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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:35pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:



Ntuttin is too small bro. If the kids get 2k, they'll appreciate it, if 2k goes into commodities, it could churn out 500naira profit, so they end with 2500...What do we do? They are our mothers, sisters, and the kids ...argh, you remember our little street experiences, we need to shield them from stuvs we passed thru, you dig ?

Lol. I'll see. I'm about to start a business and my own son sef dey dia. I can only give at my convenience. Well talk about this later. Let's not make it seem like this woman is a beggar. She's just in a rut. We'll help when it's ok to do so. Don't forget I also have extended family members who would suck my dîck if I gave them 2k, and everyone knows charity begins at home. wink

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


Lol. "The boy is good, ode lo n je bee". grin. Of course they exist. They are one experience away from joining the dark side. wink





See you, he's not Ode o.. He's a kind loving young guy who still believes in love and taking care of his responsibilities without blinking an eye. He gives his all to make it work, which I respect about him. That's one thing, that makes life refreshing about him. And he has earned my respect.
And By God's grace he won't join the dark side. Amen.

He will keep been loving, selfless and considerate.
*tongue out* cheesy
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 7:41pm On Jan 29, 2018
alexialin:






See you, he's not Ode o.. He's a kind loving young guy who still believes in love and taking care of his responsibilities without blinking an eye. He gives his all to make it work, which I respect about him. That's one thing, that makes life refreshing about him. And he has earned my respect.
And By God's grace he won't join the dark side. Amen.

He will keep been loving, selfless and considerate.
*tongue out* cheesy

Lol. Make sure you don't fûck it up. And if you think he's straying, get him back on track. There's nothing more beautiful than innocent love, alas, it seldom lasts. Good luck in your relationship.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:



Great disrespect @ How can we get op some change to feed her kids though..... Damn it. Did you think before you spilled this thrash

Wasn't meant to be disrespectful at all undecided
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 29, 2018
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:00pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


Lol. Make sure you don't fûck it up. And if you think he's straying, get him back on track. There's nothing more beautiful than innocent love, alas, it seldom lasts. Good luck in your relationship.





Hopefully, I won't fucvk it up. So help me God! Amen.
And he's not straying anywhere smiley
Sighs innocent love is so beautiful and puppish, sha..It's a good feeling to experience even if it doesn't last forever but I pray it last though. It's well jare.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by crackhaus: 8:01pm On Jan 29, 2018
Dimples129:


undecided
What?
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 29, 2018
crackhaus:

Leave my Somali dimples alone abeg cheesycheesy

undecided
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by crackhaus: 8:03pm On Jan 29, 2018
Dimples129:


undecided
Mood?
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


Lol. I'll see. I'm about to start a business and my own son sef dey dia. I can only give at my convenience. Well talk about this later. Let's not make it seem like this woman is a beggar. She's just in a rut. We'll help when it's ok to do so. Don't forget I also have extended family members who would suck my dîck if I gave them 2k, and everyone knows charity begins at home. wink


Hahaha @ Don't forget I also have extended family members who would suck my dîck if I gave them 2k, and everyone knows charity begins at home. wink...You made my day today i swear, please o, dont forget, when it's convenient
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 29, 2018
crackhaus:

Mood?

Yeah grin
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 29, 2018
I hate it when people walk past people they can extend their hands to, 2k, 3k, 4k, 5k, 10, any amount donate o, they are our sisters
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 8:05pm On Jan 29, 2018
alexialin:






Hopefully, I won't fucvk it up. So help me God! Amen.
And he's not straying anywhere smiley
Sighs innocent love is so beautiful and puppish, sha..It's a good feeling to experience even if it doesn't last forever but I pray it last though. It's well jare.

A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man. Once a man realises that love isn't real, he goes to the dark side pretty quickly. Your job is to keep that fantasy going. Can you?

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man. Once a man realises that love isn't real, he goes to the dark side pretty quickly. Your job is to keep that fantasy going. Can you?



Meeeeehn@ A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man.


You just dey dish out revelations today oh. Pheeeew !
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 8:30pm On Jan 29, 2018
LadyPresh1:
When you were first married, you probably felt understood, heard, and connected with your husband. You were polite. You didn’t want to hurt him – and he was sensitive to your feelings. But time passes, and the stress of daily life and kids, jobs, money, house, aging parents and health issues take a toll…and you find that you don’t have the time and patience it takes to be polite. This isn’t necessarily a sign your marriage is over – it just means you need to make time and effort to communicate with love and respect. This personal mantras have kept me going in my relationship.

