I am the first son and come from a very privileged wealthy family, my father through his connections gave my younger brother and elder sister federal government jobs and I in turn have been searching desperately for a job and my father in turn mocks me that I am a failure, my sister also mocks me as well that I am a failure, this is despite that I was able to secure a loan for myself which I gave my parents and I am presently in a debt of three years. Before I lost my job I sought my father's advice that I wanted to buy a plot of land and start a building project and he instantly started keeping malice with me. I am struggling to get a job now with only God as my strength, at this time all my family and extended family have written me off and abandoned me including my cousins uncle's and aunties as well as females too as I am due for marriage , What is your advice?

Things like this do happen within the family when you are not treated the same way your siblings are treated.

Just forget the family for now and concentrate on your job search or try to acquire a skill that can add value to your life.

You will be ok. It z a matter of commitment and determination on your own part. God bless you.

Is well dear, keep your head high and hope for the best