Put two sworn enemies of opposite sex in the same apartment and let them live together for a year....in most cases,they become friends and probably fall in love.

We have heard of ladies and guys falling in love with people in their work place,church,neighborhood and we have read stories of kidnapped ladies falling in love with the kidnappers after spending some days together in their hideout.

What is the point?

Many of us usually want to ensure that all conditions are right before we start an affair with someone....we want to be sure of our feelings,the compatibility,the chemistry and so on but it needs not be this way.

There is nothing like love at first sight but if you only give that guy or lady the chance to develop a regular closeness with you,both of you may likely form a bonding and be fond of each other which is stronger than "love".

You really dont have to be in love with someone before you can start a purposeful romance...as a guy,as long as you like what you see and as a lady as long as you know he really wants you,give each other a chance,get closer and grow in love just as most of our parents did.

I don't know if this makes sense.

Makes perfect sense, low of constant exposure. It works 80% of the time. They may also hate each other more sha...Hahaha

If you like, stay in a one room apartment with one girl for one year, if she no go like you, she no go like you.



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Here we go again!

Hmm why is this speaking to me lol

DaddyKross:
If you like, stay in a one room apartment with one girl for one year, if she no go like you, she no go like you.



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Na lie. Big fat lie

I just don't think I can ever fall in love with someone I already dislike... Once I have concluded your matter in my life, it is finished

Zykod:



Na lie. Big fat lie

I agree

dingbang:
I just don't think I can ever fall in love with someone I already dislike... Once I have concluded your matter in my life, it is finished

Given the condition stated in Tok's thread, trsut me, you can't put a cap on your feelings 100%. You'll see parts in the other individual and you'll fall in love..Moreso, he didn't use the term " dislike ", it's rather unattractive...

Safiaa:
I agree

Hey Safiaa, it's you, Happy New Year, how are we dating this year nah? You need to be up in your game, shey you know?

Lol they may not be enemies anymore but 'fall in love' is a stretch

Depends on some factors too, it's possible, but it's not as simple as just 'two people of the opposite sex'

Put two sworn enemies in a room

Who gave you that idea

They are probably going to lynch or poison each other

I don't believe in the psychology shii

dingbang:
I just don't think I can ever fall in love with someone I already dislike... Once I have concluded your matter in my life, it is finished

For about 2years I never loved my ex but we were always close then suddenly from nowhere I started having strong feelings for her and at a stage I could not imagine a day without her....that is growing in love and indeed,anyone can grow in love if you only give that person the chance.

ibkayee:
Lol they may not be enemies anymore but 'fall in love' is a stretch

Depends on some factors too, it's not as clear cut as just 'two people of the opposite sex'

As in fall in love, trust me. Been there...Someone you know too was there... Nobody dey know until the falling don take place...

Zykod:



Hey Safiaa, it's you, Happy New Year, how are we dating this year nah? You need to be up in your game, shey you know?

lol what do you mean I need to be ' up in my game'. Happy new year to you too

Oga 2017 has come and gone and your still unmarried



Anything stopping you from getting married should die by fire, oya begin dey pray

ibkayee:
Lol they may not be enemies anymore but 'fall in love' is a stretch

Depends on some factors too, it's possible, but it's not as simple as just 'two people of the opposite sex'

Good...at least being friends is something better than enemies.

ibkayee:
Lol they may not be enemies anymore but 'fall in love' is a stretch

Depends on some factors too, it's possible, but it's not as clear cut as just 'two people of the opposite sex'

How about putting an Islamic fundamentalist in the same room with a fanatic christian

My point is if both parties are not interested in each other or have different principles, no amount of time spent with together will change that

Homeboiy:
Oga 2017 has come and gone and your still unmarried



Anything stopping you from getting married should die by fire, oya begin dey pray

Bro my problem is not women..if I want a woman today I can get but I need deliverance from the habit of being too picky.MAY GOD HELP ME.

greiboy:
How about putting an Islamic fundamentalist in the same room with a fanatic christian

Buahaha

I don't know if I should mention this Mod called lalasticlala abi he no be moderator again?

Toks2008:


Bro my problem is not women..if I want a woman today I can get but I need deliverance from the habit of being too picky.MAY GOD HELP ME.

You need to cultivate the woman you desire from the woman with you bro, every woman, rada, almost every woman can be the woman of your dreams. Time dey go o. It has to be within the next 12-24 months o Toks

Zykod:



You need to cultivate the woman you desire from the woman with you bro, every woman, rada, almost every woman can be the woman of your dreams. Time dey go o. It has to be within the next 12-24 months o Toks

You can't understand and I can't spell it out here.

If I'm in Naija it would have been easier.

I'm a faithful guy to the core and the idea of cheating on my wife is appalling which makes it compulsory for me to get my taste...expecially the type that has the exterior dimension I want cos whatever is pleasing to my eyes will inadvertently be pleasing to my soul.

Toks2008:


Bro my problem is not women..if I want a woman today I can get but I need deliverance from the habit of being too picky.MAY GOD HELP ME.

