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Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by Nobody: 10:26pm On Feb 10, 2018
[b]From Mrs Joyce Meyer
American TV Evangelist

A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN, WIFE AND MOTHER, EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

cool. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty (even the anointed
ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.

21). Don't be too judgmental with your husband. No man wants a nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.

29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.

30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly - it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.

31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only Christ can solve our problems - not parent, not pastors, not anybody but, only you and Christ.[/b]

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Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by bloodofthelamb(m): 10:38pm On Feb 10, 2018
See laws of Moses. Which woman can keep and do these good atitude without the Spirit of Jesus in her life? Non!

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Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by Nobody: 12:00am On Feb 11, 2018
You just blew the bomb for feminists. Even an average woman is not self motivated to do the averagely good duties of a wife. They'll tell you they can do it only if the man loves them, as though its stated in d bible that there must be a condition before you carry out God's command of submission.

Now with these, you just successfully ignited the trouble of both normal and aethist feminists
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by alBHAGDADI: 4:48am On Feb 11, 2018
I like point 26.

If you want a peaceful home, don't associate with troublesome women who are feminists. They hate that you are married. They want you unhappy like them. Many of them are here on Nairaland making stupid comments that attack men and marriage. They are the ones who make it look like it is okay for a lady to be single at 30 so long she's financially stable. They are quick to mention Linda Ikeji as a model. The way they go about it, you will think they are Linda Ikeji themselves or they know her mind to be able to state that she's happy being single and successful. A woman who goes about chasing career without chasing marital life will end up a failure no matter how successful she gets career-wise. You will become brutal in nature cos what you will put will be the mentality of a ruthless business man. Ever wondered why Linda hot rich and famous off castigating people via her blog?

Be mindful of the kind of comments you read on nairaland. Many are inspired by bitter feminists. If you associate with them, your life will end up like theirs - divorced without love. Ponder on every point raised by the OP. You will see that they are not difficult to carry out plus they also come with a reward. Imagine you are the type that welcomes your husband with a glass of water every time he returns from work. Any day he's behind schedule, try dropping the glass of water on a table where he can see it before you go to bed. I can assure you that he will appreciate your effort as it will tell him that you waited for him. If he came late due to him cheating, that single act can make him have a change of mind, cos he will know that while he was out cheating, his wife was waiting for him at home and playing her duties. Except he doesn't have the fear of God at all, he will change.

Feminists will try to make the points raised by the OP to be as if it's a burden on ladies. They will never tell you that men also have their own rules and 'burden' to follow. They will make it look one-sided just to deprive you of a happy marriage.
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by kristen12(f): 5:21am On Feb 11, 2018
It applies to both male and female. How will the marriage work if it's one sided

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Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by alBHAGDADI: 5:27am On Feb 11, 2018
kristen12:
It applies to both male and female. How will the marriage work if it's one sided
A Feminist spotted.

The OP was written for women alone. It doesn't mean write-ups for men to follow don't exist. You are already approaching the post in a confrontational manner. This has blinded you from seeing that it is for women alone.

This is a one-sided post meant for women alone. The other side meant for men is somewhere and I believe men are reading it. I do not see them complaining of it being one-sided cos they understand that it is for them alone.
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by kristen12(f): 5:39am On Feb 11, 2018
alBHAGDADI:
A Feminist spotted.


The OP was written for women alone. It doesn't mean write-ups for men to follow don't exist. You are already approaching the post in a confrontational manner. This has blinded you from seeing that it is for women alone.

This is a one-sided post meant for women alone. The other side meant for men is somewhere and I believe men are reading it. I do not see them complaining of it being one-sided cos they understand that it is for them alone.

Lol... What are you afraid of? I'm not one anyway, just staying the obvious.

There's nothing wrong if men apply this to their marriage life too pending when the one for the men comes up.
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by alBHAGDADI: 5:53am On Feb 11, 2018
kristen12:


Lol... What are you afraid of? I'm not one anyway, just staying the obvious.

There's nothing wrong if men apply this to their marriage life too pending when the one for the men comes up.
Men applying that to their marriage is like saying they should become women. Then this must mean that the one meant for men to apply can also be used by women. It all leads to what you feminists want - equality in marriage, where a man can play the role of the wife while the woman plays the role of the man. It is all satanically inspired.

Play your role and let a man play his own role. If you don't like that arrangement, then stay off marriage. And while you are at it, don't confuse innocent girls and women with your disabled mentality.
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by Nobody: 8:05am On Feb 11, 2018
I love this grin
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by duduade: 8:12am On Feb 11, 2018
What are men s roles o
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by kristen12(f): 9:06am On Feb 11, 2018
alBHAGDADI:
Men applying that to their marriage is like saying they should become women. Then this must mean that the one meant for men to apply can also be used by women. It all leads to what you feminists want - equality in marriage, where a man can play the role of the wife while the woman plays the role of the man. It is all satanically inspired.

Play your role and let a man play his own role. If you don't like that arrangement, then stay off marriage. And while you are at it, don't confuse innocent girls and women with your disabled mentality.

Jesus!!! Why are you this edgy and bitter? I still insist on what I said. If you're not comfortable with it, you can as well die single with your bitter self. Nobody would want to end up with a mysogynistic short sighted thing anyway.

You have sound posts and I loved reading from especially on religion. You just showed me it's not worth it.
I won't honour your rants by replying you.

Run along and have a nice sunday.
Re: Advice For Women - Ladies Read This by Nobody: 8:42am On Feb 12, 2018
Wow cry Fights everywhere

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