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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Annibel(f): 8:21pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
metroid:you're free deariie 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Ivorianaija(f): 8:23pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Darksider131:In my coming to Nigeria the climate of the country just seems sort of negative towards new or different things or ideologies. I just want these 3 months to pass by quickly so I can get out of this country. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by jaxxy(m): 8:23pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy: There are basically 2 types of gays those dat got it biologically and thise that got it via alternative interactions. Urs seems to be the latter. If u had this since nursery as u claim tho dats quite early to start feeling such ur parents already know rite or wrong? Now let me tell u this in every Human there is a male and female chromosomes or gene, wen u have a dormant male gene ur a man and wen u have a female dominant gene of female. How ever there are variations to this smtmes. Ur level of testosterone or estrogen plays a part in all this also. U can deal with this alone talk to somebody close tonu who can be unbiased and help u find urself. Sm people want to drag u to joining gays and others condemning it bt everything comes down to u and wat u chose after all options are looked at properly. Cheers |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by michkings: 8:24pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
U just need counseling/prayer to be free.. Cos to me it is VERY BAD TO FEEL UR FELLOW MAN... Period! |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by oloriooko(m): 8:33pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
spankyflex:Deranged mind if you know what you doing is right go and announce to your family members if they will not beat homo out of your twisted mind. Oloshi even low animals get sense pass you, your own don finish oloriburuku, better change before thunder roast your left ball |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by fifty5(m): 8:35pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
LordAdam16:oga every personality disposition is a learned behaviour because interaction with our environment shapes our personality. since you want to deflate my point you should have presented a superior argument.have you been erudited? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 8:41pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
fifty5: It is not true,blind people know how to laugh,where did they learn that from,children immediately they are born cry,where did they learn that |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by iPopAlomo(m): 8:43pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
You're Gay brah... embrace it... Or stay single forever... shikena... 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by leofab(f): 8:43pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shukusheka:and what makes you different from bokoharam? Nothing.. I hope one day you Get killed by them for not sharing their sentiments 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by pqmeup: 8:49pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Bro, I'll advice you to pray harder. Homosexual is wrong in the sight of God. Remember sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of this same very act. Good luck! |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by joe4christ(m): 8:50pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe: I wonder how this made sense to you. What a pattern of thought! @OP Pls embrace who you are, you're a gay, that's who you are, you can't outplay nature. Just live your life, but play low key especially if you're in this shithole country called Nigeria. Before they Lynch you. Ps: I'm so so so fvckingly straight, as matter of fact, I luv pussies so much, so no gay nigga should pm me pls. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by slegerman(m): 8:51pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
I am very surprise with the kind of comments am seeing here. Truly, we are living in a crazy world. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 8:54pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Let me try to make try to explain this to those who care naturally heterosexual people don't like homosexuality, and I also discovered that homosexual people don't like heterosuality,there is no problem with that,as human beings there are things we like and there are things we don't like,we are.biased,that is completely natural,where the problem lies is when you starting acting on your bias and start treating people badly. You shouldn't judge others based on your own preferences otherwise u would also be a victim of another person's prejudice.The reason I condemn homophobia is not just to stop the I'll treatment of gay people,you see every one of us or at least most of us find ourselves in one social minority group or the other the minority could be as a result of religious denomination,ethnicity, genotype,height,physical appearance,size,financial status and so many others If we can not learn to love ourselves irrespective of our various differences it would be difficult to achieve a peaceful society,if everyone was allowed to discriminate the class of people s/he doesn't like I don't know what Nigeria would look like,that is why we homophobic Nigerians are rushing to go to Western countries even though they embrace and treat gay people the same way as "straight" people 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by jmichael259(m): 8:57pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
You are not gay YOU ARE EITHER ASEXUAL OR JUST PLAIN INTROVERTED which kinda restricts people getting out of their comfort zones which involves ur own gender cos socialising with the opposite gender is naturally uncomfortable that is why guys get to learn and practise pick up lines and how to strike a convo with a gal. You can still let gayism pull you on just don't think you can get flattered by it. BTW YOU CAN BECOME CELIBATE OR BE WITH A MATURED LADY WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE LOVE NOT JUST BORING SEX FROM SLAY QUEENS |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by LordAdam16: 8:58pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
fifty5: No sh*t. So you're trying to say that introversion is a learned behavior as well. Since every personality disposition is a learned behavior? Can you hear yourself? The nature versus nurture debate is not an equation. If it were, all psychosocial observations would be uniform. Don't use words you have no idea of, because they sound knowledge-y. -Lord 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by chinnyonwu(m): 9:01pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Bullhari007:You need a lobotomy for saying homosexuality is a personal decision even after reading OPs story. Condemn what? He is just not fuc.king attracted to pussy. I ask you again zombie, do you think anyone would CHOOSE to be gay in a homophobic country like Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:01pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Those of you christians citing the Bibles condemnation for homosexuality,I hope you remember the story of Jesus and Mary Magdalene where Jesus said that only those without a sin should raise a stone,meanwhile since homosexuals are a common enemy everyone is now flexing spiritual muscle,if we carefully examine your life,you are far worse than the Op if at all he is bad as u claim he is,and remembere what the book of James said if you fail one law you are guilty of all,so if you engage in exam malpractice, tell lies,have premarital sex and you condemn the Op you are a HYPOCRITE |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:03pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: Exactly the point,why would someone CHOOSE to be gay in Nigeria of all countries 1 Like |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:05pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy:please don't allow the hate comments get to you. You are perfect the way you are ! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Henrolla(m): 9:05pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy: Get spiritual books and materials. Cos what you need at this point is not just zeal and readiness to stop but also knowledge on “how to stop" |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by BRATISLAVA: 9:09pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
