I'm not talking about getting their opinion about someone you are just kicking it with. But when you really decide that this is the one, do you seek the opinons of your friends to make your decision and if so, do their opinions even hold weight If you really love the person?

why should their opinion count? Dey wont be the one to live with the partner, it is you and you alone, - so, dont bother about other people's opinion.

because when you are in love you dont always think with clear eyes. It often takes a person outside of the situation to advise you.

I wouldn't take my friend's opinions on board, when choosing a life partner.

In the same vein, I don't interfere in my friend's private lives. We're all adults, and all make mistakes. Which is fine, as long as we learn from them, and don't make the same mistake twice.

Sometimes it help alot

@ iice : I must say your responses to various topics are superb. Keep up the good work

@ poster : like your family , true friends wouldn't want to mislead you. They might be seeing something you are not and probably won't see till it's too late. However , not all should be taken seriously and in the end you still have to make the ultimate decision.

Siena:

I wouldn't take my friend's opinions on board, when choosing a life partner.

In the same vein, I don't interfere in my friend's private lives. We're all adults, and all make mistakes. Which is fine, as long as we learn from them, and don't make the same mistake twice.

Good one!


@ Post!

I dont give a hoot wat my friends think. But my family's opinion . . well, it matters a lot!

When I was younger, MAYBE, but not anymore, I am old enough to know I am the one that has to live with the person, not my friends so what they say doesn't matter!