Again, If your husband had an affair and wants to rebuild your relationship, then crack open the champagne and celebrate! The good news is that marriage infidelity by itself to me is not a sign your marriage is over. I know many couples survive marital unfaithfulness, and many have an even stronger bond because of the cheating. But mine is so different, your man brings her home and say it to your face, he is tired of you.

Today is a month, woke up this morning in utter shock that I am actually divorced. I had to say it out loud to sort of remind myself. I am divorced.
Here are the facts: One, I have been living apart from my now ex-husband for a month. Therefore, I’ve had some time to get used to this single life and single parenting thing.
“Is your marriage over?”
Without hesitation, the reply came, “Yes.”
Seriously, in my head, I was screaming, “It is?! Because honestly, deep down, I thought the trigger would never be pulled on this.
So what all this means is, yes, I’ve gotten a bit used to parts of this new life of mine, but oh my word — I didn’t think it was going to actually happen. I’m so far from being healed and ready for my next chapter in life that it’s not even funny.

Do not get it twisted, I've severally on my real account seek for advise on how to resurrect my already sinking marriage. I was able to meet wonderful people here who begged they remain anonymous. Lawyers and welfare officers too who took my case upon their shoulders. I really appreciate. GOD BLESS!
I would give link to my personal account as an evidence to this.
Wouldn't go further with details. I was a fool for attempting suicide three consecutive times in my marriage. When at some point you were told to your face that you were only married to procreate. He brings this lady home, pushes you out and tell you that both you and your people can't do nothing. I've cried and now I'm healed.

You said I should quit school that you would help further my education, you asked I don't do anything and take care of your kids for you. I sneaked to learn trade and on finding out, you abused me of using your money to learn a trade, took my ATM, pin and sent me packing that I'm offensively annoying. Thanks to the good people of this great forum for seeing me through all this. Your words of encouragement to stay for my kids. Heeded to every advice, stayed, but he got worse.
I can't live with another woman in the same house. It was killing me. I was like a slave, became a shadow of my own self. With some little money I was able to gather around, took the courage and filed for a divorce with the help of good people here. Finally, marriage is over.
I’ve had some time to get used to this single life and single parenting thing.
I left with my kids, parents ain't comfortable with my action because of their status. I understand, no wealthy or influential parents would allow a daughter to pass a meagre of what I've passed through. He was my first.

I seize this opportunity to call on good citizen of Nigeria to help me out. I'm Nicodemusly an active member on my other account. Can as well prove or provide any evidence you might need to verify the authenticity of this post.
Want to start the food stuff business. Anything or help at all will be well appreciated. If I can pay for a store and have anything left, would get some food stuffs and start from there. I am a strong woman,

As far as I am concerned, this is your side of the story.

I would need to hear the other side of the story (especially the male side, which usually tends to be more objective most times) to make any judgements.

From my knowledge, except you completely choose a complete baastard, no man in his right senses who decides to get involved in [the miserable institution of] marriage, would turn this drastically on his wife for no reason at all.

And the fact you have not stated the reasons you think he did this (except for the slightest hints about your "politeness"wink makes me quite suspicious of the objectivity of your narrative ("victimhood"wink. Very aligned to the way women portray their circumstances for an advantage.

If on the other hand, you completely choose a baastard, na your choice o.

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man. Once a man realises that love isn't real, he goes to the dark side pretty quickly. Your job is to keep that fantasy going. Can you?










Sighs I know.. undecided

I will try.. Distractions from my end sad. But I will try and stay focused.

It's indeed a fantasy. With those puppy adoring trusting looks.

May God help me, amen and amen.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 8:41pm On Jan 29, 2018
tensazangetsu20:

Is it not your fellow women that love bad guys. You abuse the nice guys and call them magas and simps and hop on the carousel and then end up with the scum of society. Unfortunately there are no more nice guys, you just have to accept it.

It's a inherent trait.

Many can't help it, but then later turnaround and scream victimhood.

The same girl screaming victimhood would be the same one that has pissed on many guys that have been nice to her's head. Majority can't resist perceiving a guy being nice to them as a mugu. They would take the piss and rock the boat.

