Even if she called you names you do not have the right to slap her, or even raise your hand to her. She should have dumped your Bottom after that. If you can slap her for calling you names, you can obviously do worse to her and just end up being a woman beater. She has every right to slap you back. If my bf slaps me that's the end of it, if he can slap you once or even raise his hand to you he can do it again and go even further by giving his gf black eyes etc etc. You ought to be ashamed of yourself to even come up here and say that you slapped your gf. See that's the thing with some men, you think hitting a woman is OK. When you are in a relationship you should treat each other with respect. It wasn't right for her to insult u, but it wasn't right of you to hit her either  .

you know you started it first the rules is that you never lay your hands on your lady no matter what. you could as well have walked out and it would have rather made her look foolish and most likely she would have called later to apologise. or better still you apologise whether wrong or right thats the true test of maturity,

I swear, pple are just calling for the ops head, but I swear it's not easy cos I av been in a similar situation, I used to have this very insultive ex gf, even her friends knew she had a bad mouth, We were coming frm and outing once around yaba market, and she was jst running her mouth I didn't say a word cos I'm naturally a calm person, she continued running her mouth and I was ignoring her she was lucky she jst kept quiet @ the right time cos I was one second frm giving her a very dirty slap right there in the open in yaba, Thnk God that didn't happen, I cn neva eva date an abusive gf, Cos I dnt tk kindly to insults, and I av noticed many girls joke with insultive words, that doesn't go well with me too, Well for women it's their character u jst av to be patient with them,

Ha! the training that i got from my kick-boxing classes would pay off, by the time i'm done beating his arse, even him mama no go recognize am.

an eye for an eye!

dude why would you hit your girlfriend!?

Am sure most of the girls here are still single. I still wonder why girls think its normal to provoke and frustrate their man. If you respect your man he'll do the same. They said real men don't hit their women, how about a real woman? So a real woman can abuse and provoke her man? People should get real please. I don't support hitting a woman, also the woman should stop calling their man names like fool, asshole, stupid etc...

Men, I can't take such a hideous act from that bitch that calls herself my girlf**K. How could she be referring to me as 'fool & coward',or are we not in the relationship again? If my girl try that damned crap with me, i'm inflict bruises on her.Mtcheeew

TYlicious: if i were d gurl i'll get u arrested 4 assault&battery , or better still(for quick revenge) organise my brothers,his friends and male cousins to treat his Bleep up

you are correct! exactly what i will do.

Muhahahahahaha!
Oh my goodness.

Next thread please

Total bullsh*t...most gals use d advantage of d fact dat a man shud not hita woman to misbehave...i for one wont stand and watch my gf insult ♏ξ..esp if its her habit...and for d gals sayin D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ wud hit him bak..after hittin him wat nextdyu expect d guy to stand and watch U̶̲̥̅̊ hitin him??keep signin yur death warrant...mtscheww

A terrible reaction. But I support it 100%. She has every right to protect herself in self-defence. I would caution women to be careful when responding to such. A very violent man could do real damage to a lovely lady. It is better to walk away and end the relationship. No woman (or man) should have to put up with any form of violence.

I wud slap you back! or wait till u are sleeping so I wud get a big pocket if laundry water and pour the whole smelly content on you.NEVER hit a woman!its cowardly thing.

lynpetra: I wud slap you back!

What if I was 3 times your size? Can you fist fight a giant, brutal man? Think about it.

Atheist:-D:




What if I was 3 times your size? Can you fist fight a giant, brutal man? Think about it.

I wud still retaliate,one way or the other.Won't rest until I do something really bad even if he asks for forgiveness.

lynpetra:



I wud still retaliate,one way or the other.Won't rest until I do something really bad even if he asks for forgiveness.

Why not just end it?

Atheist:-D:


Why not just end it?

Yea I might,but I wud still want to hurt him before I leave.I must retaliate.

lynpetra:



Yea I might,but I wud still want to hurt him before I leave.I must retaliate.

If you retaliate then there is no reason to end it. You end it as a form of preventing further actions, no need to retaliate.

lynpetra:



I wud still retaliate,one way or the other.Won't rest until I do something really bad even if he asks for forgiveness.

. Dats olso a cowardly thing

If I were ur gf, I would breakup with u immediately coz u will turn me to a punching bag if we get marrid. Most women have died as a result of their women- beating husbands

paulasweet: If I were ur gf, I would breakup with u immediately coz u will turn me to a punching bag if we get marrid. Most women have died as a result of their women- beating husbands

. Wise and matured decision!

stz:
feminity is humble, kind, tolerance, understanding and above all PATient. Ladies of nowadays have allowed the so called jet age to spoil everything. I am against any guy who hits ladies but sometimes these ladies forget there place. My advice is any lady that behaves wild should be treated like a wild animal, maybe it will help train their manner of reaction toward issues. As for the guyz, bros make una work on una ability to ignore even in anger. Two wrongs never make a right

Welcome sire...

iice:
No one hits me and survives whole

He's lucky. . .if na some women, they for don stab am

,see mouth.. Na your type boiz dey beat pass,, shior

Physical violence of any form has no place in a relationship...

na2day2:


OP, i wont be a hypocrite like folks are on NL, for me if she slaps me first, she asked for it, i will return fire, the 3rd law of motion says action and reaction are equal and opposite, therefore it is only natural for me to hit her back. in ur case, u slapped 1st so she gave u what u deserved. general rule of thumb, i avoid word confrontation with my woman as much as i can, if push comes to shove, i give a look that she will think twice b4 trying to push her luck. but i am not one of those girls that will tell u not to hit a woman no matter what, nonsense! if she hits u, then she is no more a woman but and aggressor and we men shld learn to use our God given dominance to make sure she understands that only one person wears the pants in this r/s

And when they say men should come out, u will also come out. #smh.... slapping a woman back and forcing dominance makes u a fool and a mediocre... e maa ronu oo