fedorahat:


Front page is the face of nairaland.
We all know first impression matters, we are supposed to have useful post pushed there as it might be difficult going through the entire forum for a useful post, the agric section is my favorite, when last did it grace front-page, how many times do people post there . This is because they feel they are not appreciated enough.
We want to see meaningful conversation, not the jokes we have this days.

bettercreature:
Most women always turn to dunce when they are in love with a particular man and that is why they sometimes do stewpid things like crying because of him,saying yes yes yes to whatever he says.Not because they are weak but because they are in love
You shouldn’t mistake love for weakness or unintelligent you will get burnt

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

victorakpabome:


Local Govt Studies

Just imagine

And this one will tell people she is in school

fedorahat:


Are we talking of people or posts, I never said there is nothing good in nairaland, the truth is rubbish far out numbers meaningful posts.

Go to front page and check out how many topics there can influence someone's life.

onlyme07:

You're right bro.I totally agree with your submission but when those concerned are not doing the needful,lets do our bit by contributing to our favourite section. Until NL has a competitor,it will be hard to see the changes we desire. Happy Sunday

ubunja:

like you say a brain is to function with. so does someone need a phd to have a functional brain??
what do i need a high IQ GF for?? kimbraa you must understand that what women need from men is not what men need from women.you are stuck on "intelligence" just coz thats what women need in men since:intelligence=high chances of qualifying=good job=a good salary=a good lifestyle for you and your kids. but men live by a different set of expectations.guys value beauty and youth since men are after sex and children.not an educated woman. learn to listen when we tell you these things.thats why older educated women go crazy when hubby divorces her for a cute village teen with dusty feet.your intelligence is NOT an asset.get that thru you head.if you dont want its your funeral.thats why you gona go crazy when men choose dumb sex dolls over you.coz your brains were never part of the equation.dont argue with a guy about what a guy wants.

sexdoll:


You have a point.

But if you look at it closely, having more rubbish than meaningful posts on nairaland can also be seen as nothing but a true reflection of human race in general.

Anywhere you go, the fools will always outnumber and overwhelm the wise ones when it comes to numbers.

that is why it is always easy to control the masses.

if everyone were to become smart, serious wahala go dey o!

Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.

fedorahat:


The moderators are supposed to be smart, try signing up with the BBC and check out argument flows there, or you can go to daily mail, you only see minimal trolling.

Nairaland is the biggest website in Africa, if am not wrong, how does it portray us.

ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

tonyhoney:

Reasonable question. Whatever the quality you want in a woman, it should have been inculcated in her through the parental up-growing and education. If she lacks those qualities now, forget it, you can't train her again, she will only be pretending. You can't force her to read books, she will only be stearing at the books like season film. Whatever the quality she lacks before marriage, she lacks it forever. Dont pitty to marry a woman, but if you are a kind that love divorce, pitty a woman for marriage. But if her beauty and attitudes are enough reason to marry her, then so be it, but if I see you complaining or carry side chics after marriage, your cain is in the roof.

Stevengerd:
Seems Ur bae na Abu zaria student.

ken55:


Local Govt Studies is not a bad course and anyone studying it should be proud of it. Do you know that in overseas they have Local Govt Studies up to PhD level? Why? Because it's very important. For example, any federal or state impact on you as a citizen must first get to the local govt before it gets to you! Today you don't feel the impact of the government as you should because the local govt is as good as not functioning. Some may not see the immediate application of that course now in Nigeria but the world is changing.

kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

oyb:
well, if there is a marked difference, better swerve.and this goes both ways. i would also tell women the same.

you dont want to spend the rest of your life struggling to explain things that you consider simple, and watching your kids imbibe the same kind of reasoning.

sexdoll:


Does it matter how nairaland portrays us?

a smart person will always be a smart person nairaland or not.

so also a foolish person.

DonX001:

Lol, I can see you're a really intelligent guy, your points have some validity.
But speak for yourself alone, not for all guys.

I personally do NOT want a dumbo for a wife, even if she's a combination of Beyonce, Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj.
And I'm sure there are a lot of other guys like that.

A dumb wife can ruin your important outings, cannot confidently host your friends, colleagues and family to dinner cos the only conversation she is comfortable with is Nollywood and fashion.
She can get scammed of your mutual hard earned fortune because of dumbness and gullibility (I've seen this happen before).

And worst case, she can pass on the dumbness to your kids, despite your own intelligence. As it seems that children tend to inherit their mother's level of intelligence (some research suggests this as someone has pointed out earlier in the thread, and its true in my family and in a lot of other families I've looked at).

Do you really want to have dumb kids?

Remember that beauty fades quickly, by the time she's over forty and has kids, a lot of that beauty has disappeared.
But dumbness is permanent (most times).

Think about it.

Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.

clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

Shimshark:
Once watched a science show that suggested that children's intelligence comes more from the mom.. Soo if that's correct dum wife = dum kids..

donstan18:


Rule of which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.

The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.

Dhotseal:
Bros, please think of the future of your future kids..lol
Nigeria already has a good number of dimwits and morons, so pls don't add to the number by marring a lady who has some 'cerebral deficiencies'

KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

fedorahat:


Bros there is no intelligence in 80 percent of nairaland posts, except you want her to learn bigotry

DonX001:

Lol, I can see you're a really intelligent guy, your points have some validity.
But speak for yourself alone, not for all guys.

I personally do NOT want a dumbo for a wife, even if she's a combination of Beyonce, Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj.
And I'm sure there are a lot of other guys like that.

A dumb wife can ruin your important outings, cannot confidently host your friends, colleagues and family to dinner cos the only conversation she is comfortable with is Nollywood and fashion.
She can get scammed of your mutual hard earned fortune because of dumbness and gullibility (I've seen this happen before).

And worst case, she can pass on the dumbness to your kids, despite your own intelligence. As it seems that children tend to inherit their mother's level of intelligence (some research suggests this as someone has pointed out earlier in the thread, and its true in my family and in a lot of other families I've looked at).

Do you really want to have dumb kids?

Remember that beauty fades quickly, by the time she's over forty and has kids, a lot of that beauty has disappeared.
But dumbness is permanent (most times).

Think about it.

fedorahat:


We are not talking about how nairaland portrays the individual, but how the world sees us via our comments on Nairaland.

ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.