alexialin:
Honestly some guys cannot take no for an answer.

There is this guy who came to visit his friend on my street, then saw me as i walked past. He said Hi, hmm av been watching u walk to and fro buying stuffs and all, and I like you and admire you. Please can I have your number? I looked at him, he looks OK. I then gave him my number. He started calling later in the evening, with small talks and it was cool. Then he asked me out, I replied, I will let u know when am. Less busy. He said ok. So one fateful day, I came back from work, pissed from one annoying customer attitude. I was trying to contain my anger. When I was close to my house, I saw him with friends. He waved at me, smiled. I waved back and walked home, then I called him, can u come to my place, I need to talk to someone. He said ok. He came. Have not even finished my story about the client, he was all over me and I was like WTF!
I quickly withdrew from his hands and say guy! I didn't call u here for sexxx. All I need is someone to talk to, and release my frustrations about an annoying client today. He moved closer, saying don't worry I will. Make u happy and relaxed. I was so mad! I was like see this guy o! Is he crazy or what? That's how we started struggling o. He almost overpowered me, so I relaxed and said Cmon? Take it easy? U want fun Abi? Then let's do it properly and I smiled sweetly and I said lemme go and change into a nice sexy lingerie. U will love it.
So he released his grip, as soon as he released, I ran out of the house

And screamed get out! Before I call security. Just get the fucvk out of my house!
He was like I knew u will play this stunt on me, Oya come back nw? I won't touch u I promise. I shook my head. Just get out! So u want to rape me? Are u mad? Do u think sexx is my problem? Please leave now! Then he left.
Since that day, he apologized on phone that he doesn't know what came over him and he's sorry and he loves me and all.
I said look I will never date u, if u are the last man on earth. Get it into your thick skull. So I stopped picking his calls.
One day he was knocking on my gate furiously, that I must answer him. And he's not going anywhere.
And that was on Sunday, the security guard was not around. Nobody in the compound even answered him. Then he got tired of banging the gate, then he left.
I was like God! Is this how this guy is?
Thank God I now know.

Later I called his number and warned him Severely if he doesn't back. Off, I will call my friend in the army to show him pepper, if he thinks am alone. Army guys will beat him black and blue! And have told my army friend already about him.

Since then he backed off but series of insults, he hurled at me thru phone. I just cut the call and blocked him.

Some guys are just stupid.

Angelawhite:
By default, I'm not the type that walk up to a lady to drop few punch lines to woo her. But I can walk up to her and initiate a conversation. Trust me, when we get talking, she will have no choice than to leave her number.

I'm not the type of guy a lady sees as a devourer ( even though I might be inside). I like winning her trust and innocently request for her number.

You know,there's how you'll play your game and she'll be like, "this guy no wan collect my number".

On one occasion, I was about leaving a girl after a hot, argumentative, interesting chitchat and the girl asked me, "How are we going to meet again?" and I smiled inside. And pretended I forgot


I'm not an advocate of chasing women around... there are many ways to catch them... their shakara too much... I won't say much before these girls go use am against us

Rozaytee:
i no say gals don reject u tire..

Neatboy:
I asked a lady out in church. As at that time I knew that like three other guys were asking her out. Instead of she to tell me say she no want, simple! But she chose to use the wrong words, "You are not in the picture." I cried inside ooo. In fact, I cried out then. And I loved her then like life itself. I knew that those guys didn't love her cause they all had serious dates. I was just begging for one. Now, all the guys had gotten married, not to her, except one that had left the church. Nevertheless I still kept her as a friend. Now we are so closer than five and six and she is dying that I talk to her again. She don show me green light tire. For where! I no gree. You know why? Because she had pushed me out, and I have gone wild in terms of my choice of woman. She even get scared with the kind of babes that come my way. My dear, indeed, The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born. Chill! I am getting marries this year to one of the damsels. No kill yourself because of a woman!!!

truthsayer009:


prophesied ke? How strange. After reading this, I clearly understand why you have an Aggressive response to any who actually approaches you since almost everyone from Nairaland have a psycho problem.

Btw getting someone's number doesn't even mean you will get a date or sleep with. You might call & she won't even respond

EOOJ:


Can i have ur number

pocohantas:
LOL.
One was kinda 'cocky', he asked for my number and I declined.
He said something like, "I'm not a nice/patient guy, I won't ask you for this a second time". He kept to his words and I liked that. He is a NLder, nice guy, but I didn't want that 'closeness' .

There was this one that kept going on and off. Said so many nonsense, then he prophesied how I will never get married or have kids. My village people have tied me and he wants to help with my deliverance... more nonsense again. I couldn't keep up

Daeylar:

You're welcome

Loved every single post you made on this thread

JudgementHammer:

OK that shows that rejection somehow doesn't go too well with us all. However instead of taking it to the extreme, just say ur mind out on how u don't like what she did and walk out....that's all. It helps one recover fast but taking it to d point of killing is absurd and ill-mental.