mvem: Which of them accepted it? The LGBTQ minority who lobby like mad all day and night? Abeg, go and see how they are treated in this your society that you say accepted it. Nobody accepts them. But they are a political weapon used in the West, very much like boko Haram. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by joe4christ(m): 9:10pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
jaxxy: You sound even more biased than one can ever imagine. The nigga told you he never learnt this, his whole chemestry and body cells push him further towards gayism despite the practice is against his belief as a Christian. You'are not in his shoes, so don't address his issue as though u got a clue. He obviously is depressed cos he feels he is abnormal when actually he is very much normal, just that our primitive society just hasn't come to term with the fact that homosexuality is natural and not some fvcking sin as religious bullcrap tend to make us swallow 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by BRATISLAVA: 9:11pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Daeylar: Would you have a problem with a serial killer child? Guess you would embrace it. After all... It is an innate thing they are born with. If one is born with it, it can't be wrong. Right? |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:11pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
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Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by LordAdam16: 9:12pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
jmichael259: Say what you know. Asexual people don't have sexual attraction for anyone or anything for that matter. And there are heterosexual introverted people (like me). You are not god's gift to mankind. That you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are people who understand music as colors (synesthesia), and those who understand numbers as shapes (some savants). They're not f*cked up, because most of us are not like them. They are special, great, amazing people. You guys should f*cking read and learn more about the world you live in and the people, animals, and things you share it with. Don't stay in your echo chamber with your ignorant self and then start projecting misinformation because you expanded your diction. Don't understand anything. Read about it, watch a video, listen to a podcast. Your purpose in life is not to eat, sleep, and f*ck (and make a living to support that dreadful lifestyle). -Lord 7 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by joe4christ(m): 9:16pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
jmichael259: You don't just believe some people are born gay, do you Then you still got alot to learn! |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by 1Sharon(f): 9:17pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
spankyflex: You are dis gay ting |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by Nobody: 9:18pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
FluidQueen: Interesting! |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by jaxxy(m): 9:18pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
joe4christ: I think ure the biased one here. Im neither for or against and i stated 2 types of gays. Ive met gays and ive basically tried to understand them. Am gays arent gay at all bt confused and due to being influenced or jilted by their lovers turn to the opposite for wat they normally go for. I meet a gal who says she was lesbian only for her years later to declare she's back 2 straight. There are reasons people become gay and dats wat i seek to unravel and then clear up. |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by coolscott(m): 9:19pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy:Let me please tell you one truth. Some people have hormonal imbalance. I have seen women who want to become men on reality tv. Part of what they do is take regular doses of male hormones such that even the shape of their faces eventually acquire the look of a man. I did not have to see this on tv anyway to know. Men and women both have male and female sex hormones. But men have by far of the male hormones than the female ones. The same thing for women, who have by far more of the female hormones than the male ones. That is why during puberty (when sex hormones start developing in men) some men see their nipples temporarily rise. The female hormones are developing alongside the male but they eventually get over-shadowed by the dominance of male hormones. What I am saying in essence is... Please take hormonal treatment. Also, as someone said, how this started in history, may be very relevant to this. Facing (and taking care of - ie dealing with) what happened that caused/started this in the past [ if this is the case] is super powerful as you are confronting the reason why things took a turn for this path. But lest you forget... Hormonal treatment works. Hormones are the very things God created to handle our sexuality, that makes a man's voice deep or a girls waist swell/sway I think you will be fine. Hormonal treatment takes effect progressively and in my view is the physical cement with which heal this anomaly |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by coolscott(m): 9:20pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
Shankieboy:Let me please tell you one truth. Some people have hormonal imbalance. I have seen women who want to become men on reality tv. Part of what they do is take regular doses of male hormones such that even the shape of their faces eventually acquire the look of a man. I did not have to see this on tv anyway to know. Men and women both have male and female sex hormones. But men have by far of the male hormones than the female ones. The same thing for women, who have by far more of the female hormones than the male ones. That is why during puberty (when sex hormones start developing in men) some men see their nipples temporarily rise. The female hormones are developing alongside the male but they eventually get over-shadowed by the dominance of male hormones. What I am saying in essence is... Please take hormonal treatment. Also, as someone said, how this started in history, may be very relevant to this. Facing (and taking care of - ie dealing with) what happened that caused/started this in the past [ if this is the case] is super powerful as you are confronting the reason why things took a turn for this path. But lest you forget... Hormonal treatment works. Hormones are the very things God created to handle our sexuality, that makes a man's voice deep or a girls waist swell/sway I think you will be fine. Hormonal treatment takes effect progressively and in my view is the physical cement with which heal this anomaly FluidQueen |
Re: I Have Contemplated Suicide Because Of My Sexual Orientation by CupOfT(m): 9:21pm On Feb 17, 2018 |
FluidQueen:c'mon... For a start, homosexuality does not come natural at some point there ain't a thing like that, y then must he be encouraged to accept a learned behavior that could be unleashed. My friend pls dnt listen to anybody telling to take a nature that is not of yur father in heaven. Am glad you said you are believer, give yursef to Him and don't cease in yur prayers. I will remember u in my prayers too |
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