Many girls that whine about "this guy did this or that to me" have had a long queue of good guys trying to get with them or even ended up being their boyfriend, but they were not excited enough. So they took the piss and went for a challenge. (I was just advising one such guy on another thread)

E kaa bo si shalengi yin (Welcome to your challenge).

And after her turn to taste her medicine she would be seeking the "real men" lapdog to come and console her and agree with her that men are baastard.

The reality is that a vast majority of women suffer from solipsism and are incapable of recounting their past crimes with the remotest sense of reason, guilt or accountability.

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 8:48pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


Do you see guys eager to marry?

Whether you want to accept or not, men of this generation do more for their families than men of previous generations. How many of our grandfathers and fathers were emotionally available for their wives and kids? How many of your forebears were as involved in the lives of their children as today's men are? Is the cheating and marrying extra wives on the same level as our forebears? Is domestic violence as widespread as it once was? The answers to these questions are obvious to everybody. All of a sudden our fathers were better than we are, so you're saying your mother's and grandmothers had it better? grin. Wow. Maybe we should go back to how things used to be done in the old days then? grin Hear that guys? Let's go back to the old ways.

The problem isn't today's man, it is today's woman that is the problem. Today's woman wants to have everything and also answer to noone but her desires. Nothing is ever enough for today's woman. So, don't blame us when we avoid getting sucked into a bottomless pit of wants, standards and shifting goalppsts. We men have had it up to here and we are rejecting the narrative that we have to do more. If you notice, men are starting to do less and give less of a fûck about you or your wants. Why do you think the sex doll was such a hit?

Stay baby mamas and that would be a dream come true for most guys. Only foolish, ignorant men marry these days. Men who have no idea what true freedom is all about. Just impregnate a bîtch and send money for the upkeep of your child, after all, you do not need a man. Or do you suddenly do?


I can't concur more.

Men have significantly improved, while women have significantly degenerated in quality.

Feminists have messed them up completely.

While Beyonce is screaming "Independent women" and "To the lefu, to the lefu", she no leave her own man o when he was hitting it outside.

At worst, she let her skanky sister give him a beating, but she stay kamu. No shaking! She aint going nowhere, fck that feminism BS.

And she has over $100m in her bank account o.

At the end of the day, it is them (women) that need companionship and commitment more than men, yet they have the least value to offer in a relationship. But they think their best strategy is to be unbearable and be selfish.

Na looku looku some of us niggas go dey look dem.

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


I can't concur more.

Men have significantly improved, while women have significantly degenerated in quality.

Feminists have messed them up completely.

While Beyonce is screaming "Independent women" and "To the lefu, to the lefu", she no leave her own man o when he was hitting it outside.

At worst, she let her skanky sister give him a beating, but she stay kamu. No shaking! She aint going nowhere, fck that feminism BS.

And she has over $100m in her bank account o.

At the end of the day, it is them (women) that need companionship and commitment more than men, yet they have the least value to offer in a relationship. But they think their best strategy is to be unbearable and be selfish.

Na looku looku some of us niggas go dey look dem.



This is it here : But they think their best strategy is to be unbearable and be selfish. and manipulative....Men, i'm returning to my cove abeg, na look i go dey look them abeg, maybe i shouldconsider baby mama self, the stress of dealing with their unbearable attitude is way too much
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


It's a inherent trait.

Many can't help it, but then later turnaround and scream victimhood.

The same girl screaming victimhood would be the same one that has pissed on many guys that have been nice to her's head. Majority can't resist perceiving a guy being nice to them as a mugu. They would take the piss and rock the boat.

Many girls that whine about "this guy did this or that to me" have had a long queue of good guys trying to get with them or even ended up being their boyfriend, but they were not excited enough. So they took the piss and went for a challenge. (I was just advising one such guy on another thread)

E kaa bo si shalengi yin (Welcome to your challenge).

And after her turn to taste her medicine she would be seeking the "real men" lapdog to come and console her and agree with her that men are baastard.

The reality is that a vast majority of women suffer from solipsism and are incapable of recounting their past crimes with the remotest sense of reason, guilt or accountability.


Thank God i handed over the nice guy in me to the cops yesterday, that dude has to be locked up big time for a long time. Done with that sh*t...

This is it here @
The same girl screaming victimhood would be the same one that has pissed on many guys that have been nice to her's head. Majority can't resist perceiving a guy being nice to them as a mugu.




