I met dis guy and i found out dat he had a fiancee, however we have been going out for the past 2 years, but now theres dis new girl which have come in the picture and i dont know if he is cheating on me the things they talk about and the way they hug each other is giving me doubts about him and her and i cant say the sentence ITS OVER!!

What should i do?? please help o!!

die in silence

Jump into d ocean

Never underestimate your instincts. If you are unhappy then you guys need to talk about this and how its has been affecting you.

u see thats th problem i ahev spoken 2 him but he says nothing is going on between the two of them, later people started to see the two of them and start suspecting the 2 of dem he didnt talk 2 her 4 a week but 4 d past 2 weeks dey have been stuck like glue,

Well he is inconsiderate then because he is not taking your feelings into consideration

I really dont knw wat 2 do

My dear you do know what to do, your just scared to make a move. Follow what your head is saying.

Ruuunnn. . . . . . . . . . . .

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship. Dere's no doubt d guy has gotten what he wnts 4rm u n he feels itz time for anoda victim,pls dn't make d mistake of trying to fight or possess him but u can get him bak by seducing him and dat means u av 2 up ur game.nw just pretend as if he does nt exist and u dn't care about him and d girl n also dn't gv him sex within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship. Dere's no doubt d guy has gotten what he wnts 4rm u n he feels itz time for anoda victim,pls dn't make d mistake of trying to fight or possess him but u can get him bak by seducing him and dat means u av 2 up ur game.nw just pretend as if he does nt exist and u dn't care about him and d girl n also dn't gv him sex within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship. Dere's no doubt d guy has gotten what he wnts 4rm u n he feels itz time for anoda victim,pls dn't make d mistake of trying to fight or possess him but u can get him bak by seducing him and dat means u av 2 up ur game.nw just pretend as if he does nt exist and u dn't care about him and d girl n also dn't gv him sex within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship. Dere's no doubt d guy has gotten what he wnts 4rm u n he feels itz time for anoda victim,pls dn't make d mistake of trying to fight or possess him but u can get him bak by seducing him and dat means u av 2 up ur game.nw just pretend as if he does nt exist and u dn't care about him and d girl n also dn't gv him sex within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship. Dere's no doubt d guy has gotten what he wnts 4rm u n he feels itz time for anoda victim,pls dn't make d mistake of trying to fight or possess him but u can get him bak by seducing him and dat means u av 2 up ur game.nw just pretend as if he does nt exist and u dn't care about him and d girl n also dn't gv him sex within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

Girl if u luv ur relationship plz protect it.refusing him intimacy mit push him more into d temptation u r surposing him to b falling into rit nw.girl my advice is dat u sit him down nd talk abt d issue nd hw u feel each time d girl is around him.remeber hard way is nt d only way so dnt start a fight dat can push him more far away from u.

Adim, y u spammin d whole place?

Adim, y u spammin d whole place?

Daduke2k, you are doing the same damn thing. Why do people always post 2, 3 or 4x? we can read you know

I ll tel u hw it hapens. Wen i click reply, it takes me 2 romance . Clik d bak button and clik reply again, and wen am through writing , i click d (reply, then click once, then wait) button. It opens a window and says: an error has occurd. (bt it has postd already witout u knowin it) i bak it up again and reply. Dats how u hav double , or multiple posts. It aint nobody's fault. NL NIDS 2 UPGRADE. . . . .

I met dis guy and i found out dat he had a fiancee, however we have been going out for the past 2 years, but now theres dis new girl which have come in the picture and i dont know if he is cheating on me the things they talk about and the way they hug each other is giving me doubts about him and her and i cant say the sentence ITS OVER!!

What should i do?? please help o!!


u said he has a fiancee n u still went ahead to go out with him 4 2 years and now there is another girl on the line. Do u know what he is doing? he is taking u 4 granted. he has a fiancee yet u still go out him n now why won't he have another girlfriend u would sheepishly accept it. my dear run 4 ur dear life he does not love n respect u.

at first you snatched someone"S boyfriend now someone esle has come in for the always vacant guy, u are complaining my friend keep quite.who knows you must have in the first place dump the really guy for you  4 this i go do'am.

Hi Zeal.

Tell him u are not comfortable with his attitude but with sense coz he might explode and start shouting and from there u might lose him. Some guys can't be trusted, u can't be loading the gun with bullets in the house and he just goes around shooting.

Yes i knw its stupid 2 go out with sum1 dat had a fiancee but dis relationship is 2 years!!

Should i leave him orrr

@Krimz, if this guy love u, he should be serious and stop playing with ur heart, i know u seeing him with other gals huging and all sort wouldn't make u feel comfortable and u will be jealous. He should just tell u i love u o i want to marry u o and if he doesn't want to do that then quit, there other good guys out there which i think u will definately see. The Lord is ur strenght sha! pele.

adim2:

He/she dat luvs less controls d relatnship.     dis is an absolute truth.     dn't gv him intimacy within this period.he might nt kurm back but you wil av an advantage over him

dis is a very fat lie