused to work ,saying that his call is on ministry alone.meanwhile his wife just gave birth leaving my sis and her husbsnd( youngerbro) to foot their bills. They plan to relocate soon cos he has dumped his family and their needs on them.Himself and his wife just folded their hands in the house. Your sis shouldnt resign from her job,shouldnt stop the kids school nor harvest and send to him.let him suffer hunger and go out to work. 19 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(m): 7:50am On Jan 17, 2018 |
LadySarah:My sister am telling you that man useless, pretend to be praying always, na now my sister eye open, my sister love any thing religion, but thank God she is ready to leave him if he doesn't meet up |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by patani(m): 7:54am On Jan 17, 2018 |
That one is a cursed Yoruba man. Besides people behave erraticly and this not a function of their ethnic background or religion. There are numerous stupid Yoruba people and countless Idiotic Ibo and Hausa. We all bleed the same red blood and chose our live style not withstanding, Cultures are designed to make humans standout for good not for anyone to hide under for their mentally derailed action 8 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by IkpuMmadu: 7:58am On Jan 17, 2018 |
psalmistkakah: It's just sophisticated way of living and hosting strangers....deal with it 7 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by IkpuMmadu: 7:58am On Jan 17, 2018 |
patani: We might be the second red blood but not the same orientation bro |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Diamond23(f): 8:00am On Jan 17, 2018 |
[color=#770077][/color] Frm experience ND encounters, most of them r like dat but not all. We still v d gud nd unique ones. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by CaptainGOOD: 8:02am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Majority of them are like that. I tell u. 8 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 8:05am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Yoruba men? Thats how they behave oo.. talking from experinces...I live and work with them. There are good ones but just rare VERY RARE!. Initially they pretend to be good just to get what they want. But later u see their true colors. 15 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by LecciGucci: 8:11am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Hm thats bad of him. But without any bias. Im not igbo or hausa or yoruba but i think yoruba men are the least when it comes to family. yes i have stayed in the 3 regions. I remeber opening a topic here to advise my advise yoruba friends due many incidents i saw. But they turned it into a tribal zone and started abusing and insulting me calling me igbo.LOL Till the mod hide the topic. Seriously i think Yoruba men need to up their game. 12 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by IkpuMmadu: 8:11am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Come to Lagos....90% of those that you see at the betting stores are from there 98% of those that collect tickets are from there via alaye things I think it's a cultural thing....in Lagos that opportunities abound....yet many of them couldn't just cash in. It's funny maybe it has to do with cultural setup or Upbringing...I don't know But, I respect the ijebu folks...they hutsle like Igbo ...you can see them hawkimg gala at obalende and CMS Hard work pays....though it might tarry but it pays 12 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by NIGHTMAREOO7: 8:19am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Go to every betting shop in Lagos and see many of playing gambling. Thats what they know how to do best. They like to make it through shortcut they dont like working for it. Thats why u see them here Laffing at hustling igbo boys selling gala. While they stroll lazilybin groups in the street 8 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by aljharem(m): 8:24am On Jan 17, 2018 |
tossie101: What is their true colour ? |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by duduwest(m): 9:09am On Jan 17, 2018 |
And you forget to tell us what your family received from the man before he married your sister and by the way so its all yoruba guy/man that you know who behave like that |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(m): 9:20am On Jan 17, 2018 |
duduwest:Bros my family receive nothing, the bride price he manage to after 2 years and it no pass 40k, bros this was well welcome, my family is a humble family... 1 Like |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by NoToPile: 9:51am On Jan 17, 2018 |
This is going to turn to a tribal bashing thread. Your bro in law is lazy shikena. Even from the story you narrated he's lazy someone that wants to be a pastor and doesn't want to be under a pastor or mentor does that sound like a hardworking person to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by omotuntun: 12:45pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
A race or tribe does not determine a person. I have similar case with one sick so called sis husband. He is the most useless man of the century, his school also folded up till date he doesn't send any of his 7kids to school. Nor does he even care if any of them exist. He also claim to be a pastor from Calabar or so. So my sister a man is a man. A tribe is a tribe. 4 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by efighter: 3:14pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
psalmistkakah: I am coming for you.