Hahaha, this is what i've been saying all day today @ Many girls that whine about "this guy did this or that to me" have had a long queue of good guys trying to get with them or even ended up being their boyfriend, but they were not excited enough. So they took the piss and went for a challenge.....


Ladies know nice guys, no fooling around, they simply choose to look the other way around, cause obviously nice guys love more,m but they turn to pick the one, they choose to love, they get the end of the stick on the long run, and the society bears the consequences, i don't pity them when they come screaming, i have a neighbor, abandoned lawyers, pastor, engineers,accountants, guess what bro, she settled for a trader cos he was goooing to UK upandan, not knowing the guy was into narcotics, it wasn't known until he got busted.....Well, it's their choice, when the consequnces hits, we get stories that touch....


Preach on Sir, 100% in agreement with

The reality is that a vast majority of women suffer from solipsism and are incapable of recounting their past crimes with the remotest sense of reason, guilt or accountability.

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 8:59pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


One of the greatest side effects of feminism is that women are not held to account for the decisions they make. If a woman's bad decision making puts her at a disadvantage or works to her detriment best believe she'll find someone to put the blame on but herself.

I hope women can actually understand that bad boys make even worse husbands. According to a feminist icon, Sherryl Sandberg, the thing that makes bad boys exciting makes them poor husbands. Unfortunately, most guys know that bad boys get all the ladies and the good ones only get sloppy seconds. As a result, every guy wants to be bad now, fûck being a good husband. That shît is played out. Fûck marriage and fûck being the model husband. We want more pûssy and respect from our lovers. grin.

PS: No, ladies, you cannot have everything. Not even God can

Well said, nigga!

I have repeatedly said it on NL: Feminism is pure poison and reetarded!

It has really messed many women up.

It has made them more selfish, more inconsiderate, more argumentative; but less attractive and less bearable.

I have observed, from the moment you meet and engage with most girls, her mentality is just "me, me, me, me".

They want YOU to take all responsibilities.

They are asking you questions that is focused on their self-interest.

They want you to prove you are worthy.

They think they are just entitled to the rights, privileges and benefits like feminism has told them is for them, otherwise they are "victims of these evil men (the patriarchy)".

Guy, I see single-motherhood as the dominant family structure in the future. (I apologise if it is already the case but I am not aware)

Especially for black women as their behaviour is inherently worse. That is already the case for most black women in America. Only a quarter have ever been married by the time they are 45. Increasingly so for white women too.

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years

Looku Looku! (My specialty)

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


Well said, nigga!

I have repeatedly said it on NL: Feminism is pure poison and reetarded!

It has really messed many women up.

It has made them more selfish, more inconsiderate, more argumentative; but less attractive and less bearable.

I have observed, from the moment you meet and engage with most girls, her mentality is just "me, me, me, me".

They want YOU to take all responsibilities.

They are asking you questions that is focused on their self-interest.

They want you to prove you are worthy.

They think they are just entitled to the rights, privileges and benefits like feminism has told them is for them, otherwise they are "victims of these evil men (the patriarchy)".

Guy, I see single-motherhood as the dominant family structure in the future. (I apologise if it is already the case but I am not aware)

Especially for black women as their behaviour is inherently worse. That is already the case for most black women in America. Only a quarter have ever been married by the time they are 45. Increasingly so for white women too.

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years

Looku Looku! (My specialty)


This is the main problem o :



It has made them more selfish, more inconsiderate, more argumentative; but less attractive and less bearable.

I have observed, from the moment you meet and engage with most girls, her mentality is just "me, me, me, me".

They want YOU to take all responsibilities.

They are asking you questions that is focused on their self-interest.

They want you to prove you are worthy.



They want the guys to take up all the responsibility prove to them he's worth it, and do not subject themselves to hald the tests they subeject the guys to, It's me, me, me. Worse case scenario, i'll pay a lady to have kids for me, and raise my kids myself. These species are becmoing too unbearable, and impossible to please...They aretoo argumentative, too contentious, and they don't know when to hit the brakes. Anyways, i hear many are planning to stay single, let it be that way abeg. Unprocessed and unrefuined entities.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 9:05pm On Jan 29, 2018
wifeoflife:
@op congratulations! There’s always something liberating when a woman steps out of an abusive marriage/relationship.

Girl, you have a new lease on life. Make the best of it. Shine like you never have before! Don’t let anyone hold you back.

