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Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Jacktheripper: 4:06pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Young lady, dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys. They are nothing but bad news. One of the reasons you shouldn’t punish yourself with such guys is that they have no business dating in the first place. What can someone who hasn’t figured out his life offer you as a woman? If a man doesn’t know where he’s headed in life or what he wants to do to make money, what does he need you for? He should go and figure out his life first before looking for where to sweat and release his semen. Being broke is not a virtue. Dating a broke guy is bad. Don’t do that to yourself especially if you are an ambitious, hardworking and successful lady. Don’t listen to people who tell you that maybe God brought you into his life to lift him out of the pit of financial lack. You are not Jesus. You can only support him but you can’t make money on his behalf. He needs to do that himself. A broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. You don’t expect a woman to love you when you don’t even love your broke self. Instead of mounting pressure on your woman to put up with you when you are broke, go and make legit money. A woman shouldn’t be expected to bear the burden of a broke man. That’s unfair. Even an independent woman who is not interested in a man’s money doesn’t have to settle for a man who is broke. She needs a man who is focused, one who has vision and the one who knows what he wants out of life and not one who can’t even take care of himself. Ladies, you won’t be at peace dating a broke guy. He will keep complaining about your clothes, your hair, your house and the things you can afford. He will emotionally blackmail you with his inability to catch up with you financially. Stay away from such distraction. A broke man will claim that the reason you keep talking to him anyhow is that you are richer than him. Let him go far. You don’t need such a man around you. He will destroy your destiny with his broke, inferior self. Leave him alone to go find his level before he uses his reggae to spoil your blues. Ladies, don’t be carried away by emotions. Love doesn’t pay house rent, pay for power bills, hospital bills or buy foodstuffs. Love without money is punishment. You must stay away from that kind of love. If he doesn’t fit into your lifestyle and plans for the future, leave him alone. You shouldn’t be punishing yourself like that. A broke man needs time alone to figure out his life and not go about dumping his frustrations on different women in the name of dating. You may jump into conclusion that girls don’t want to date broke guys because they have nothing to offer financially, but no girl came to this world to suffer on behalf of any man. The relationship will be full of anger, frustrations and unnecessary fights. Who needs all that stress in Nigeria of today? A relationship with a broke guy is boring. There’s nothing exciting about moaning and complaining about money when the guy is doing nothing to change his condition. When your mates are going out with their men, showing them proudly to everyone they meet, you are stuck with your broke guy indoors sweating. Even sex with him is hell. Dating a broke guy means courting disgrace. It is annoying that he is not buying you things, but he feels entitled to complain about the things you buy for yourself. Whether you want to hear it or not, money will cause fight between you and your broke boyfriend. Little things will cause big fights when a broke man is in the mix. The stress is not worth it. Let him date himself. It is funny that broke guys demand excessive respect. Even rich guys who can afford to buy expensive things for their women don’t demand too much respect as broke guys do. They have this false sense of entitlement that makes putting up with their lack of money hard. The issue is not being broke but demanding respect when you don’t offer your woman anything but anger and frustration. Nigerian men are quick to insult girls who say they can’t date broke men. Instead of focusing their energy on making money, they are tearing their boxers over a woman’s decision to stay away from broke men. If you are broke, you don’t have a business dating a woman. You will add to her problems. Sort yourself out first. Ladies, you shouldn’t be sleeping with a broke guy. You have no business sharing a bed with a man who has nothing to offer himself. You have to love yourself enough to stay away from broke guys. It is a waste of time. Even if you feel age is no longer on your side and you must be in a relationship or get married by fire or by force, don’t go close to a broke guy. If you eventually marry him after months or years of scheming and putting up with his many dramas, you will regret it. Dating a broke guy means walking on egg shells. These guys ooze out low self esteem and they will infect you with it. You will be constantly careful not to make them feel bad for not having money. They won’t understand why you have to go out or meet a new client or expand your business. They complain a lot and before you know it, they get aggressive. A broke man has a fragile ego that you must keep massaging just to make him feel better. I am not saying that you must marry a rich man or go out of your way to capture a rich man. I am saying that you must love yourself enough not to put up with a broke, entitled man who is not doing anything to change his situation. You are not his saviour. You are not God. You cannot help him if he doesn’t take the initiative to help himself. Ladies, don’t allow the pressure to get married push you into the hands of these boys who are broke but demand respect like it is going out of fashion. If you want to live a long, peaceful life, leave broke guys alone. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by HORLADSTAR(m): 4:14pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
It is a sin IN UR own VILLAGE |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Uyiii: 4:16pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