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Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by efighter: 3:15pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
psalmistkakah: Yes, Yorubas are very lazy and poor. Very lazy and poor men like Otedola, Fashola, Fayemi, Tinubu, Awolowo, Obasanjo, e.t.c. Is your father qualified to be a gateman to any of the Yoruba men I just listed? Your ancestors must be mad. You better go back to your drug pushing and armed robbery family 19 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(m): 7:42pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
efighter:U must b stupid, my father is far beta than those idiots u just mentioned, Political thieves and son of a political thief, u must b stupid to compare my dad to them and I tell my dad will pay and feed ur dad and his family, lazy set of human being.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Aquariann: 1:12am On Jan 18, 2018 |
Yes they are.. Very lazy bunch. You'll see elderly Yoruba men in Lagos park, Onitsha forming passengers inside buses, whereas they are all one chance people. You'll still see them a Fagge, Osha, collecting tickets from keke and bus drivers, shouting "owo mi da". Same thing in PH. All the betting shops in Owerri, Calabar, Makurdi, Enugu, PH and umuahia are filled with lazy and never do well Yoruba men and boys from morning till night. What of ariaria market in Aba? You'll see them harassing poor keke riders for ticket money. Same thing they do in Uyo and watt market Calabar. Lazy Yoruba men disturbing young able bodied men hustling. Have you visited the tomato market in gboko, Benue state before? You need to see how this Yoruba men are asking for ticket money from wheel barrow pushers. What of family values? That one is minus for them. One of their celebrity has two bastard children with two different former Yoruba beauty queens. One of the queen is even a Princess o. She couldn't even respect her fathers crown and tradition but shamelessly (like the typical wayward yoruba girl she is) got pregnant out of wedlock to an irresponsible Yoruba boy who doesn't have respect for family. What of schooling? They don't like sending their kids to school at all. Illiterates roaming everywhere. One of their illiterate son was president from 99-07 and another uneducated Yoruba man is the current Vice president. Ladies, Run from Yoruba men. When he dies, his family will shave your hair and give you the water used in washing his corpse to drink to prove your innocence in his death. And if you are unfortunate not to have a male child, then no inheritance for you and your daughters. Yeye tribe. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Treasure17(m): 5:08pm On Jan 18, 2018 |
efighter:That's way too harsh. op, you actually have a point there but is not limited to the yourubas alone. Laziness is a common disease within the Yorubas . Most of their youths are not ready to work but they like to beg, borrow money in order to show off. 4 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Richy4(m): 5:19pm On Jan 18, 2018 |
It's Stereotype dear . Your sister married to..hmmm.. let me just reserve my comment.. who am I to judge
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Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by uniquetreasure: 8:25pm On Jan 18, 2018 |
After watching those that are working hard for their money, at night they will go and rob them of their hard earned money ,very lazy men but their women are hard working. NIGHTMAREOO7: 3 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Angy55(f): 8:50am On Jan 19, 2018 |
tossie101: Hhhmmmm, sisi are you serious? Tell me more about them please. Luminuoz come and defend your people. 1 Like |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by diportivo: 3:55pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
first born is 13 school folded up ten years ago.... that means around dat time,first born was three,and finances must av dwindled drastically yet..... three more children still came forth and u r here blaming ur brother in law ok oh... weldone 6 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by edoman2016: 9:34pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
psalmistkakah:How is your sister's husband surviving without source of income for over 10 years? Also didn't your sister observe the tendency for her husband to be lazy during dating before marrying him? 2 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Welcomme: 8:56am On Jan 20, 2018 |
Aquariann:Baba, your sarcasm strong die. You are damm good in sarcastic posts. 8 Likes |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by owoeye2: 1:06pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
This crap you wrote is a classic example of fallacy of hasty generalization. Your grammar proves that your are a lazy person. 1. Lazying not Lazing 2. Pissed not piss 3. Death not dead 4. Accusing not aquising 5. I am not am 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Windflower(f): 2:12pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
[quote author=psalmistkakah post=64267684.[/quote] I SMH when I see a post like this,did you come here to promote a tribal war. I wonder when people would be reasonable enough to realise that before we are Yoruba,Hausa or igbo,we are all humans. Which study showed that peoples attitude is in accordance with the tribe they come from that you have to conclude that all Yoruba's are like that. My aunt married an Igbo man,this man refused to work all in the guise that he wanted to go back to school. He became my aunts bank,she would only receive alert on her phone,cos she was a Christian and believed in total submission to her husband. This Igbo man would bring his girlfriend home and introduce her as his sister,never allowed any family members near my aunt cos he didn't want us to enjoy her money. He would use my aunts hard earned money to stock up his girlfriend shop. The girlfriend would come,my aunt thinking its his sister would even give her money and cloth. Eventually, the step sister was the one who told my aunt the truth,still he begged and they moved on. The real issue was when she needed airtime of just #100 and he refused to give her knowing fully well they paid her salary not long ago,things became violent they got a divorce. On the day he was leaving,he packed the flat screen TV,air condition, generator and other items in the house,mind you he wasn't the one who bought all these things. Ooh,did I tell you she collected a loan for him at her workplace for him to get a car,she continued paying the loan while he went with the car. Family wanted to take it up with him,but my aunt being the coolheaded person told us to leave him to God,Now was it a Yoruba man that did all these,was it a Yoruba man that was callous enough to rape my friend for the 1st and second time. Was it a Yoruba landlord that showed me pepper where I served in south east that they entered my room and stole my things. Was it a Yoruba man that did all this,yet I never came on nairaland to spew trash about Igbo's,I still have them as friends.so before you come here and create a tribal war,try be of help to your sister instead 10 Likes |
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