Ladies, I hope you can see posts from men like belafonte and Jupxter. I’m not against what they have said. They have chosen their own paths in life. Choose your own too! Stop tying your life around a man. Live your own life. They believe they need to be bad to women to get the best out of women. You know why? Because we women accept it. If a man knows a woman won’t condone bad behaviour, he won’t engage in that rubbish.

You can live a complete and fulfilled life without a man (and vice versa).

Finally, love isn’t a bad thing. Fall in love, enjoy it. If it lasts, awesome. If it’s hurting you, then it’s not love and you need to walk away from it!

Shalom�

Woman can do without love as well as men can do without sex.

- Sagamite 2018!
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 9:10pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man. Once a man realises that love isn't real, he goes to the dark side pretty quickly. Your job is to keep that fantasy going. Can you?

I think a woman's love is purer when they are 15 to 22.

After that, they change.

And before anyone says "Oh, you see, it is because of the way men treated them". No!

It is just the way their hormones change.

Women change drastically at different stages of their life, far more than men do. That is one of the reasons I believe being to one for the rest of your life happily is a virtually impossible task.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 9:15pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:



This is it here : But they think their best strategy is to be unbearable and be selfish. and manipulative....Men, i'm returning to my cove abeg, na look i go dey look them abeg, maybe i shouldconsider baby mama self, the stress of dealing with their unbearable attitude is way too much



I love to looku looku.

Many are a train wreck waiting to happen. Train wrecks are interesting.

The wreck happens when the looks have disappeared and they are still desperate to find love (without the required weapon).

That is like a man looking for sex after he has become impotent (without the required weapon). No be oloshi be that?

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


I love to looku looku.

Many are a train wreck waiting to happen.

The wreck happens when the looks have disappeared and they are still desperate to find love (without the required weapon).

That is like a man looking for sex after he has become impotent (without the required weapon). No be oloshi be that?


I was discussing everything we're saying here with my elder sister ( married anyways ), and she kept syaing all we're saying here 100%, except that she made it more scarry by saying, for some ladies, the only door of opportunity to get married is in their mid-twenties, and just a few occassions to make the right connection, and if they miss it, they may never get married for life...This is the current situation of things now, as the younger ones are climbing up fast, responsible men are few to go around, so the average good guy won't be on the market for too long. So sister rose can go on with her endless tale ofi'm testing him, i want him to prove he's worthy, when he gets exhasted, he'll move on, find a better lover, why rose gets fewer attention, and then the law of deminishing returns starts setting in..


I like this @



Many are a train wreck waiting to happen.

The wreck happens when the looks have disappeared and they are still desperate to find love (without the required weapon).



When the looks and the figure are gone, her bargaining power has substantially dissapeared drastically t this point....then the train will wreck, and next comes in depression, loneliness,moodiness,unhappiness, even the strongest of them can't withstand all these

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Oyindidi(f): 9:22pm On Jan 29, 2018
Gungnir:


What you said na...
Is it wrong?
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 29, 2018
donnaD, come and read the posts on this thread o !


What do you have to say ?

Lefulefu you too come see this thread o
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Sagamite(m): 9:26pm On Jan 29, 2018
Jupxter:



Thank God i handed over the nice guy in me to the cops yesterday, that dude has to be locked up big time for a long time. Done with that sh*t...

This is it here @
The same girl screaming victimhood would be the same one that has pissed on many guys that have been nice to her's head. Majority can't resist perceiving a guy being nice to them as a mugu.




Hahaha, this is what i've been saying all day today @ Many girls that whine about "this guy did this or that to me" have had a long queue of good guys trying to get with them or even ended up being their boyfriend, but they were not excited enough. So they took the piss and went for a challenge.....


Ladies know nice guys, no fooling around, they simply choose to look the other way around, cause obviously nice guys love more,m but they turn to pick the one, they choose to love, they get the end of the stick on the long run, and the society bears the consequences, i don't pity them when they come screaming, i have a neighbor, abandoned lawyers, pastor, engineers,accountants, guess what bro, she settled for a trader cos he was goooing to UK upandan, not knowing the guy was into narcotics, it wasn't known until he got busted.....Well, it's their choice, when the consequnces hits, we get stories that touch....


Preach on Sir, 100% in agreement with

The reality is that a vast majority of women suffer from solipsism and are incapable of recounting their past crimes with the remotest sense of reason, guilt or accountability.