then you wonder why boys are celebrating innovation of sex doll like it's Christmas, this very idiot is one of the many reasons A sex doll can't vent all of this gibberish na, it will respect itself. P.s: if this gibberish was said by a boy, permit me to say he's ravaging stewpeed and he's an hoeloshow 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Whobedatte(m): 4:16pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
You spoke like a nigerian |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Singing ***haters hating for no reason*** one very popular lady nairalander referenced statistics on Nigerian population on Wednesday she said only 2% of Nigerians are responsible for 99% of deposit in Nigeria banks, according to cbn or nddc She said nearly 18.6% of the Nigerian working population or workforce are unemployed She said the start up salary for your young Nigerian graduates is between 20000 to 30000 naira In other words, she said nearly 98% of Nigerians are poor and about 20% of those of 98% are extra poor So I don't get the fuss about broke guys self, when the girls are not better than us 5 Likes
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by donstan18: 4:17pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Attention you seek, insults you shall find. 3 Likes
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by HeWrites(m): 4:17pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Jacktheripper: Trashy thing |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Atlantia(f): 4:17pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Broke and entitled guys abi? What about broke and entitled girls? Oga go siddon jare. We've heard you. 4 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by waywardpikin: 4:19pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Na wa o... see long epistle on top broke boys. Cho You're just repeating yourself upandan. Something you could have summarized in a paragraph. If a lady wants to date a broke guy how is it your consign? Seems a broke nigga stole your last girlfriend. Broke guys are bad like that 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by gabinogem(m): 4:20pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
young lady for u to come up with this long episode, wetin broke guys do u |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by eezeribe(m): 4:26pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
OK |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by ubunja(m): 4:28pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
#WithSexDollsWeStand 4 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by ElRapido: 4:28pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Op is a useless and a deluded fellow. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by femolacqua(m): 4:29pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Atlantia: |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Atlantia(f): 4:30pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
femolacqua:This one that you're shining teeth upandan...be like sey you don chop belleful. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by ba7man(m): 4:33pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
This is the reason broke guys run into serious cash and start treating women like trash. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by pedrilo: 4:47pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Atlantia:Dear listen, I'm a guy, but Op is very correct., though he sounded a bit harsh but his message is very VALID okay! I hate poverty with a passion, the reason Im working so hard to break free from it LEGITIMATELY! Every sensible man should hate poverty and toil hard to break free from it b4 chasing a woman. Broke guys should not have any biz wit dating, poverty is a disease! breaing free from poverty should be their biz and primary goal! leave women and emancipate urself from financial slavery. na bad advice be dat? 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Atlantia(f): 4:56pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
pedrilo: Bro listen, I understand everything op is trying to say but I believe that being broke is something that shouldn't be accepted by both sexes. I too hate poverty and would do everything within my power to break free from it.. Legitimately, of course. A lot of women would take such a post as an encouragement to keep chasing 'Ready-made' men instead of bettering themselves. Man or Woman... no one should delight in being a liability. It's as simple as that. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by pedrilo: 5:05pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Atlantia:Very intelligent reply. Ffw you right away. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Abeg which bible quote that one |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Nobody: 5:18pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Please only lazy women, slay queens,prostitutes, runs girls and broke as women that can't offer a man anything or support a man in life think like this. They believe the moment you date them you automatically become their father, mother and bread winner. Flee from ladies like this nothing good can come outta them. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by madenigga(m): 5:24pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Thats wrong this is what is affecting me uptil today not to have a gf, cause when i was broke since girls hardly looked at my lane i stopped looking their lane too coupled with the fact that am a shy guy. On the long run i got used to pay as you go girls(runs girls) now am made to still get a girlfriend is hard, if i see a girl i like i just tell her after the normal talks that i want us to see that i will give her 10k or 20k. If the gal agrees good if she doesnt i bounce. Up till now am still single but i dont lack fvck in my life, maybe God knows best. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by madenigga(m): 5:29pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
If you are a broke guy date gals infact break hearts dont let lack of money make u develop low self esteem infact if the girl jonze change am for am(be real dont be a siasy you poor now no mean say you go poor forever, but make sure you have a vision not where when the girl leaves you, you return to the gutters. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Big Sin by Kings1930(m): 6:02pm On Jan 19, 2018 |
Jacktheripper: 1 Like
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