honourable356:
I have just few words to say...

Whoever I end up marrying must be intelligent...i repeat MUST! I am not saying she shouldn't be beautiful...

What I am saying is,

SHE MUST BE PRESENTABLE AND INTELLIGENT...(Education-wise, and common sense)
That is to say, I want a lady with all her quality but intelligence should be one of it.

Who want dull children?
Certainly no me!

chineduemmao:
u better start now to d mould ur own wife b/c [book] intelligent chics no d fine ooo, d ones i know shaa.

DonX001:


You basically assume people want to change.
That's wrong. Why?? Because change is uncomfortable.

She might thirst for knowledge as you say, but the thirst will be for basically useless knowledge like which Nollywood movie just got released, what's going on in Zeeworld today, and other similar bullshit.
Or she might even have no thirst for knowledge whatsoever, other than watching movies and looking at shoes and bags.
She might not be willing to change.

Marrying someone on the assumption, or hope, that she'll change is a recipe for disaster.

That is what the OP is talking about.

I know because I've been in the exact same situation before, and have dated the exact same type of girl before, and it wasn't funny if you're an intellectually inclined person.
And the reality of the situation??- she wasn't willing to change.

Outcome??- Of course I ended the relationship.

chineduemmao:
u better start now to d mould ur own wife b/c [book] intelligent chics no d fine ooo, d ones i know shaa.

Stevengerd:
Seems Ur bae na Abu zaria student.

DonX001:


You basically assume people want to change.
That's wrong. Why?? Because change is uncomfortable.

She might thirst for knowledge as you say, but the thirst will be for basically useless knowledge like which Nollywood movie just got released, what's going on in Zeeworld today, and other similar bullshit.
Or she might even have no thirst for knowledge whatsoever, other than watching movies and looking at shoes and bags.
She might not be willing to change.

Marrying someone on the assumption, or hope, that she'll change is a recipe for disaster.

That is what the OP is talking about.

I know because I've been in the exact same situation before, and have dated the exact same type of girl before, and it wasn't funny if you're an intellectually inclined person.
And the reality of the situation??- she wasn't willing to change.

Outcome??- Of course I ended the relationship.

Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.

honourable356:
You still don't understand the word "presentable"?

Who even told you that.. as you put it,( book) intelligent chics is not fine?? who told you so??

You just have not met them, simple!

sexdoll:


What do you understand to be intelligence?

In other words, what will make you to know or say someone is intelligent?

ImaIma1:


So all the intelligent ladies are not beautiful?? How did you come to that conclusion?

Dirkcoyt:


Why should any sane person not interested in what's going on in the word? Our very existence lies on this world so everyone should be aware about its happenings.

habsydiamond:
U are asking questions....who won help u marry her for here.....

AntiNormal:



How did she become your girlfriend without you noticing her subpar reasoning?
Did you not see the signs before you asked her out and whatnot, or did you not just care?

honourable356:
Two question at a time..huh?

How do you know someone is intelligent It is simple... Engage them,i say.. engage them in conversation raging from different topic. Her quick and calculated response.. her choice of words.. what she say and type would tell you.

What is intelligence? Someone who has that ability to learn and understand stuffs fast and accurately. He or she understands and knows thing especially when they are taught.

Does this answer your questions??

Fawklicant:


Are you sure we didn't date the same girl sef? Because I'm sure she is still not married now despite the so called beauty.

KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

alexialin:










Really?

You reek of arrogance

I now understand why you couldnt change your ex.

The girl u are either dating or married to now, is she very intelligent?

Talk true, make devil shame.

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

chineduemmao:
i said "the ones i know" they are not even presentable ooo. Nonye law student [IMSU] ugly, on top am she no d even mak up and when she does, omo! na disaster. AMAKA, ANATOMY STUDENT, UGLY WITH DEEPERLIFE ATIRE. is it strange to u? d reason is obvious.

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say, you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

Modified.
The laws of attraction says "Likes attract" unlike your physics law that states that "Opposite attract". I wasn't the one that stipulated that law so get a grip of yourself while giving me stupid mention just to come off intelligent. Google is of help if you need an elaborate explanation.

chineduemmao:
i said "d ones i know" sis and u must b among them bc i don c ur pic and u no fine

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

DonX001:


Definitely not arrogant, just being factual and realistic.
Arrogance is really far from me if you know me.

Yes, the girl I'm seeing now is much more intelligent, and I'm much happier.

stilldoingokay:



a child.


a honey immature teenager.

olamide452:

Seconded

Nasarawaboy:

Op, as the person above me stated, get her books to read, it could work you know! As for me ooo, I can't and will never marry an ugly girl simply because she's intelligent. A dull pretty lady can be worked upon, but an ugly intelligent lady? Well..... Take her to heaven and bring her back, if she ain't pretty she ain't pretty. I just hate ugly girls. Op pity your children, give them a pretty mum they can be able to flaunt. Am not saying she should be miss Nigeria, am saying let her be presentable, let her be someone you can confidently introduce to someone.
But wetin I sabi sef

ubunja:

what really would you be discussing that needs a PHD
my mother is uneducated but we talk till the sun comes up.you peeps amaze me