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Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 1:34pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
I was thinking recently on the complexity of some ladies. The answers guy receive from ladies varies, but when is their NO really NO. These are bound to happen after NO: 1. The guy withdraws immediately, but the gal accuses him that he lacks perseverance 2. The gal says NO while YES is intended. I don't know the reason for this. 3. The gal says NO and stands on it. 4. The gal says NO so that she will not be tagged 'cheap' 5. The gal says NO to prove the seriousness of the guy 6. The gal says NO to win a point against the guy 7. The gal says NO because she wants to consider it. Mature responses please : How do we know your NO is NO? |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by DWJOBScom(m): 1:38pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
I don't care whatsoever meaning is given to it but "no" means pack up and leave her body alone. If you are nice, you can pamper her and discover what the challenge is. Respecting that NO will save you alot of drama on social media 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 1:45pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
DWJOBScom: Hmmm... So, u don't press after the first NO 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by DWJOBScom(m): 1:54pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Benard94: You gain more when you wait! You gain trust too when you don't get angry and storm off 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by BiafranBushBoy: 2:08pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
As a sales man, no means two things... 1) I am not interested 2) I am interested but not fully convinced. It is up to you to know which... P.s.This isn't for relationship ooo... Who that one help? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 2:41pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Ladies are even avoiding the thread... |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by mespusinglez(m): 2:47pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
I Don't Woo A Lady Twice
Once She Said No...
I Move On
Don't Have Time To Play Gentlemanism i.e if that word exist 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 2:55pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
mespusinglez: How do align that with perseverance...? |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Cadec007(m): 3:15pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Benard94:noticed......some might not know when they really mean their no |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 3:27pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Cadec007: This seems serious! They don't know when they really mean a NO? |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by marvin906(m): 3:30pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
if a chick tell no twice.. i don end that chapter.. buh really women are the most confused set of peeps in this world..
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Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 3:33pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
marvin906: So your own na TWICE... |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by 4FACEADELEKE(m): 3:59pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Benard94:When a woman tells me No instantly I GO |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by MissRaine69(f): 4:31pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
I don’t do grey areas. A no is followed by a reason why it’s a no I won’t say no if I mean to say yes Life is too short. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 4:54pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
MissRaine69: First female to speak out... Others are hiding |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
My NO is always NO, I don't joke around, if I like you, I tell you, you will not beat me, I don't want you, I tell you a capital "NO". My decisions are not flexible. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Nobody: 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
I take the no of a lady straight as no. I don't try to read other meaning to it. I don't try hard or persist when it comes to Wooing ladies because that is only a pretext for friend zoning me against my wish or turning me into a maga. 6 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by victorian(f): 5:07pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
DWJOBScom: So true. No is No. Guys shouldnt push it ,nor get angry. It simply worsens the situation. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 5:10pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Gals are just strolling in... Welcome |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Seun(m): 5:28pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
No means no. If a girl says no when she means yes, or vice verse, you don’t want that type of dangerous liability (“alakoba”) in your life, so it’s still best to take the no as a no and move on quickly. 13 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Mandrake007(m): 5:32pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
when you get physical with her and ram it into her dry if she let's out a loud scream like NOOOOOOOO!!! then she mean No. |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Blackhawk01: 5:35pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
My No is No! If you like crawl till Jesus comes, I no go look your side. Just move on please. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by HeWrites(m): 5:38pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Blackhawk01: What if tarty billion is involved |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Hintboy: 5:39pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Mandrake007: 1 Like
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Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 5:43pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Seun: What if she is testing your perseverance or proving not cheap? There are cases where NO turned to YES. Besides, I have heard gals chirping out regrets when the guy refused to press further. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by sod09(m): 6:20pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
No means no, I don't know why some guys read meaning to it like she didn't mean it. |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by sod09(m): 6:24pm On Mar 01, 2018 |
Benard94:yeah that's true have been there before, she went further to tell me how she was enjoying it that she only said the no to see how I will beg her. Well I told her I didn't regret respecting her NO. Prevention is better than cure most of these ladies are confused |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Mar 02, 2018 |
Seun: dangerous liability (“alakoba”) i am rofling here |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Benard94(m): 11:48am On Mar 03, 2018 |
sod09: Invariably, she later said YES |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Adamummya(f): 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2018 |
most times women say no, for you to press futher so they won't look so cheap for me,my no is my no, the only time i regretted saying no was when sm1 asked me to send my account number . |
Re: Ladies Only : When Is Your 'NO' Really 'NO'? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2018 |
Sometimes it's complicated |
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