but wait o,why u no first come here come ask weather to disflower her then? u don do am finish now u rush come here dey look for advice.if no be say I no dey insult person I for say make thunder strike your penis

Gungnir:
Marry her, I would if I were in your shoe. If she wants to further, you should help her to it

After going through some comments on here I'm just laughing my heart out

Send her back to school? To do what if I may ask?

Someone that was through with secondary school and still does not know something as elementary as 7 x 3?


OP, no waste your money send her anywhere, you'll regret it. Just help her improve in speaking mostly and if she's a bit smart, she'll understand more when she starts reading from books you'll provide her. If she knows how to cook, I wonder if you want a wife or a spokesperson for wanting her to be educated.

Lord knows if I someday find myself in your shoes, I'll get her for my daughter..

NICE, well I cannot tell you not to marry her after the good words you said about her, eduction should not be much problem it can be settled. I can not advice you to send her to school first. Marry her first in a mini way , pay her bride price and send her to school. their is nothing man have not seen before.

If you love her, go for her, you can always train her in an adult education class, don't just ignore her because she's not educated, after all, one can still be rich without education.

I hate guys that jump into every thing without thinking...
When u were disturbing her, u didn't know she wasn't a graduate... Or u wan lie...

If u looking for who to consol ur greed it's not here....

U knew all this now ur talking...! Coward.
A real man takes charge of a situation.

Tell us sth meaningful. U launch the girl now ur talking.

RUFAI the mongul

rufai the mongul

Halarby:


I don't know how Nigerians think. He should marry her because he had sex with her, right? Didn't she consent? Didn't they both have fun? Didn't she allow herself to be used? If she truly wanted marriage, she knows the right thing to do, why didn't she ply that route?

why rain curses upon his future innocent daughters? Nigerians and curses are just inseparable.

I DID NOT CURSE HIM BRO. DONT GET ME WRONG. I AM ANNOYED THE WAY HE TREATED THE GIRL AS A PROSTITUTE

abfan:



Best comment Here, In my Opinion.

Thank you!

Same applies to yobo and adaeze likewise Kanu and his wife you can also assist her education if you really want to help her future. See beyond the angle in her two laps.

correctguy101:


After going through some comments on here I'm just laughing my heart out

Send her back to school? To do what if I may ask?

Someone that was through with secondary school and still does not know something as elementary as 7 x 3?


OP, no waste your money send her anywhere, you'll regret it. Just help her improve in speaking mostly and if she's a bit smart, she'll understand more when she starts reading from books you'll provide her. If she knows how to cook, I wonder if you want a wife or a spokesperson for wanting her to be educated.

Lord knows if I someday find myself in your shoes, I'll get her for my daughter..

If she wants to, I see no reason why he shouldn't do it. At least he has said she is faithful and all. Even if na English course she want do, if it's going to make her feel fulfulled and proud of herself, why not?

sexaddict08:
She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.

But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.

She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place...
But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks

If she's willing to learn why not encourage her to do that
You can marry and train her if you're too scared of training her before marrying her
There are many people that are doing well that didn't go to school...
You can encourage her to learn a trade...

There are educated illiterates...when you go fit reason say this one just go school waste money...
The only thing you seem to notice in her is her educational background... You are there to encourage and help her become better....

The other day we read about a lady(banker) celebrating her husband whom she used the word *illiterate* for... And after 5years she's still proud to call him her husband, though she encouraged him... So what would be your story after 5years with her?

sexaddict08:
She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.

But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.

She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place...
But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks

All these ppl asking for advise weda to marry a lady out not, I don't really understand. Does it mean you don't kw what you want in a woman or what.

You've bn with this girl and you kw if she has what it takes to make a good wife for you to not. You should tell yourself what you expect to see in a woman. If you don't want a woman that is not a graduate then stick to dat and spare is all these unnecessary questions.

Meanwhile when you were opening her you never remember that she's not a graduate. Abeg drink your tea.

sexaddict08:
She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.

But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.

She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place...
But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks

wait do u want me to blive this story, no be d same gal u said shez pregnancy?

marry her and then u both plan her academics together

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Letzdothething:
how can you suggest that he sends her to school with his money? Upon all the issues of failed relationship after such stunt?

Lol you people never learn

I mean after he marries her obviously

braine:
If you love each other, it can work. She's not too young to return to school. It depends on her willingness to get educated.

You get brain true true

@poster : This right here is your advice

Dear poster, from what you've said,shes got all the qualities you want apart from the fact that she didn't attend the university,I suggest you go after your happiness and peace of mind.Its not too late,there are a lot of girls that went to the university after they got married.Whats important is that you love each other. You can talk to our professional relationship counselor for free on 092749494 or chat on counselme.ng

sexaddict08:


the future plus Tribal differences

Bro. Tribalism z one big barrier. No offence but Igbo folks r very very tribalistic. Before u invest in her or plan doing so try to see if her pple will accept u

From experience I will tell u most Igbo HV met are always very tribslistic regarding marriage and many other stuffs.