My philosophy with many women who are almost reaching end of shelf life and are now looking for eligible bachelors to quickly marry them in a shot-gun dating-to-quick-marriage arrangement is that:

"If she cannot find some guys in her past that she can call up and start chatting with. And once those guys find out she is still single, they are not rushing to say, 'I would want to be with her', then she is probably not a nice person and deserves to expire".

For most black girls, when my friends are talking about "one they used to fancy" that is now almost expiring but is still single (or even a divorced single mother), I am afraid they just laugh and have no sympathy. That is the impression she left with them.

One that works as an SVP in middle office in an investment bank, like 2 years ago met the girl he used to fancy the pants off at university. He tried everything to date her; girl just exploited his interest. Black girl; now past it. She is a professional, good job but still single. She now tried to rekindle with him.

The guy said over his dead body. She kept calling and asking to hook up and chat in the middle of the night. Nigga was not interested.

Ni gba ti won she epe fun! (When dem no curse the guy!) grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Belafonte(m): 9:28pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


Well said, nigga!

I have repeatedly said it on NL: Feminism is pure poison and reetarded!

It has really messed many women up.

It has made them more selfish, more inconsiderate, more argumentative; but less attractive and less bearable.

I have observed, from the moment you meet and engage with most girls, her mentality is just "me, me, me, me".

They want YOU to take all responsibilities.

They are asking you questions that is focused on their self-interest.

They want you to prove you are worthy.

They think they are just entitled to the rights, privileges and benefits like feminism has told them is for them, otherwise they are "victims of these evil men (the patriarchy)".

Guy, I see single-motherhood as the dominant family structure in the future. (I apologise if it is already the case but I am not aware)

Especially for black women as their behaviour is inherently worse. That is already the case for most black women in America. Only a quarter have ever been married by the time they are 45. Increasingly so for white women too.

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years

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Boss Sagamite, you and Dayokanu opened my eyes to seeing the woman for what she really is. Been on nl eight years now and I have learned a lot.

I strongly believe single parenting is the next phase in Nigeria, the women don't want to be answerable to just one dude and the guys are catching on to the bullshit.

However, I know they will cry at the end because Naija guys will avail themselves of the opportunity to hit as much aṣs as is possible without attempting to commit. Already, women are proposing in Naija and guys are rejecting.

Things will balance themselves out eventually, but till then, picture me rolling.
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jan 29, 2018
Sagamite:


My philosophy with many women who are almost reaching end of shelf life and are now looking for eligible bachelors to quickly marry them in a shot-gun dating to marriage arrangement is that:

"If she cannot find some guy in her past that she can call up and start chatting with. And once those guys find out she is still single, they are not rushing to say, I would want to be with her, then she is probably not a nice person and deserves to expire".

For most black girls, when my friends are talking about "one they used to fancy" that is now almost expiring but is still single (or even a divorced single mother), I am afraid they just laugh and have no sympathy. That is the impression she left with them.

One that works as an SVP in middle office in an investment bank, like 2 years met the girl he used to fancy the pants off at university. Black girl; now past it. She is a professional, still single. She now tried to rekindle with him.

The guy said over his dead body. She kept calling and asking to hook up and chat in the middle of the night. Nigga was not interested.

Ni gba ti won she epe fun! (When dem no curse the guy!) grin grin grin grin grin grin


Bro this is how i'm going to deal with them big time. I just did some re-strategizing and realized men have the upperhand, so, i won't take them serious, and like you, na looku, looku, i go dey look them, The thing is, there's an unserious demon in their brains when the good guy comes...They just don't take good guys serious, and see them as wimps, anyways, we're here to laff when the goods expire. cheesy cheesy cheesy


Let's expect many sperm bank kids in the future bro
Re: MY MARRIAGE IS FINALLY OVER! by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 29, 2018
Belafonte:


Boss Sagamite, you and Dayokanu opened my eyes to seeing the woman for what she really is. Been on nl eight years now and I have learned a lot.

I strongly believe single parenting is the next phase in Nigeria, the women don't want to be answerable to just one dude and the guys are catching on to the bullshit.

However, I know they will cry at the end because Naija guys will avail themselves of the opportunity to hit as much aṣs as is possible without attempting to commit. Already, women are proposing in Naija and guys are rejecting.

Things will balance themselves out eventually, but till then, picture me rolling.



The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys.... cheesy


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up... cheesy

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