mespusinglez:
BUT SERIOUSLY THE THING DON TIRE ME O

Both u and your girlfriend seem not to know how to express yourself properly.

She simply means you are not romantic. You don't show affection. You are blind to hee emotions.

Work on the above
Learn to treat your lady better or someone else will.

mespusinglez:
Lolx I'm A Broke Graduate still hustling for job

Why the hell do u have a girl friend??

This is what I don't understand.

mespusinglez:
Amen.....but you girls ain't trying though

Wait o. You want a woman yet u are broke? It doesn't work that way!

Leave the junk u see on nairaland

mespusinglez:
SHE ALWAYS GET THE D

Yet u are broke.

Shame

ladiesreject:


Omo if Tor say na so I for don gada them plenty ooo

Guy, are you that ugly I know that it is only in cases of exceptional bad looks that finding a girl becomes so difficult for a guy, especially if he is broke at the same time.

hello bro, good morning, let me be honest with u, that lady has a guy she likes and she is comparing you with him.
I was once in that situation before, she started with that, I don't know how to pet her, I shout too much on her, I am too arrogant, too aggressive, meanwhile, I asked from my close pals if they find me aggressive or arrogant, even my own mum and sister attested to it that I wasn't, I later summoned courage and asked her what the problem was, she said she is starting to like a guy, and she thinks, quote me well bro, she thinks she is in love with him. how can u be in love with another guy when u are still in a relationship with one? Bro, all this happened during my service year while she was still In sch, on a second thought, distance must have contributed to this, but bro, ask her, don't be too harsh, if possible go and see her, becos she might be seeing another guy. see u at the top bro

Ask the other guy how he does it, simple.

mespusinglez:
my girl always complain that i don't PET her..and that its affecting her badly.i asked her how do she want me to pet her she was MUTE.
That I Don't Know How To Pet Her And It's Not Helping matters...
i called her this morning ...after greeting her and was engaged in a convo she still brought up the talk of "i don't pet her and she don't like it." i then ask her again how do she want me to pet her she replied it's OK and i angrily end the call....
abeg make wunna help me o
coz i think i'm losing her

No 5 and 10.

https://www.nairaland.com/962850/ladies-which-these-dating-evils

Possibly No 6 as well.

Your girlfriend is seeing another person and as valentine day is approaching,she is deliberately seeking for a quarrel with you so that she can be free to be with the other guy.
just watch it,no matter what you do between now and 14th Feb,she won't be pacified.
it is a very old trick.

;DO BOY U NOT CARERING FOR HER THATS THE MEANING.... ;DO

mespusinglez:
22yrs a KID?

maturity is not by age bro.

Michelle55:
Op take note of this advice

Could this be from a personal experience standpoint? Hmmmm....

ENDTIMEISNEAR:
Op by you petting her means :

1) always be telling her sweet words.
2) always be taking her to fast foods joints, bars, beach and buying her sweet things like chocolate, ice cream, shawama and more sweet things girls love eating.
3) always be keeping her company and be there for her gisting, cuddling, kissing, saying sweet words and love making.
4)always be telling her sweet words on phone.

Op most especially Forget girls and focus on your Education.

LOL guy u be Savage oo.. After advising him.. Not quite long u are telling him not to.. Is it ur petting?

Marvis4real:
have you checked his own pic?

Oops! I just did. If that's actually him, then he's probably a boy in SS, or who should be more concerned with clearing his SSCEs and gaining an admission.

babra19:


So sorry that you do not know the meaning of petting from your lady
what she means is that
your good morning to her should be baby send me your account number
your good afternoon should be baby have you eaten, oya send your account number...the same thing goes on and on.

NAWA FOR YOU O

lenghtinny:
You got competition Bro.... Someone is messing with her head for sure

I THINK SO BRO

KAYD007:
I have the same issue with my babe too, that she wants to hear sweet words...that she will be thinking about when she is alone...but I don't do sweet words...it's irritates me... what's with ladies and petting and sweet words self? They have this fantasy make belive world ...that's devoid of reality.....mills and boons see what you have caused na...nansense

I'M NOT A FAN OF SWEET WORDS BRO....AND WILL NEVER BE O.....SOME RETARD JUST BRING PROBLEM FOR US

debygrin:
Nawa oo.. Wrong wrong advices every where...Op beta be careful some ppl advice can spoil rlshp

I TELL YOU BRO

Jman06:
Guy, are you that ugly I know that it is only in cases of exceptional bad looks that finding a girl becomes so difficult for a guy, especially if he is broke at the same time.

