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How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 28, 2018 |
I know today is sunday but I have to seek advice pls. My ex gf has refused to leave me. She has agreed to be a side chick even though I have a serious gf. My gf almost caught us but I managed to control d situation. I need space from my ex, I am tired but each time I try to put her away she cries and feel hurt but immediately I say anything to her in order not to make her feel bad, she believes me hook ,line and sinker and ready to continue our affairs. She knows about my gf and gives her space when she is around, I told her my gf must not kno nd she has been good in keeping it a secret. I am confuse now, pls how do I put her off without drama. |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by ashjay001(m): 8:38am On Jan 28, 2018 |
Abeycity97: Play them, until they both become side-chicks n u get a new main chick Mr Nice n Generous. Who wan throway ATM m/c? If na u nko? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Pubichairs(m): 8:41am On Jan 28, 2018 |
this means one thing .. 2 Likes
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Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by MissWrite(f): 8:42am On Jan 28, 2018 |
It's too late for "no drama". Tell your gf that you cheated with your ex (so that your ex won't have any material to blackmail you with). She'll forgive you if it's meant to be. Leaving an ex is messy for a lot of people. After that, you'll find that it would be easier for you to stand your ground when the ex comes begging you for sex; because you know your gf will be watching you. Of course, this is only if you really want to stop dicking around. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 28, 2018 |
Congratulations bro. You're d man. Many men dey find ur situation to be in. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by haywire07(m): 8:49am On Jan 28, 2018 |
I don't need to talk much. I'll just let u know that it's you that's entertaining ur ex and giving her welcome hands. So just keep playing that game you think you are good at and expect any result 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by damjane(f): 9:06am On Jan 28, 2018 |
if you truly want her out of your life then be a man and kick her out. Let your no be no regardless of how it turns out, a girl like that is up to no good. Stop keeping secrets from your girl, let her know what is going on before its too late. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by mikejj(m): 9:17am On Jan 28, 2018 |
baba warn her o..who knows if she has nt used p**sy juju on you... |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Pubichairs:Life is not all about pussy, and a woman doesnt av to be a tool of gratification. All I am asking for is how to leave a lady without hurting her. All she wants is love and I think I am good at showing affection, but I cant keep doing two at a time.If she didnt cheat on me , I wouldnt be with my current gf. |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
MissWrite:Thanks for ur advice, only that I dont kno how my gf will take this, she has asked me b4 if there is anything btw us of whichbI denied, she also asked if I am cheating of which I also denied, but I have been thinking too, d end haSC come for my ex, may God help me. |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Next2Bezee(m): 12:36pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Doesn't seem like you want her out of your life at all. You are now enjoying her and your gf together. Good for you But good things don't last forever. Better start planning how to cope when you lose both as you have refused to choose one. |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by AlexCk: 12:38pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Dunno why people do this, U had an ex, free am, hwfa, hwfa parolz only U have a gf U decided to still do things with ur ex, knowing fully well the complications it might(infact would) later bring. It's gets complicated, and now u want a way out. Sometimes, dunno y we 'over-complicate' things for ourselves though |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Maxi112: 12:39pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Every little thing them go run enter nl na wah oh. Where can I buy a London used sex doll? |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by Divay22(f): 12:47pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Hurt her with the truth and never comfort her with a lie.. You're seriously enjoying this attention she's giving to you, she can't and won't cry forever.. You haven't yet taken a stand if to leave her or continue.... The day you do, that marks the end of the both of you. I don't know why some girls don't believe their next boyfriend would likely be better than the former. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Keep Her Away From Me by MissWrite(f): 1:11pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
Abeycity97: You're welcome, dear. Maybe on a day when you're trying to reassure your gf about some major decision in her life, be sure to tell her that she has good instincts and that she should trust herself more. Then you say, "like that time when you were suspecting that I was cheating with Amaka, you were actually spot on." She won't know whether to be happy about the compliment (and being right) or angry about your cheating. I'm sorry, couldn't resist . Seriously now, maybe you try taking a hard and serious stance with your ex first, and see how it goes. Don't give in to her demands. If this doesn't work, then open up to your gf. She will rake, of course, but keep things in perspective: you love her and are ready to move on with her; you were in a position you found somewhat overwhelming, and coming clean about this would help you squash whatever thing you had going on with your ex. It's an explanation, not an excuse. Don't forget to be very very sorry. But I'm not supposed to be directing you like you're a character in a book. You are your own person and you know what you want. Good luck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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