Rozaytee:
..... men approach women daily....omo dem don reject u tire.. ...pele

lefulefu:
what did u do to the guy?

TheSuperNerd:
Now this is one of the worst kinds of scenarios I pray no lady get into. Just imagine!

I think our ladies should be very careful about guys they engage too. Sometimes, it is safer not just giving some men audience because it is from stopping to listen to him that things can really get awkward and very very bad.

We got men with huge psycho issues out there who just cannot handle rejection. I have seen some cases related to your story Sir Lefu... Very very sad indeed. And the thing is no matter how polite the lady was, the man would still feel offended and want to get his "revenge" by hurting you for rejecting him.

Our ladies just have to learn to be discerning of such guys to avoid such encounters. They are usually very sweet and smart-like. My God, you would think you have met Prince charming even... Some are also kinda awkwardly social but sweet in convo. Sometimes you just cannot tell the difference between a real cool guy with a good heart and these sort of psychos or men with low self esteem who cannot handle a "NO". Our ladies should not engage every guy who tries to stop them to have a small talk... Sometimes, ignoring or doing as if you never heard is the best way to go to avoid you having to say no and then later suffer a car accident caused by same man just because you refuse to give him your number.

It is a sad story Sir Lefu and many more cases like this still happen in today's world. Our ladies should be more discerning and careful. Really must not engage every guy not even for a hi. Some things are just best avoided.

Gangster1ms:

Girls that will eventually reap u off... supposing the girl said yes then what next? We are still in the loosing end cos the highest we fit gain na pussy. We guys too mumu abeg...

TheSuperNerd:
Awwwwwwwwn.... Please don't make me blush ma'am. Looolll

Appreciate the kind feedbacks. Thank you

Rozaytee:
omo dey don reject dis one tire...

mrphysics:


Bros fear God nah. That story can't happen in Nigeria. And I think you are overthinking this issue. Guy calm down. Ladies only get threats and insults from guys that can't handle rejection. All those threats and insults are empty and nothing more. How often do we hear stories of serious scenes or attacks taken after one get's rejected. Abeg forget all these long epistles.

PerfectlyPerfect:

ANGELA SO YOU BE MAN!!!!!
YOU AFF EXPOSED YASELF TODAY

Deo1986:
on point there niggar. Did i mentor you?

Jamiubond009:
Why must a guy be asking every Tina, temitope and toyin for their phone numbers. You be trucaller app ni?

Twoclans:



Some might be empty threats but not all. During my undergraduate years my head was almost bursted because I rejected a guy I did not know was at the top level of sailors then.

Luckily for me my cousin (rip Ik) was equal to the task. He protected me 100 percent and that was how I survived. Some people don't deal with rejection well.

That jncidence thaugh me a life lesson, I am now the master of subtle rejection. I can never reject a guy with gra gra.i do it quietly.

nkemdi89:

No he is all these lazy Owerri guys that knows nothing apart from staying at home playing bet9ja and going to the market to collect levy from road side hawkers.

Jman06:
I still wonder why guys are the ones fighting more to have ladies, yet we keep hearing that there are more ladies than guys.

Please if one lady turns you down, move on to the next!

The last thing i'll do in this life is whine for being rejected by a lady. Some guys don't know their worth sha!

petergriffin:
well its so annoying been rejected by a lady. you pick up the courage, walk to her, and tell her your mind and then she gave you rude response. that is totally not fair. she can simply be polite with it so you wont feel bad but they be like "excuse me?! i have no time and besides i don't date guys like you". you be like "what the fck??amma fck this girl up*.

mrphysics:


Lol. I was looking at this rejection like the one of collecting numbers along the way, which in this case contains empty threats. But when you deal with someone and he perhaps sacrificed so many things and you turned him down, thinking your actions will have zero effect on him, then I am sorry. Still, we do not have such cases being reported. I still think its minimal in this side of the world.

Ghnaija:
Sometimes we men dey to rush, we need to sometimes hide our feelings we dey fall to quick na whetin dey make dem do yanga to us

greiboy:
Can I have your number

mamachizzy:
I remember a guy telling me that he was trying to upgrade me, and am here misbehaving. that am not even in the class of girls he talks to. blocked him on whatsapp cos I needed peace of mind, nigga started attacking me on direct text messages. when I totally ignored him, then he came to my house. Some people just can't take no

pocohantas:

How old are you? What do you do?

Twoclans:



Yes its minimal in this side of the world. And my story was about a simple can I see you later this evening and I said No.

The guy went crazy. My cousin said I should have just told him I will think about it and get back to him. (can you imagine, something that I know if I think for a hundred years the answer will still be no)