Look before u leap unless u don't mind educating her for the sake of God coz once she's smfin 8 outta 10 chance her pple will want her to go for an Igbo guy.

braine:


Tribe is not an issue these days. It depends on how educated your parents are, though.

Bro tribalism z s big issue. No offence most especially with igbos.

Trust me m speaking from experience. Its even more rampant among the so called educated ones.

If she's an Hausa lady I HV no issue but igbos r rigidly tribalistic with marriage most especially with their ladies.


Dz not a hating post m speaking from experience here.

correctguy101:


After going through some comments on here I'm just laughing my heart out

Send her back to school? To do what if I may ask?

Someone that was through with secondary school and still does not know something as elementary as 7 x 3?


OP, no waste your money send her anywhere, you'll regret it. Just help her improve in speaking mostly and if she's a bit smart, she'll understand more when she starts reading from books you'll provide her. If she knows how to cook, I wonder if you want a wife or a spokesperson for wanting her to be educated.

Lord knows if I someday find myself in your shoes, I'll get her for my daughter..

And ur daughter might end up calling 2*2 22 . Lol

Try to train and blend her to your taste. Age is still on her side, she can still learn, if is about graduate you're on your own because education does not determine success. Sending her to school might expose her to many things that you couldn't imagine. from a friend experience

Trash

my advice is go ahead and marry her education is not everything u can teach her urself \(-ㅂ-)/ ♥ ♥ ♥

Gracesofar:


And ur daughter might end up calling 2*2 22 . Lol

hehehehehe....
Her mother won't let such happen and I'm not dead yet

sexaddict08:
She has been with me for the past one year....faithful n all that...she's almost perfect. 22 and Igbo, and has a good dress sense. Almost anything wey she buy they fit her oooo no matter how cheap. She's got that.

But, she no go school oooo. She can chat n read but not fluently. If i jokingly ask her a random question like 7 x 3...she may not know it ooo, even though she finished secondary school 3 years ago.

She sha love me die, and i actually opened that place...
But what do u think of a future with her?? i need advice folks

I was in a similar situation but mine was quite different from yours cos I knew Wah I was looking for in a woman. Lemme cut the long chase short, I married her and even before the marriage, I got her a diploma course in ABU Zaria. Glory be to God, she's done with that n I want her to start 200L in Open university and reasons for that, is that we have a son now. I haven't had any reason to regret my choice in her. same as my parents. They're happy they respected my decision. I have a wife and not a woman. She's all a man wants n not those sisis that claim to be graduate n lack some basic homely attitude. Another thing that buttress my decisions was that I asked a simple question n looked around me, most of the graduate married women, end up not working n no hand-work again but mine has one and she's about to enroll in a NOUN soonest. Love is all that matters.

Are you looking for a wife or an employee? Personally, I believe a high school graduate should is a "graduate". You should be more concerned about about other variables like loyality and compatibility. Those variable can not be taught.

But if being a graduate matters so much to you, why not advise to enrol in part time school if that is also what she wants?

Good luck.

teemonk:

I was in a similar situation but mine was quite different from yours cos I knew Wah I was looking for in a woman. Lemme cut the long chase short, I married her and even before the marriage, I got her a diploma course in ABU Zaria. Glory be to God, she's done with that n I want her to start 200L in Open university and reasons for that, is that we have a son now. I haven't had any reason to regret my choice in her. same as my parents. They're happy they respected my decision. I have a wife and not a woman. She's all a man wants n not those sisis that claim to be graduate n lack some basic homely attitude. Another thing that buttress my decisions was that I asked a simple question n looked around me, most of the graduate married women, end up not working n no hand-work again but mine has one and she's about to enroll in a NOUN soonest. Love is all that matters.

nice one

NIGHTMAREOO7:


wait do u want me to blive this story, no be d same gal u said shez pregnancy?

we have settled that phase amicably...no victim, no vanquish

Psoul:


All these ppl asking for advise weda to marry a lady out not, I don't really understand. Does it mean you don't kw what you want in a woman or what.

You've bn with this girl and you kw if she has what it takes to make a good wife for you to not. You should tell yourself what you expect to see in a woman. If you don't want a woman that is not a graduate then stick to dat and spare is all these unnecessary questions.

Meanwhile when you were opening her you never remember that she's not a graduate. Abeg drink your tea.

it might be easy for you, but making some life decisions is not easy for everyone...As great as Chris Oyakhilome is, he's in a broken marriage.

Gracesofar:


Bro. Tribalism z one big barrier. No offence but Igbo folks r very very tribalistic. Before u invest in her or plan doing so try to see if her pple will accept u

From experience I will tell u most Igbo HV met are always very tribslistic regarding marriage and many other stuffs.


Look before u leap unless u don't mind educating her for the sake of God coz once she's smfin 8 outta 10 chance her pple will want her to go for an Igbo guy.

u are a pathetic person, everyones knows that yorubas are more trabilistic when it comes to marriage expecially with their women. why turning the table around?