| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 3:24am On Feb 06, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:
If you don't trust each other how can it work.In my opinion there is nothing wrong having the opposite sex as a best friend while dating.She may know more about him than you do probably because they have been friends long before dating you.Learn to trust him and stop having those fears although they need to draw a line. Even when he said I love you to the said lady? |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by Nobody: 3:34am On Feb 06, 2018 |
Nne. I can simply tell to give him space and time  |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by maclawrence02(m): 6:28am On Feb 06, 2018 |
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| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by Shugavee(f): 7:51am On Feb 06, 2018 |
LadyGazelle:
Hey everyone, I'm going to go straight to my story and I'll try to make it brief.
I've been dating this guy for sometime and early in the relationship he told me he had a new female bestie and I said okay. I told him that in most cases one of the besties ends up 'catching feelings' but he said theirs was different.
He's a student and the said girl is in his department, they're always together and all. He actually said that he's the only one she talks to in their department. Most times he's in her house and can stay there till as late as 10pm.
With time I began to complain, like this bestie knew more about my guy than i did. He told her things that he won't tell me, always hanging out with her and all that. They even end their calls with i love you.
When I asked him what we would do on valentines day, he said he was going to see a movie at the cinemas with his bestie
When I called his attention to it, that i felt his bestie was taking my place, that I felt they were getting too close and all that, he got angry. He said that he was disappointed in me, that if others accused him of dating her that he didn't expect it from me.
He said that the girl was like a sister and all that, and that it's agape love they have for each other. That I'm the only one he truly loves and all that. I had to beg and apologize for doubting him. He then said that he was never going to talk to me about her.
He tried to get me to meet her (before the argument) but I'm not really sure that I want to see her.
My question is was I wrong to tell him that I felt they're getting too close and that one of them might start developing feelings for each other?? Is it okay for a guy in a relationship to be that close to another girl? Cos as soon as i started dating him, I had to watch my relationships with other guys.
am going to write it in capital letter DUMP HIM!! Going to cinema with his bestie on Valentine !! Asin is he mad!! He is dating u to f**k u o!! Let me just tell u!! If his bestie starts giving him that privilege!! U r out of the picture!!he doesnt love u ma!! Ur just his pawn!! Love is blind but watch when thing unfolds |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by Shugavee(f): 7:56am On Feb 06, 2018 |
JudgementHammer:
Both u and ur guy share d blame. The other girl has no blame at all. What was the aim and purpose of ur relatnshp before he met d girl. Na marriage or just campus yoriyori.
If youre desperate for ur guy, u either go d lion way of confronting the girl to stay away from ur boifriend, even if ur bf vex and everything scatter, you have fought the good fight of faith.
Or you go the serpentine way of tracing them till u meet them in an uncompromising position, then you'll unboderedly walk to them and let them know u saw them then you evaporate out of his life with dignity and respect.
But there's a third way which is to just ignore them for peace sake at this early stage before exam time, else your Fs go line up for result. i agree but the guy will call her crazy or agressive n dump her!!! The n*gga dont love her |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by marvellously(m): 6:42pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Okay finally I can reply here, sorry I'm derailing ur thread but I just wanted to talk to you, I just followed ur thread in the dairy section, "daddy's girl" and I'm also a law student currently in 400 lvl, at first I thought we're in same sch.
Until I saw Calabar, so what location is ur sch located? |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by marvellously(m): 6:42pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by larryking540: 6:59pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
LadyGazelle:
Hey everyone, I'm going to go straight to my story and I'll try to make it brief.
I've been dating this guy for sometime and early in the relationship he told me he had a new female bestie and I said okay. I told him that in most cases one of the besties ends up 'catching feelings' but he said theirs was different.
He's a student and the said girl is in his department, they're always together and all. He actually said that he's the only one she talks to in their department. Most times he's in her house and can stay there till as late as 10pm.
With time I began to complain, like this bestie knew more about my guy than i did. He told her things that he won't tell me, always hanging out with her and all that. They even end their calls with i love you.
When I asked him what we would do on valentines day, he said he was going to see a movie at the cinemas with his bestie
When I called his attention to it, that i felt his bestie was taking my place, that I felt they were getting too close and all that, he got angry. He said that he was disappointed in me, that if others accused him of dating her that he didn't expect it from me.
He said that the girl was like a sister and all that, and that it's agape love they have for each other. That I'm the only one he truly loves and all that. I had to beg and apologize for doubting him. He then said that he was never going to talk to me about her.
He tried to get me to meet her (before the argument) but I'm not really sure that I want to see her.
My question is was I wrong to tell him that I felt they're getting too close and that one of them might start developing feelings for each other?? Is it okay for a guy in a relationship to be that close to another girl? Cos as soon as i started dating him, I had to watch my relationships with other guys.
date who love you life is too short for this emotional drama |
| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by johnsonmartina6(m): 10:24pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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| Re: I Don't Know What To Do. by Pumpumking: 12:01am On Dec 14, 2021 |
LadyGazelle:
Hey everyone, I'm going to go straight to my story and I'll try to make it brief.
I've been dating this guy for sometime and early in the relationship he told me he had a new female bestie and I said okay. I told him that in most cases one of the besties ends up 'catching feelings' but he said theirs was different.
He's a student and the said girl is in his department, they're always together and all. He actually said that he's the only one she talks to in their department. Most times he's in her house and can stay there till as late as 10pm.
With time I began to complain, like this bestie knew more about my guy than i did. He told her things that he won't tell me, always hanging out with her and all that. They even end their calls with i love you.
When I asked him what we would do on valentines day, he said he was going to see a movie at the cinemas with his bestie
When I called his attention to it, that i felt his bestie was taking my place, that I felt they were getting too close and all that, he got angry. He said that he was disappointed in me, that if others accused him of dating her that he didn't expect it from me.
He said that the girl was like a sister and all that, and that it's agape love they have for each other. That I'm the only one he truly loves and all that. I had to beg and apologize for doubting him. He then said that he was never going to talk to me about her.
He tried to get me to meet her (before the argument) but I'm not really sure that I want to see her.
My question is was I wrong to tell him that I felt they're getting too close and that one of them might start developing feelings for each other?? Is it okay for a guy in a relationship to be that close to another girl? Cos as soon as i started dating him, I had to watch my relationships with other guys.
Ok so was the questions & how can i help?  |