And from my comment there, I was praying for u because I know u need a serious deliverance

Let me tell you...your been monitored by a marine spirit

Nobody will tell u this except me

Come n I will take u to where u will be delivered

Toks2008:


You can't understand and I can't spell it out here.

If I'm in Naija it would have been easier.

Trust me hommie, i'm a man, i can relate. Your excuses are your limitations. You have dating sites, you can date sporadically, what's stopping you? Stop whatever's stopping you. Identify the limitations and work around them

Zykod:




Trust me hommie, i'm a man, i can relate. Your excuses are your limitations. You have dating sites, you can date sporadically, what's stopping you? Stop whatever's stopping you. Identify the limitations and work around them

Nothing like marine spirit but it's simply about preferences...As I wrote earlier...I have no problem with getting women and I even have them asking but I know what I want and it is important I go for that.

Again for guys of my age,it is not as easy as you think...The Ooni of Ife would have been married after his divorce with all the authority and power coupled with his cuteness yet he is still single...It's more difficult than you think.

Same problem is faced by ladies when they turn 30 and above cos the older you get as an unmarried person the more difficult it becomes.

Peachess:
Not true. If I'm kept in a room for a year with a guy I hate do much, nothing on earth will ever make me fall in love with the person. Especially if the person has the kind of temperament I hate so much. I'll only hate him more.

As I wrote...in most cases..not all

Toks2008:


Nothing like marine spirit but it's simply about preferences...As I wrote earlier...I have no problem with getting women and I even have them asking but I know what I want and it is important I go for that.

Again for guys of my age,it is not as easy as you think...The Ooni of Ife would have been married after his divorce with all the authority and power coupled with his cuteness yet he is still single...It's more difficult than you think.

Same problem is faced by ladies when they turn 30 and above cos the older you get as an unmarried person the more difficult it becomes.

Bros i didn't saw village tins oh, you want find my trouble. I can relate with search gets more tedious with age. We're in the same age gap and have similar expereinces, we've both talked on this in time past.


I simply meant identify whatever bottlenecks that you consider as hinderances to your objective and create solutions. I.e. if you sign up multiple dating sites for goodness sakes you broaden your scope and can meet as many as possible. Whatever your kinds, i'm sure you can find in dating sites.

I'm unhappy you resign to the sidelines and keep complaining about the tides of the ocean without taking the first dip into the water. There perspection is the problem, you need to abandon the psyche, how you view things and just do things without reciting the reasons not to do them over and over, its becoming a routine and an anthem in your mind bro, snap out of it.

Cmon the world has millions of single ladies and you keep whining about inadequacies, you can't be the most complex being even of your age, cheer up bro. Get $50-$100in your card, sign upgood dating sites and kuku do whitey, you're good looking and i'm sure you have so many matches outhere crying for you privately....You're the knight your duty is to go seek out and save your damsel in distress and not whine over not finding her, create solutons bro, generate a blueprint, develop a road map.

Zykod:



Bros i didn't saw village tins oh, you want find my trouble. I can relate with search gets more tedious with age. We're in the same age gap and have similar expereinces, we've both talked on this in time past.


I simply meant identify whatever bottlenecks that you consider as hinderances to your objective and create solutions. I.e. if you sign up multiple dating sites for goodness sakes you broaden your scope and can meet as many as possible. Whatever your kinds, i'm sure you can find in dating sites.

I'm unhappy you resign to the sidelines and keep complaining about the tides of the ocean without taking the first dip into the water. There perspection is the problem, you need to abandon the psyche, how you view things and just do things without reciting the reasons not to do them over and over, its becoming a routine and an anthem in your mind bro, snap out of it.

Cmon the world has millions of single ladies and you keep whining about inadequacies, you can't be the most complex being even of your age, cheer up bro. Get $50-$100in your card, sign upgood dating sites and kuku do whitey, you're good looking and i'm sure you have so many matches outhere crying for you privately....You're the knight your duty is to go seek out and save your damsel in distress and not whine over not finding her, create solutons bro, generate a blueprint, develop a road map.

Unfortunately I can't spell it all out here.

Trust me,I have no issues with ladies perse but it's about my perspective to life. ..I see things differently.

Toks2008:


Unfortunately I can't spell it all out here.

Trust me,I have no issues with ladies perse but it's about my perspective to life. ..I see things differently.

I know where y'are at... As we age, choices are limited, singles are fewer blah blah blah. My heart says i should tell you to discard your fears and just do it..

Zykod:


Cmon the world has millions of single ladies and you keep whining about inadequacies, you can't be the most complex being even of your age, cheer up bro. Get $50-$100in your card, sign upgood dating sites and kuku do whitey, you're good looking and i'm sure you have so many matches outhere crying for you privately....You're the knight your duty is to go seek out and save your damsel in distress and not whine over not finding her, create solutons bro, generate a blueprint, develop a road map.

See when you have been in the game for long,it will no longer trip you.

But for my love for Jesus,it would not even imagine settling down with any lady but just catch my fun xso I say again and again...getting a woman is the least of my worries at the moment...in fact I run from them but nevertheless I also have an issue with being very picky.