Ugly?
Hahahaha
Far from it
I didn't grow up in a ladies environment, so to woo them is like rocket science for me

YelloweWest:

Both u and your girlfriend seem not to know how to express yourself properly.

She simply means you are not romantic. You don't show affection. You are blind to hee emotions.

Work on the above
Learn to treat your lady better or someone else will.

YEAH I THINK I WILL GO WITH THIS ONE

federal9:


Mr man let me just help you a little with your do/does usage.

We use does with a pronoun/ third person pronouns

Does she,does he,does it. But when it's a negative sentence, you make use of she doesn't, he doesn't, it doesn't.

Do (you,they,we,i,....)

You do,do you,do they, do we, do i

When the sentence is negative
You don't, we don't, they don't, I don't.



Back to your topic. Abeg leave woman for now. They bring nothing but troubles.

Focus and make money.

THANK YOU ENGLISHIAN

skales67:


Pleases let her go. Never make the mistake of allowing a woman think your life revolves round her else you are finished

THANK YOU

skales67:


Too much of Zee World and Telenova series causes all that nonsense

I TELL YOU

Moboj:
Why are Nigerians soo misleading like this,simple advice people looking at grammar and spewing trash like they've diluted some crude things in their heads,Op she wants pettings,sweet words with nice gestures,not all pettings means the currency people,stop giving useless advices,simple English she used,petting you couldn't give good advice and you're talking about his grammatical structure,poor understanding you've got for those with negative posts
Nonsense misleading bunches

HAHA WELDONE SIR

communication is a two way thing. You cannot help her if she doesn't talk about how she wants to be treated and expect you to figure it out, so it is obvious she is not matured to understand how important communication is in a relationship. Just try and get her to talk to you and if after trying this you see no changes DITCH HER ASS

darefams:
hello bro, good morning, let me be honest with u, that lady has a guy she likes and she is comparing you with him.
I was once in that situation before, she started with that, I don't know how to pet her, I shout too much on her, I am too arrogant, too aggressive, meanwhile, I asked from my close pals if they find me aggressive or arrogant, even my own mum and sister attested to it that I wasn't, I later summoned courage and asked her what the problem was, she said she is starting to like a guy, and she thinks, quote me well bro, she thinks she is in love with him. how can u be in love with another guy when u are still in a relationship with one? Bro, all this happened during my service year while she was still In sch, on a second thought, distance must have contributed to this, but bro, ask her, don't be too harsh, if possible go and see her, becos she might be seeing another guy. see u at the top bro

YEA BRO DISTANCE IS ALSO ONE OF THE FACTOR...

there are two types of petting I know is it romantic petting or financial petting cos here in Nigeria.............( I no talk. pass there)

Dimples129:


I don't understand 'petting'

But she's telling you that you are not affectionate.

Do you just stroke her body when you guys are laying down?

Do you offer random massages?

Do you hold her often?

Women like physical contact for the sake of it... not to lead to sex but just because.

Op this is the true meaning of petting. It's about affection, affection and more affection.

labiodun48:
communication is a two way thing. You cannot help her if she doesn't talk about how she wants to be treated and expect you to figure it out, so it is obvious she is not matured to understand how important communication is in a relationship. Just try and get her to talk to you and if after trying this you see no changes DITCH HER ASS

BRO I TRIED. I DO ASK HER WHAT THE PROBLEM IS,BUT HER RESPONSE IS EITHER "IT'S NOTHING, IT'S OK OR IT'S COOL" THAT'S ALWAYS HER RESPONSE

Piercy:
there are two types of petting I know is it romantic petting or financial petting cos here in Nigeria.............( I no talk. pass there)

NO FURTHER DETAILS

khiaa:


Op this is the true meaning of petting. It's about affection, affection and more affection.

OK SIR I HEAR YOU