greiboy:
You maybe right, but if what people call "love" is total sacrifice of one's wellbeing, then I may never fall in love

calddon:
If u surgically remove it only to find out later that your kids belong to different men..what will u do?

Blackfyre:
Hypothetically speaking, God forbid this happens to anybody.

My question goes thus, your partner be it wife or husband as the case applies, looses the ability to have sex with you one way or the other permanently, will you proceed to get a surgery so as to remove the sexual urges within you so as to not make your partner feel left out or inadequate. Also to show a form of love to him/her as we are in this together.

I am putting into perspective that circumstances can never change and that this is between a husband and wife which is believed shouldn't have another woman as wife nor should either have a side piece.

Will you and why?

Piercy:




the very minute you used for someone else it was then I knew you my friend have never been in love.
I did a year for a girl who dumped me as soon as she got into school she had been everything to me , a year was like days for me ..it was a promise I kept ..and you know what If it was five years I had to wait then I would have .
I didn't go crazy or but when she dumped me I was happy to have been part of her life .
love isn't selfish ,love. isn't about you it is about the other person....its what God and Abraham knew and that's why they were willing to sacrifice their own .

winnar:
If your partner truly loves you.., he/she will not allow you to have the surgery. Any partner that allows his/her partner to have that sugery is wicked and selfish.

Love is not wicked and selfish.

Blackfyre:


So you will go seek other people asides your husband and who you are lawfully to have sex with?

press005:


hmmmmm, dats a better reason y solidarity should be applied in a constructive way rather dan being destructive.

jiboladhino:
would'nt giv it a second tot before doin it .....i love my wife that much

Mariinee:
I will leave him (no sorry). See, sex ignites and fuels love. What's the purpose if I can't have sex with my man? Love is an abstract feeling, sex is what makes it concrete. At least, that's my belief.

Mariinee:
Hell no, fvck no. Sex is a necessity and I'm not talking about sex with some plastic human or dick-looking d!ldo.

greiboy:
realest chick

I throway salute reach your side

Piercy:


then you have only denied yourself the true meaning of life...its not about us , life is love ..love is life ....even the bible acknowledged .

no matter the heart breaks always love ....always love its the essence of who we are and who we are meant to be.

BdorianGray:


Smh! Ola what foundational values are you laying in preparation for a successful matrimony. I think you really need to think about the way u have allowed certain kind of iinfluences to shape who you are making out your self tto be.. Good luck!

Blackfyre:


I totally unflinchingly agree with this post.

But question is, can you do so for someone you are meant to spend the rest of your life with? It says for better or for worse till DEATH do us part?

He is not demanding such from you ooo

kimbraa:
I get your question but is there such thing as a surgery to remove sexual urges? That said, since marriage is for 'Better' for 'Worse', I'll do no such thing as suggested but make alternatives to get satisfied which doesn't include cheating. Don't ask me which.

winnar:
since he is not demanding i do it.., why shd i go and do it?

That will be disrespecting him na.

Blackfyre:


But that is against the rules of marriage. It says for better or worse till death do us part? Death is the only thing that can terminate it.

Fourwinds:
hmmmmm....tongue to bombard the Sambisa

Peterpanny:
lienus keep lienusing

Randy91:



this one is under d influence of a BIG DICKson

Blackfyre:


Nothing evil, it's a simple question about what can an individual sacrifice.

By arranging partner, haven't you broken the terms of marriage which says death is the only thing that can do a couple apart?

Fourwinds:
take this for saying the truth

HeyBee27:
No,i am not lying.

Peterpanny:
i did not say you are lying,i said you are lienusing.

HeyBee27:
You are not serious

goldedprince:

You know say that's for only Christians right?
Not all of us are Christians